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so i took plan b. Cause i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. sooooo he came over my house and then like at 4 o clock in the morning we had sex (which means it was Saturday) and then i took it like 10 pm on Monday that means it was under 72 hours right?
but i did'nt throw up which was one of the symptoms does this mean that it did'nt work?
But i did feel kinda dizzy (but did'nt last long) and i had stomach pain for like a hour or two. (link)
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You're fine. You're not going to have absolutely every symptom that the plan b box says you could have. At best you'll most likely only have one or two if any at all. Bottom line, you took the pill. It worked.
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hay.. ok so im 17 and im still a virgin. i broke up with my bf last year after goin out with him for a couple of monthes cos he wanted to have sex and i wasnt ready and cos my friends didnt like him.
but now i think im ready and i really want to have sex but i want it to be the right time and right person. i think about gettin back with my x so we can do it but i now it wouldnt work.
im scared that ill never find someone and that ill be alone for the rest of my life. i think iv just lost hope. wat do i do?
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You breathe.
You realize that people don't just get back together to sleep with someone because they're ready to lose something major with "that" person. You realize this isn't a reality show, it's real life and once you do something - it can never be undone.
You are seventeen, why are you looking for a soulmate now? You've still got all your 20's and maybe 30's to find a good match for you.
Who you're with should better you. They should better your life. They should challenge you and make you grow. Do you know how many people there are walking around on this planet? You're going to come across extraordinary people in your lifetime , but you can't worry that you'll be alone. With or without a partner, you'll never be alone because you'll have friends and family.
Worry less. Smile more.
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ok remember the last question i asked you now ever since the "period" ended or whatever it was i have been like getting a brownish discharge thats really thick and stringy like on my panties every single day whats that from?? (link)
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it'll be from the medicine pumping out everything from your reproductive system. it's normal, however if it goes on past a few days , perhaps a doctors consult would be best.
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you recently just answered my question that i asked maybe like a week or 2 ago well now i have this worry
i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend (july 7th) but he didnt *** in me but we were worried about it anyway so i took the morning after pill 24 hours after (july 8th) around the 14th i got very light bleeding and i was so worried becuase my period is never that light then it started getting heavier where i could actually use a tampon and it would fill up and my pad i think was filling up but then today the 19th its over and usually i get my period the 21st .. i thought i was safe but i reaad on the internet that implantation bleeding can sometimes last a couple of days... is this just an irregular period.. or should i be worried?? (link)
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the morning after pill or "plan b" is a very unusual pill. trust me, i don't want to give you the wrong idea about me but i've taken these like candy before.
now sometimes, you'll have light bleeding that will onset an earlier period. earlier then when your period usually comes. sometimes you'll have two periods that month. sometimes you'll spot and bleed lightly for a month.
so don't worry, all of this is normal. however if you're still concerned, call planned parenthood and make an appointment.
bset of luck :)
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hey ok im really scared Becvause i think i might have gotten this girl pregnant i went to her house at night and i was really drunk we had unprotected sex for seriously like 1 minute and i pulled out because i wanted a condom i wasnt even close to cumming cuz i t wasnt that great..i dont know if i pre cummed and thats what im scared about but i was drunk and u ejaculated earlier that day but like i said i was drunk and was peeing ALOT did this clean out the leftover sperm? and could she pregnant? and she DID take the morning after poill (link)
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Were you drunk when you typed this paragraph out?
Basic sex ed rule no. 1 - you always, ALWAYS use protection.
When your aroused, your penis emits pre ejaculate. Obviously you're not a virgin and your the owner of a penis so you should know this. Drunk or not.
Pulling out, is not an effective method. What do you think peeing is going to do? Your penis isn't like a garden hose, where if you run stuff through it, the tip gets clean.
Bottomline, she took the morning after pill which will kill your sperm, if any got inside her.
Next time, use your head.
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ok. to start off. me and my boyfriend are very sexual. we do alot of stuff. but the one that i am so self consious about, is when he eats me out. i dont smell like "fish" and i do clean down there. he just said its a sweet and sour taste which he doesnt like. i was just wondering. what can i do to make it taste good. i do clean it and take care of it. so all i need is how do i make it where he wants to eat me out all the time. (link)
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Your vagina's not a pork roast, so what's he expecting?
Truthfully though, even though you can scrub and clean til your raw in that area, your natural "aroma" consists of your body chemical makeup and the kinds of food and drink you put into your body.
So if you're eating or drinking salty and acidic things, that could be where he's getting his "sweet and sour" complex from.
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my boyfriend loves anal. i dont mind doing it either, but i hurts me. so i was wondering if there is anything i can do to make it not hurt. i dont mind doing it cause its kinda hot to me. i jsut need to be able to handle it. (link)
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Well yay for your boyfriend, apparently he's never had something shoved up his ass.
It could be hurting you for a few reasons, you may need to er, "stretch" it a bit and you also want to make sure you're using lube because if you're not ... dear god help you.
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hi,
my best friend dated a guy on and off for about six months. he's going away to college in the fall and he was away the whole summer so he kind of broke it off in june. then they started talking again a couple of weeks ago and decided they were both ready for sex. so they had sex this afternoon, and she came over tonight and was clearly upset that he's leaving.
i don't know what to say to her, because she's emotionally attached to him and he's leaving for college. he says he wants to see her when he's home from college for breaks, but she's been crying over his leaving and i don't know what to do.
any help?
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i'm not the kind of advice columnist to beat around the bush, ok?
i'm in college myself and i can tell you that he isn't going to be coming home that often for visits. and when he's at college he's going to be with other girls.
now they had sex and she's attached to him because of that. girls have sex out of emotional necessity. guys have sex because it feels good. that's just life.
the best thing for you to do is to take your friend out and help her get over this guy otherwise everytime he actually does come home from college it'll be to have her as his bed buddy and she'll never get a relationship out of it.
just trust me on this.
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i recently asked a question.. i had some unprotected sex.. although he didnt *** in me or anything well i took the morning after pil..
today im experiencing stomach aches and cramps but i dont know if this is my period i went to the bathroom and there was a little bit of blood there but its not what my usual period looks like it was a little bit more gooey.. i know gross but i dont know why.. and i wiped and it was veryyyy light and i put a pad on to see later on if its my period but i checked and theres really not anymore blood coming out... what was that was it my period or just some random blood? and when iw ent to go pee some blood just pours out but yet again when i wipe theres nothing there ...wtfff im so scared
this isnt implantation bleeding is it !?!? im so scared i usually get my period the 21st (link)
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ok, calm down.
observe everything you just wrote out.
you had unprotected sex. ok, trust me on this - if you had unprotected sex and he wasnt fully hard and there wasn't alot of lubrication then you're going to feel uncomfortable for a bit. he might have been a little rougher and without a condom on for a softer feel the inner walls of your vagina are basically chafed and have been rubbed raw. there's your bleeding problem answered.
now, you took the morning after pill. once again i'm an expert at the morning after pill and all of its questions, you're going to feel sick for a little while because that little magic wonder of a pill is flushing everything out of your system. it makes you temportarily sick. ie) stomach cramps, headaches, nausea, etc.
bottom line, you're fine. you're just freaking out because of all the horror stories people have told.
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