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hey im shivi, im ere 2 giv as much honest advice as i can, trust me, iv bin thru alot alredy n im only 16, so i kno how ppl feel, i listen well and im the number 1 agony aunt for my friends so im trusted easily n if ya want any more advice or wanna chat about things privatly ask me for my msn kk? n dnt forget to be happy! luff 2 y'all mwa xxxx

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if you have sex like a lot in a 3 months.. and then just stop can your period cycle change because im almost 2 weeks late and i havent gotten it yet and i did have unprotected sex but i dont think im pregnant.

sex can sometimes can mess up your cycle and i know what you mean with that because it messed mine up but if i were you id go to the doctors and get tested! because not only could you be pregnant but you could also have a STI. i think the most sensible idea to stop you from worrying or anything is go and get tested for STI's n take a pregnancy test there aswell

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My gf and i are 15 and weve been together for 6 months we make out and that but she wants to start to do a bit more im a bit nervous and well she wants to see my penis and well its not that big im really worrried does it matter that much especially if its small?

The one thing that most lads worry about is their size! and size does not make the slightest bit of difference it's all about the feeling you have for each other not about the things your doing with each other.
And you've got to remember your still going through puberty so no matter how big or small it is then it's going to get bigger as time passes.
Another thing you've got to remember is your still only 15, it's illegal to have sex and if you don't feel confident enough to show anything then maybe you need to take a step back and think are you ready?
Im 16 now and me and my boyfriend havn't done anything more than makeout because i don't feel emotionally ready (baring mind iv had a tough life) so don't let your gf pressure you into anything and if she's half the girl you think she is then she'll understand, if she keeps pressuring you then maybe she's not worth it chuck
just do things when you feel ready x

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16,female

how can i be more comfortable with my body? i mean im about 5'6 and im only about 110 pounds. i think im skinny but im fine with the way i look the only thing is that when guys are like "let me see your boobs" or something haha that sounds bad but like if i was going out with someone i dont feel comfortable AT ALL letting them see my private stuff. i dont know why but how can i become more comfortable..i think its so awkard when boys do that to me. ive only flashed guys one time and it was at night and only for like 20 seconds ahha but IT TOOK ME A ALONG TIME for it to actually happen.i know alot of guys think im hot so they wouldnt say anything bad about me and im not saying i want to be a slut or anything but i just wish i was comfortable with that kind of stuff. and also when boys finger girls and stuff how do you keep "down there" smooth. because its embarassing since mines always like prickly and it would be weird if they were to go down there and feel that! i dont know if its just me or what but i dont know how to get over these things!

the way to be more comfortable around boys is to become more comfortable with yourself! i know it seems hard because trust me it took a long time for me to become comfortable to flash at people but the way i did it was every time i was alone in the house id stand infront of the mirror naked and pretend that my reflection was someone i didnt know...then i started picking out all the things that look good on the reflection rather than the bad things and soon after i started to become more comfortable around boys! and about keeping smooth...dont worry about it too much because most boys dont care about that! all they care about when doing things like that is how enjoyable they can make it if that makes sense lol hope iv been some help to you!

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