Hey! I am Shianne! i can honestly say that i am completely sure that i can help you with any problem! this is what i do...ive help many people and ive done some amazing things!!
shianne
E-mail: y0or-honeediip@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Lynn Ma.
Occupation: Councelor
Age: 18
Member Since: February 1, 2005
Answers: 34
Last Update: March 16, 2006
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well ive got some problems. I ahve had some bad thots like suicidal and stuff and keep thinking to myself what i have the power to do and stuff. well i am also really depressed sometimes and fake with people. thers only one person im true to but thast besides the point. Anyway i think there is something really rong with me and i just wanna find out what it is. (link)
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hy there...u may have some depression...you are not alone and you can get help.. everyone becomes depressed sometimes.. you should definatley make an appointment with a theapist. trust me you will feel alot better when you recieve proffsional help. always realize no matter how bad things get on this earth that can be so awful sometimes....its the only place we know! nobody lives forever and you should want to stay on this earth for as long as your intended to! no matter how bad things get remember that there is always a way of things workin themselves out! you have to think about these things! if you commit suicide u dont know what is goin to happen! everyone is soo lucky to be put on this planet! i know this all sounds cheezy but its all tru! you should call a doctor right away because depression is a real disease that can be treated! good luck things can only get better! be patient and remmber suicide is the biggest most selfish crime you could commit! you are not only ruining and ending your life but you will hurt alo of people around you and put a lastin negative effect on everyone around you even if you dont feel ne 1 would care!
good luck
yours truly
shianne
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How can it be that you can have casual sex? I am a virgin and some of my friends have had sex. Those who have also have casual sex. I just don't understand how you can have sex without having a comitment. Doesn't it still end up being a comitment because someone will want a relationship. It's natural for humans to want to have a relationship. So why is it that people can have casual sex with different people without a more serious relationship?? (link)
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Hey! everyone has their own opinion! sex is a very confusing subject. to some people it can be one of the most important decisions in their lifetime and to others it doesnt mean a thing. it depends on many things. some people have sex for fun and others do it for love. some people just do it to rebel and others do it for affection or attention. you may be confused because you havent experienced it yet. you have a great outlook and theres not many people who take sex seriously. sometimes people get clouded by the media or their peers. you'll know when your ready and you know what your looking for. just becareful and make sure u find someone on the same page or you will get hurt! keep up the good out look and stay strong! respect other peoples sexuality and they will respect yours!
good luck,
yours truly,
shianne
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hi shiann i have a problem, everytime i think of you i get hard and i just wanna fuck the shit out of you everytime we talk. i wanna be with you an have mad kids. will u marry me? or at least can we hook up, if your a good advvice columist you'll help me out
love j (link)
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Dear J,
I think that i will help you out the best i can in the most appropriate and proffesional formation! I will give you some advice...if you think about the fact that i would never be with you in a sexual way...maybe you will lose interest! sometimes people have feelings for someone that are made on impulse. you probally dont love me or want to have kids...you just need attention...in fact J..in my line of work...i realized guys who crave this kind of sexual attention or display this explicit behavior...are usually hiding a secret. Do you ever feel attracted to men?
good luck!
yours truly,
shianne
P.S. please be appropriate in the near future!
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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!! (link)
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Well i understand your confusion! abortion is a very controversial subject. some people believe that if a woman is raped it is more ok for her to have an abortion because it was forced upon her and it wasnt her fault and she shouldnt have to have a painful memory by having a baby with someone who hurt her so much...on the other hand it still is an innocent baby who also wasnt at fault. Woman are going to decide what they want...everyone has different beliefs and sometimes others just dont understand, we arent in their shoes so i guess the best thing you can do is support your friends no matter what they do because its what they believe in.
good luck!
yours truly,
shianne
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I am goin to see the love of my life this weekend! im sooo excited! but im not sure how far i should go with him. we have talked about it and we want to wait for things like sex, but im still not sure on how far i should go. i am 14 and he is 16. he means the world to me and i want to show him that! how can i show him that other than sexual activity but still let a little activity take place? (link)
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I am not going to be one of those people who says..."ur to young...wait!" if you really feel good about this relationship...there are many things you can do besides having sex! before u let any "action" take place... let him no ahead of time just how far you plan to go and which lines you dont want to cross! kissing is a safe and affectionate way for you both to get close! good luck and remember....if u love eachother...it doesnt matter what you do!
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