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my period isn't dark red like usual, rather its in between red and pink. lighter than usual for sure. i had sex on wednesday without protection but my bf didnt cum and got my period this morning and i've been bleeding continuously but very light flow. whats wrong? (link)
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Talk to a GP, they'll know.
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I have 2 questions in 1. how do you know when a male has hit puberty? and, what age does a male hit puberty? (link)
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OH. MY. GOD! what age are you???? jeez... i thought you had to be over thirteen to use this... and if you are over thirteen you should have already learnt this in sex ed! so... yeah well.... you might just have forgotten or something so heres the answer =]
Usualy you know when a guy has hit puberty when they start sweating and you notice a smell around them, this is because they won't have started using deoderant yet. But if they were prepared beforehand, and you don't notice a smell when you're around them, it could be that you notice hair under their arms, on their face, or other places such as their chest... You will also recognise when a male has hit puberty when their voice starts to break, meaning that it is a lower pitch than before. A male can hit puberty at any age, although usualy not before around the age of 10 or 11, as that is pretty early.
Hope that helped =P
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alright so far i've madeout and been felt up underneath the bra. i've been at this step for about a year and a couple monthes. i've been waiting to get fingered but im unsure because its really a big step to me. i'm dating this guy and we've dated before but then it didnt work out at the time.we've went out for about a month the first time and now this time its just about a month coming up. i was thinking about letting him finger me but i dont know. im just afraid of a few things. like what will people say? and what if hes bad at doing it because hes only did it with one other girl. im also afraid its gunna hurt. i dont know what to do while hes doing that to me lol. when you get fingered do they take off your pants or just go down them? please help me out with this. :]thankss (link)
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You've been waiting... So I take it you want to.
People won't say anything if you don't tell anybody, and you let this bloke know that you want to keep it between the two of you. But you must make sure that this guy isn't going to 'love you and leave you' if this step means so much to you. Make sure beforehand that you can trust him. As in, make sure that this relationship is going to last more than a month. If he get's pushy and tries to finger you before you tell him that you're ready, it shows that that's all he wants. That's when you should leave and forget about him.
But if you give him the go ahead. Which I hope you are certain about. Be confident in yourself.
It shouldn't hurt if he uses one finger, you're in the mood, and if you feel ready. It may hurt, if you're unsure as to whether you feel confident enough, if you feel ready, of if he, straight away, uses more than one finger. So my advice is, when you are ready, make him start with one, and then tell him if you can handle more. (May want to check hand and finger size lol)
If he's bad at doing it, well... tell him what you want him to do. Be specific. He'll want to know what makes you feel good, so that he can 'hit the spot' over and over again.
When he fingers you, do what feels natural. You should feel comfortable with him for letting him be so intimate with you. I, personally, like to be up against a wall or lying down, with him close to my front, facing me, eye to eye. He'll lean down so that he can reach, and at that point I would hold on to his shoulders, with my head leaning against his cheek. Your legs will know what to do lol. You can show him that you're enjoying it be gently and seductively biting his earlobe and gently digging your nails into his back. Groaning is acceptable too, it'll show him that you're enjoying yourself. Heavy breathing is just as good though. And if you're feeling REALLY brave, look him in the eye while he enters you.
If your outside, just lower your pants, but if you're indoors and alone with him, and you're not scared to, I don't see why you shouldn't take them right off. Baring in mind that he may think you're wanting sex.
Good luck my dear =]
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I have been having sex for about 3 times now, not as in 3 rounds but as in 3 sequences.
Like, I wil have sex once and it will bleed VERY little and then, the second, third and the rest of the time would be fine. But why do I still bleed when I have lost my virginity 3 times AGO!?!
Please help me understand...
thanks in advance! :) (link)
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I've had sex about six or seven times, with the same guy of course... and I was lucky enough not to bleed my first time, or any time after that. But because there tended to be a long gap inbetween these, um 'sessions' haha (sorry, didn't know another word to use), I felt quite sore downstairs the morning after. But perhaps the reason you blead after the first time, is because you're not in the mood, or, from your previous experiences in bed, the sex hasn't lasted long and the guy hasn't been as far inside you as he could have been, so you haven't, previously, completely ripped the skin.
Just make sure that you have plenty of foreplay before hand, so that you're in the mood, and you're wide enough for him to get inside you without it hurting you, or causing you to bleed.
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i want to have sex and am ready but do not know how to let my bf know... he and i are both 17 (link)
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well... if you wanna have sex... and he wants to have sex... as my friend says... it just happens! =] just get theing heated and see how things go! or just tell him you're ready! but make sure you have protection!!! hope it helped! =]
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