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hey. yeah. i keep it real, and i'll try to help out annyway with annythin i can. im Em, and im a pretty smart chick. im a preddy good person, you know the type you would let babysit ur kids. dont take me for granted. i k how to rock it and keep it kool. w/o all the drugs and tequila. go ahead, ask me. ill anser. cuz u k im good lik that ;)

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ok down there it's really itchy and it smells different and it's so itchy that i guess i rubbed it raw and i havve a small cut now. i'm 15/female and i'm good and haven't done anything yet. so what's the deal?

see a doctor, because thats really the only thing you can do. you probly have a yeast infection or maby a different kind of infection. dont be imbarrised or annything it happenes to a lot of people. your doctor can gice you medicen stuf that maked the itching go away. its a good idea to talk to your mom about it asap
hope i helped
luv emi

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so me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. the first time we did it i don't think he broke/tore the hymen even though it hurt really bad, basically i kept pushing him off me on reflex. anyway, the second time was yesterday and it also hurt really bad but i still don't know if he tore the hymen, it still hurt and i understand it will hurt the first few times but how do i make sure he fully "popped my cherry"?(i got tired of using the words broke/tore)

well, if you bled at all than it probly meens he did. even if he didnt, you are not virgen annyway, sence you have had sex now. if it hurts really bad, tell him. complain a little. tell him to be nice.
hope i helped
luv emi

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whenever i masterbate it feels good. but then i get this feeling thats like telling me to stop. is that normal?

yeah- it is normal to feel sortof discusted or guilty even though it feels good
u used to get that feeling too
it just takes a while to get used to
hope i helped
luv emi:)

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14/f

Hi everyone,

Okay so heres the issue. I've masturbated maybe 5 times when im horny and i feel absolutley nothing. What feels good to me is like punching my area of my lower stomach around my bladder area. It doesnt matter if i have clothes on or not it just feels good. but i can never orgasm. and i cant get the good feeling from that after i pee or for a while after i pee. I think my bladder has to fill up a little or something for the feeling to happen. But acutally touching myself down there, and my clit, feels like nothing. Whats wrong with me!!!

xo

well, theres not really annything rong with you
i feel your pain haha
i dont really know where the bladder thing comes from i get that too...
wierd, huh?
but hey yeah maby that type of thing doesnt really work for you.
this might seem kindof grose, but maby if you use other cylinder-shaped objects?
i dont know hope i helped
luv emi:)

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i got my period about a year ago and i still have discharge even 2 or 3 weeks before my period comes..i know its not a yeast infection..is this normal?? 13/f

yes, it is normal. it happens to me all the time. it happesns to my friends too(the ones that are girls lol) its perfectly normal. but if it smells bad, has a yellowish color, or makes you itch, you may have a infection of some sort and may need to go to a doctor. hope i helped

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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering about something...
I know its normal and not exactly their fault and everything, but when a girl goes through monthly stuff, what are we, the guys, supposed to do. I really don't mind it, but sometimes I feel like I need to help out my g/f with whatever the problem may be...but I can't. Should I just be there to talk and listen? That's what I've been doing so far. I mean I can't think of any good advice other than lie down, take some medicine, try to relax, and stuff like that. Should I try to help, or just stay out of the way? Is there any way I can help or no? I know I don't or ever will understand what it feels like or anything, but I'd still try to help with anything. Will rate, thanks in advance.

ok, first of all, dont ever bring up the phrais pms around her. if you do, she might get really pissed off. it might be a sortof good idea to stay out of the way, because if you slip and make her mad you might get, like, runover. if you guys get in a fight, just give in. take her to the movies or buy her chocklate. chocklate is better than like, annyother medicine. or ice cream. it doesnt sound like mutch, but if you get her chocklate or ice cream it will help in a BIG way. hope i helped

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Hey, please no wise-cracks. I really don't want to deal with them right now.
Just a forewarning, this is a long one.
Everything at school used to be so easy. Then I got prescribed an anti-acne drug, and hit puberty - somewhere in there something went missing, went wrong. In the years since then, I've kind of slowly lost my purpose, occasionally it would come back, but I have no real "Drive" anymore. That is mainly what worries me. I have become the model of apathy, all the while worrying about it. I suppose that a lot of psychologists would call it depression, and try to make me "better". They would ask if I had suicidal thoughts and everything. The problem is that I live because I am living. I have suicidal thoughts, that don't MEAN anything, and I don't WANT to die - and I don't even know why, because I don't care about much anymore. I care, and I don't care. I wish I had real "fair-weather" friends, while at the same time I can't break away from my poisonous ones. My schoolwork is important, and I screw myself up worrying about it, when I could get it done so much faster without worrying, and be happy in my spare time. I don't even know why my schoolwork is important anymore, but I don't want to sacrifice it, because I know it would screw up the rest of my life. I play computer games, because I don't want to do homework, and I don't have the will to do anything that I need to do, or want to do. I keep a list of things I want to do when I have spare time, instead of wasting my life playing computer games, but somehow I feel that I will never do them, because I just go back and addict myself to a computer game. I know that I NEED to do things, and that I am screwing up my life, and I still just CAN'T find the discipline to DO anything.

So my question in short;

How do I find my will?

How do I discipline myself to do things that matter?

How do I find the courage to make new friends?

How do I shake that constant feeling of knowing I've been put in to boxes, and nobody knows who I am, and actually find people who will help me to feel happy?

ok first, you need to get rid of your games. you either need to throw them out, store them away, or give them to your parents. inthen, you need to go to the bookstore and buy yourself a copy of "life stratigies for teens", and read the hole thing once or twice. it should shape you up most of the way. thats how i got over alot of my shyness, bad habbits, parent problums, denial problums,etc. and im shure it will help you. hope i helped!

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I'm not really one to ask this kind of question..But there's this guy. He goes to another school, I just recently started talking to him over the phone and stuff. We have a lot of chemistry. We always have something to talk about. So I just called him, I haven't talked to him since last night, and he didnt answer his phone. Do you think I should call him again or just wait for him to call?

did u leave him a message? if so, id wait 4 him to call u. but if u didnt i would call him again after 24 hours. hope i helped

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When does the "cycle" usually become regular?!?! Mine keeps coming at random times and now, it's not coming at all! The last time I got it was February 24???

sry but 4 some people it doesnt become regular till they r around 25 or even 30. u can also miss from stress or hormone imballance. hope i helped

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I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
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no i think that happens to alot of people. it happens to me every once in a while. your most likly fine. hope i helped

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i really like this guy and he's a big flirt and thats hott. what kind of things can i do to make him like touch me and you no hang around me more because he likes to flirt wit people by like touching them. he does it to me but what are some ways that i can make him touch me more often and if u dont no wat im refering to by toughting im refering to like touching in those certian places that only some people like to be touched. but wat kind of things should i do to get him to do it more often. thanks so much but plzz really help.

u can get him to touch your hair by saying "my hair is like, really soft. u should feel it!" or u could do the same thing with your sweater or skin. hope i helped

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