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How does a woman knowns when she is having a orgasm or in other words coming. (link)
physically your clit and vagina muscles will pulse a little without you haveing to try to make them, and there are different orgasms you can have, all feeling different from each other, so it is hard to figure out what it was. Usually the closer you get, the more tense your body feels, and the better it gets.


My boyfriend thinks I'm dirty and weird, cos I like porn films and magazines. He thinks it's just for men. Am I dirty and weird, or is he being a prude? (link)
Absolutly no your not dirty or weird. He may be put back by it i little. Men usually love it when a girl is into porn because they like to watch it with you.


me and my boyfriend have sex alot, but i can never seem to have an orgasm. I was to be able to scream with pleasure. How can i have an orgasm while having sex? (link)
It may be easier to get off while he fingers you. Your g spot is near the back, and up a bit. It's hard to reach sometimes with a penis. Also, right around the front of the vagina, are really sensitive nerves, A spot, that when he is penitrating you it helps to relax a bit, and also stimulate your clitoris. When he fingers you and hits your g spot, it may feel like you have to pee really bad, but go with it, if anything does come out its water based.


is there any techniques to male masturbatio? (link)
what ever feels good to you.


So, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost a month, but we've been together for about three and a half. We've never had actual sex, but we are close. We hang out a lot, and we have a lot of alone time. I do a lot of sexual things for him, and he enjoys it. But i'm often let down, cuz when I think he's going to do something sexual for me, he doesn't. He almost never does, and I feel like i'm in a one sided sexual relationship. Not only that, but it makes me feel as tho he's not really attracted to me. At first he was really into it, but recently he never seems to want to do anything for me. I know I need to talk to him, but how do I start a conversation like that? What kind of things do I say to him? I just need help. Please? (link)
It sounds like he is seeing someone else, or is bored. A good way to get him into you more is to make him jealous. Send flowers to yourself from some guy, and watch him wonder. If he doesn't than he probly isnt that into you. But be careful how you do it. Never ever tell him the truth.


lately whenever i'm around guys, no matter how old, i'll try to look better; letting my cleavage show a lot more, more sway in my step, smiling, flirting, etc. today we had a substitute and i did the same with him. i have a boyfriend and i'm very happy with him, but why am i trying to get basically ever male i come in contact with to lust over me? i'm really not that self-absorbed. (link)
A study was done, showing that women who were in a relationship, tend to be more flirty than when they are single. I think it is perfectly normal, as long as nothing goes further than that. Things that may or may not have happened to you in the past may also play a role in the mix.


I had sex with my boyfriend on saturday. He has really long and gross pubic hair. Anyway, on sunday I got my period and when I pulled out my tampon, I had one of his pubic hairs on it. What am I supposed to do? Do I tell him, should I not be really grossed out cus I am. I'm pretty much looking for opinions really. Any input would be great. (link)
Try to make it a sexy cute game! By getting in the shower with him. Shave yourself and then shave him! And then go have hot sex!


whenever im masterbating& stimulating my clit, it really only takes me a few seconds to get an orgasm. i would say it takes less than 10 seconds. and then after i get one, i dont feel sexual anymore. is this normal? (link)
Yes it is normal to loose sexual feelings after an orgasm.


this may be gross but i've been having really bad itching around my vagina. it's not constant, but it happens every few days. there is also a lot of discharge, but it's clear without any lumps in it or anything. would this be a yeast infection? if so, what do i need to do to treat it or the symptoms? i have a handheld shower head at home and i make sure to wash down there very well and rinse with really hot water every day, but it keeps happening. (link)
You could be allergic to the soap you are using. If you are washing and it gets inside your vagina, it may cause a slight vaginal infection. I suggest using Summers eve Feminin wash. It is soap free smells great, and gets the job done. I used to get infections all the time, and when I switched to that, it took care of it. If that doesnt work, I suggest going to an obgyn, to make sure its not something serious.


Okay, I just recenty had sex for the first time with my oyfriend of 6 months. I would say he's a good 2 inches thick and about six inches long. Is that considered big or not? (link)
If its big enough for you, it's good!! Every womans vagina is built differently. Some women like them really thin and long, while others like them thick and short. The size of the man matters somewhat, but it all depends on how narrow, or wide the vagina is.




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