Im just an understanding girl, I love to listen,I love to help, and I won't judge. I hope to be a pyschologist, and im a poet as well. So ask away, I hope I can be of some help
E-mail: miyukibabi@gmail.com
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Location: USA
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Age: 16
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Member Since: August 13, 2009
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okay so i'm 19 and i will admit i'm a pretty horny 19 year old VIRGIN. the farthest i've been is making out and the last time i did it was like three years ago. it's not that i dont want to do sexual things with guys, its that i'm nervous. who isnt nervous their first time getting fingered, giving a hand job, getting felt up, etc. i think it's because i feel like i'm not comfortable with my body but i've realized that guys like boobs. its not abnormal, duh. girls are usuallly self- conscious about their body, right? i honestly wouldnt do somethinng with a guy if i didnt want to, but i WANT TO its just the point of actually getting there. yeah i know, if its a guy you love you shouldnt feel nervous but you dont know me! no matter how comfortable i am with someone, it still feels awkward. like okay your feeling me up as i sit here, cool? i overanalyze everything. how can i overcome this? i know that if i just do something once, i'll overcome this fear, but until then how can i get over it? (link)
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heres an answer you wont expect- DONT. thats right, dont get over it. wait for a man you love, your soulmate, and you will feel 100% comfortable around him automatically. trust me, i was the same
miyuki rini
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okay there's this guy I've been "good freinds" with for a while now and he keeps bugging me to have sex with him. I really do want to but he makes me nervous! It has always been easy for me to sleep with guys and feel good about myself but this guy intimidates me so much. we always get so close but I get nervous that my body isnt pretty enough for him and he wont like me anymore. I guess its cause all his ex girlfreinds that I've seen have been drop dead gorgeous and Im not quite there. What can I do to make my self feel more comfortable around him where I can have sex with him? (link)
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i think beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, if he finds you "worthy" and wants to anyway then you are already there:) do whatever you want to make yourself feel beautiful, inside and out, try a manicure, pamper yourself:) and have faith and self confidence! every woman is beautiful, dont compare yourself to exes!
miyuki rini
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