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(B)irthday:Feb26,1987
(C)olors:Pink & Lavender
(D)ream guy:My hunnie
(E)yes:Brown
(F)ears:Mice & Snakes
(G)reatest things:My babe, Friends, Nathan, Fam.
(H)air:Carmel..Real color-Brown
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(L)ocation:Federalsburg
(M)ovies:Bewitched,Mean Girls.
(N)ame:Amanda
(O)bsession:Friends,& Boyfriend
(P)erfection:Hair & nails
(Q)uestion:How come guys dont have feelings?
(R)ole model:My mom
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(T)alent:Making things*Creative*
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(V)ery best thing about me:I can chear people up
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ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!
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Well for now on you should use a condum. My cusion thought that she was not pregnant because she had her period for the first month but she was pregnant you can still get you period for the first month.Even if he still does use the"pull out" there could be a chance that there is one that slipped out.Just be careful.If you dont want a child then use a condum
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me and my bf were messing around..i gave him a handjob and when he was ready to come he turned to his side and cummed in the grass...about 5-10 minutes later he fingered me..i know the chances are slim...but have any of you heard of a story where a girl got pregnent from a guy jacking off, getting some on his hands, and fingering the girl?
how long can the sperm live for...and its not like he jizzed all over his hands (i didnt see if he did but he probably didnt ..correct?) so i shouldnt be worrying right?
thanks to all who help!!! (link)
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No sweetie sorry you cant get pregnant.. But if you could that way then alot of girls would be having babies..
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what is a boner??? (link)
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is something a guy gets when he gets happy.. In other words "his thing gets hard"Hope i helped.
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my friend just gave me some condoms... like 8 f them i think.. me and this guy are gettin pretty close, but i have to hold the condoms... wheres a good spot to hide em so my parents wont look? my parents look through everything... so i need a good one! thanks!! (link)
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You can hide them inside your pillow case or inside an old purse and hide it under your bed and even if you parents find them just tell them that its not your you are holding them for your friend. Just huide them somewhere were you dont think that they will look. and dont forget were you leave them at.
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I noticed that people are asking questions about the day after pill. Can you get the day after pill at planned parenthood without your parents knowing? especially if youre under 18. I'm 16 and a virgin, but im just wondering if it DOES ever happen, could i just drive up to planned parenthood and get the pill and no one would find out? cause my parents would kill me. thanks (link)
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I took my friend to go and get her one and she was scared that they would tell her parents to. So i asked them and they said that they dont tell anyone its between you and them*the people at the department* and she is only 17.So no sweetie they wont tell anyone.
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is it unhealthy if you dont masterbate or play with yourself down there? (link)
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No its not unhealthy but its is sick.. lol so maybe you shouldnt do it.. ♥
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how long is a good amount of time to give a guy a blow job for? i've given them before but i dont know when to stop .. so i wanted to know like how many minutes or just until he cums? (link)
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I used to always be worried about that to .. You can always use one of them falvored condums which you dont have to worry if he does or doesnt cum cause it wont get on you. I always tell my man to tell me when so it doesnt get on me cause thats just nasty if he doesnt tell you when just when ever he starts getting all tight in his body or making noise's or whatever. best thing i can think of us for you to tell him to sya when.. Good luck
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hey this i a very weird question to ask you guys out in public but my bf and i want to start having sex. But idk if he wants my "pussy" shaved or not and im not going to ask him because it would be awkward. What do you think i should do? (link)
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most guys do like it shaved but if u really think about it most guys dont shave either.. so its how ever you think it would make you sexy
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Ive had sex wit one guy and everything and Ive been on top and done the whole reg. position. But I wanna know how many positions are there, what are they, and how they work? People always ask me what muh fav. position is and I have no idea. Im not that experienced so I have no idea. I juss wanna know so I wont look stupid in any way and I can know for muhself..Thanks! Hope you all can help me
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Well there are many many different ways you can either b on top or be on bottom. Or some guys like it the doggy style which is wear your on all fours looking away from the guy and he is putting it on the back of you either your butt or the other hole. Or when your laying on your back some guys like it if you put your legs on there shoulders. soem people like it 69 thats were your giving him head while he is making you happy at the same time.. there are different things.. Hope I helped rate me.♥
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I was three days late for my period so I took two home pregnacy test and they both came up with a very faint positve. I then got my period like an hour after I took the second one. Is it possible that the test were wrong or can you be pregnate and still get your period? (link)
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You can still have your period if you are pregnant and the line is faint when everyone takes it or atleast when i took it after your period try it again and see what it says. Hope things work out.♥
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I'm a 14/f. My pubic mound seems bigger than normal. I noticed everyone else's is flat, but then again, I'm behind in the race of maturity...I just started my period 2 months ago. Will it flatten as I mature?
