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Hey i feel so embarrassed here but i really need your help... i am 19 years old 20 in December and i cant have sex...i have a boyfriend that is really understanding and helpful we are together nearly one year but i don't expect him to stay around and wait for me. Last year i was diagnosed with P.O.F(Premature Ovarian Failure). I feel that i am not normal but i really do try to have sex. The pain is unreal when we are about to have sex. I get totally embarrassed and just turn away i dont know what to do?
When i was 16 years of age i was forced to have sex with two older men. I am wondering could this be affecting me now??? I am to afraid to mention this to my doctor.
Please say you can give me a 'cure' i am cracking up now.
Thanks so much for reading this. XxX (link)
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I am afraid I cannot give you a cure. I am very sorry for what happened to you when you were young, and you really should tell your doctor about it. If that does have something to do with what you are feeling now, then perhaps a psychologist will be able to help you. However, you said your boyfriend is understanding, if he does leave just because of this, then he is obviously not understanding, and is not the right person for you. There are plenty of things that couples can do together that do not involve sex, sexual or not. But none of those should be the focus of a relationship. If there isn't something deeper there, that can survive a lack of sex, then it probably would not be able to survive real hardship.
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How do you get an orgasm? Like are there certain things I can try? Please help! (link)
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It would help if you mentioned if you were male or female.
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So a conversation came up about getting an orgasm from a guy fingering and the girl i'm kind of with was like, no noones that good. Is she implying that her ex boyfriends probably sucked at it? I havn't done anything with her yet so she wasn't talking about me. But I know it's possible so you think theres a chance she'll be very impressed if i did give her one? (link)
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Yes it depends on the guy doing it. It also depends on the girl it is being done too, everyone is different.
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