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i'm 18/f

i had sex for the first time recently so my knowledge of everything isnt quite clear yet. my question is, even if i'm not on birth control, if the condom was used correctly (which i'm pretty confident it was) does that mean i'm safe from being pregnant?

Anytime you use one it does help prevent you from getting pregnant or from getting an STD but to answer your question... No it does not mean that you are safe from getting prgnant. You have probbly heard this a million and one times butthe only form of birth control that is 100% effective is abstinance...(not having sex)... I hoped this helped hun...
Let me know how everything works out for you...

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im not a lesbian AT ALL.
i like men and im straightttt...
im 18 years years old and i have a best friend whose a girl who im ALWAYS WITH. i have never been attracted to her or never ever made a move on her and she never made a move on me but we got really drunk together and we made out!!!! we were naked a we made out and ending up going really far...
she went down on me and i went down on her and we fingered each other.
it was so weird....

were laughing it off now but idk i feel so weird about it and cant stop thinking about it.
im not gay but ew i feel so weird.
what do i do?
why dud this happen?
how do i fix this?

welll...when people get drunk they do some pretty messed up things but if it is rall bothering you this much maybe you should talk to your friend about it.

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hey so im 15 f

~well me and this guy in my classs during school would always flirt and like touch and constantly just flirt.... well...recently we started texting ALOT like all day! and he has recently started to talk sexually.... like he wants us to do stuff.... so now he wants us to hang out and you know ... do stuff.... well i have never done anything before.... like not even kissed.... welll not like actuallly..... so like i reallly wanna have fun with him ! but like i wouldnt go past oral .... well maybey not even that I DONT KNOW YET! like idk what to do ..... do it ... or not do it... so like basically what i am asking is..... what are the positives and negatives to taking him up on his offer? and please dont give negatives i want positives to! :) THANKS :)

Seriously hun... you should definately wait. You're 15. The first time I had sex I was pressured into it by the guy. And I really regret it now. My opinion is that you should wait until you are really ready... Don't let anyone pressure you into something that you don't want to do...Let me know how everything goes.

Oh and if he really likes you... he will respect whatever decission you make.

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I had sex for the first time 3 years ago, and have had sex pretty regularly since. I have always heard that it hurts the first couple of times, but it ALWAYS hurts me. And getting aroused is not the problem. I know people say it's because "you need to relax" or "try foreplay" but that isn't the issue. This may be too much information, but I can get reeeally wet, and I'm completely comfortable with who I have sex with, so not being able to relax is not the issue either. I can have a clitoral orgasm, so I prefer oral sex. But it just does not feel good vaginally. Could it be because I'm a very small person? I'm 5'3" and only weigh about 95 lbs. I feel like my vagina stays as tight as it was 3 years ago.

Well maybe you should try asking your gynecologist. I have had problems with my uterus and I went to mine and he told me exactly what was wrong. It might be your best bet. And the safest.

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