Help, I rate well! (link)
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Yes sweetie it will.. Everyones body is different.. ♥ Amanda
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what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?
(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois) (link)
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That is were both of you guys are on the net like you are now and you just talk about dirty little things that you would do with each other if you were alone and usually some people play with there self why they are talking about it.. If you ask me i think thats sick.. Hope I helped..
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My boyfriend really wants to finger me and i just want to know from someone who has gotten fingered before... what should I expect? Thanks. I'll rate anyone with a serious answer. (link)
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Well sometimes it hurts when they first do it but after that it feels really good.. Make sure though that he doesnt have long finger nails it tends to hurt .. Hope i helped.. Rate me.
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ok, condoms...
good or bad?
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Condoms are always good. It saves you from getting pregnant and from catching something. Cause just think do you have enough to support a baby? or do you think anyone else is gonna want to be with you if they found out that you caught something? But if this man is the one that your marrying or what not and you all are trying to have a baby then no condom but for the mean time save your self from anything that is bad to happen.Hope I helped..Rate me..
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Hi,
Ok, so this guy has asked me out for the longest time. about 5 minutes ago he ask me out again and i turned him down, again, and he was like 'well if we cant go out can we be friends with benifits? like blow jobs, fingering, etcetera... ' and ive noticed myself feeling more attraction to him lately just not enough to be in a relationship with him. but there is that need for sexual attention from an attractive guy, you know? so i dont know what to do?? help please!! (link)
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I dont think you should be his "friend with benifits" because then guys will see you ass a whore and that your easy and that is why every guy would want to be with you. You need a guy that will treat you good and wants you for you.Dont put your self out there like that .Hope I helped.
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ok im 13 and ive been seeing this guy that is 14 for about 3 weeks and like i never get the chance to see him but i talk to him on the fone alot. the one time i met up w/ him in person i was really shy and like didnt even talk to him. im going to see him this weekend and i wanna make it special but how can i get the nerve to talk to him.I really wanna like kiss him and hug hin and stuff but i cant even talk to him. got ne advice of ways that i could flirt w/ him? (link)
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Just be your self dont be shy. If you are shy just let him know that your shy.Maybe he is a little shy to but doesnt want to tell you. Sometimes its harder to tell if a guy is shy then what it does to tell if a girl is. Just act your self when you are around him and soon you will warm up to him..
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okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?
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Well you do have a chance that you might be pregnant cause the pull out method can get you pregnant the same way . But I would wait a while if you havent had your period in 2 weeks try and take another test.Nest time use a condum.Hope I helped.
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I'm a 16 yr old girl. About a month and a half ago me and my bf broke up. I broke up with him because he kept running off and getting in trouble and was acting really immature. So now we are just friends, and seems comfortable with it but I know he isn't. One minute he acts like he is cool being friends with me, and then the next minute he begs for me back and to get a second chance. But I'm not giving him another chance because he can't ever change and I know it. I've told him many times that I'm not taking him back. At first I was nice, but I have even cussed him out because he was getting so clingy and annoying. He kept calling and showing up places where I would be just to "see me". He can't take the hint. I told him that if he doesn't want to be friends and can't handle that then we shouldn't talk anymore because he's acting like a stalker and it's getting really annoying. So I finally thought he had moved on. He got a new girlfriend and everything was cool. He wasn't calling as much anymore until out of nowhere he starts up again. He started calling all the fucking time and sending me creepy emails saying how sexy I am, how he misses me, and that he loves me.... while he has a fucking gf. So I told him off and then I find out he broke up with his gf and he is telling everyone we are getting back together. Is there any way that I can get this guy to take a hint b/c I have seriously tried everything and he just doesn't get it! Help! (link)
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Maybe you should answer the phone when he calls and try to avoid him. In the mean time find a new man or hang out with your friends so that he gets the hit himself that your through with him.Hope I helped.
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