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Hi. :) I'm Sara. My friends call me "Sharpie". So call me whichever you please. I'm a 17 year old female and I live in Hamilton Ontario. I attend CHS and I'm Grade 11. I'm a hockey playing cheerleader there. :) Soon to be a Delta Red Raider. (H) I may seem young but I've been told I give great advice. I'm a kickass writer and want to somehow use that in the future. (IF!)When I go to university I plan on minoring in history and Majoring in Drama, and becoming a Drama teacher in a High School setting. Haha, because I'm a drama nerd that is in love with english. I have morals and do believe that everyone deserves a fair chance. I love debates. Man oh man how I wish my school had a debate team. Haha. I do have a sense of humour, as well as a very serious, emotional side. I tend to open up like a book, so if you ask me what's wrong you'll most likely regret it. I'm currently single, as if it matters. hardy har har. My friends are my life, as if it mattered to you people.
Well, that's a bit of my life story.. want more message me. I love mail. I'll answer back, scouts honour.
Or.. add my msn! i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com

Bye Folks
E-mail: i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: My Mom :) haha. Hamilton Ontario Canada
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: November 4, 2006
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Last Update: September 26, 2007
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what does it mean when ppl say like i droped the soap or something along those lines? (link)
if you're saying it in the sense like oh whe you go to jail make sure you dont drop the soap.. they're saying that if guys/girls go there and havent had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex they tend to go for the same sex so it just means watch out when you bend over, so to speak.

Hope I Helped

Sara


What are some ways to make a guy cum other than handjobs, blowjobs, and sex? Me and my boyfriend aren't ready for blowjobs or sex yet, but we want to find another way for him to cum besides from handjobs. Thanks. (link)
maybe some phone sex or a little harmless foreplay. :]

hope i helped.

Sara


This is going to sound completely crazy maybe, and I'm only 15/Female, and I dont plan on having sex until I'm married. But it hurts for me to wear tampons even, and even if I get the petite size, it doesnt go in all the way and like an inch of it sticks out. Its embarssing because does that mean sex will hurt really bad? I know its supposed to hurt either way. But i think my youknow.. is just .. small? i dont know it this makes anysense at all. (link)
this happened to a friend of mine(and me:S), she was a virgin and it hurt her a lot too. and then she and her boyfriend had sex and now it doesnt hurt.

my only suggestion is that since you're waiting til marriage(i totally respect it:)) would be to maybe masturbate a little? to get yourself a bit looser, it may help.

Hope I Helped.

Sara


I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused. (link)
i comepletely agree!!
i'm 15 going on 16 and i've already had sex.. and believe me.. it was a huge mistake. i have no idea why girls this young who probably havent even hit puberty yet are having sex. When i was 12 i still thought boys had cooties. when i was 13 i was just hitting like grade 7 or 8 and i was experimenting with new friends. society has a lot of problems nowadays. its the media i tell yah. girls are getting ideas into their heads about them having to be pin thin and non virgins by the time they're 13. you're are making an amazing decision and you are more mature then you think you are. i'd be jealous if i was your friend :) ha ha.

hope i helped.

happy holidays.

Sara


ok im not tryin to b a bitch.... but i was reading some of your "advice" and i really dont think you kno what your talking about. your right sex is about loving someone and you shouldnt just go fuckin anyone, but sex is also about having fun. i mean people have sex cuz they r horny most of the time not because they wanna show each other how much they care, even though that does happen you cant tell me that you have never had sex just because you needed it. you would have 50 million different positions if it wasnt about fun and variety! (link)
ok it is "advice" im trying to be logical here.. not a slut. if you dont like it then dont read it. it has nothing to do with you unless you are the person that asked. Sure sex is fun.. if you seriously have no one to love and never will love someone. also.. i dont know you so im obviously not going to share my sex life. thanks for your "concern" but just for a little tip.. its my own advice and my own opinion. suck it up because i dont care.


Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not? (link)
You're 14. If you want to do it then do it but if you really want advice for it then it just shows how "mature" you are.

I dont mean to sound like a bitch but its the truth. If you want to be HIV positive or have AIDS for the rest of your life and just throw it away.. go right ahead.

Another sign that you "aren't ready".. you say it's fun. Sex isn't about having fun, it's about love and commitment and knowing that the person is in it because they love you. Not so they can "get a piece."

There's a lot of risks in having sex. Pregnancy, diseases, dirty looks, mental breakdowns. These are amoung many things.

Another thing.. stay a virgin while you can. Believe me I made the mistake at 14ish and I wish I could take it back and still have it. Like somethings, your virginity you can't get back and if you're catholic it's sacred and it's a sin. Period. Also, girl's value their virginity.. well I know I do, now that it's gone. Believe me.. it's one of the best things you can have.

Tell me your decision.

Sara


okay i am a virgin, so i haven't had experience with guys pleasing me "down there". i am getting married next month and i know it is something that will come up soon, so i want to know how i could make sure that it is fresh. so it doesn't smell or taste nasty. thank you:)
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dear "down there"

i've heard that if you drink cranberry juice.. NOT!! cranberry juice cocktail for 2 weeks you wont have a smell.




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