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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE (link)
you could just be really stressing over it and thats causing it too be late....dont worry ur definetly not pregnant


alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me ! (link)
im really sorry to say this but ur baby might be born with alot of problems??? have you been smoking drinking??? you arent taking the proper vitamins that you should be taking..becuase you havent been to a doctor for all you know ur baby might not even live...and i dont be surprised if its born with a million complications...there are alot things that you are supposed to do during pregnancies and most of them you cant do without being to a doctor....so if ur babys born wiht a million problems you can blame urself cause you put it in that situation and you cause ur baby to have all of these problems....you are obviously not ready to have a baby or else you would have cared for it and got the proper help you needed....wait to go i wouldnt be surprised if ur baby didnt make it


ok, im gay and i love my best friend, i wanna do things with her...what should i do? i think she's the love of my life! i wanna have sex with her cause shes so hott and OMG i gotta tell her!

DIKEY (link)
have her over for a sleep over...and when she falls asleep just start eating her out if she flips out tell her you were just having a dream, if she likes it tell her how you feel..


Alright ive had sex before but its been 9 months ive been fingered like 4 tymes since then tho.. im scared to do it agen did my cherry grow bak? am i going to bleed again like the 1st tyme? is it going to hurt as bad? please help beacuse i really want to do it again im just nervous beacuse its been so long please answer if you can ASAP!! (link)
well if its been 9 months since the last time...im going to tell you yes its going to hurt it wont hurt for very long just when hes getting up there........so when you go to do it just relax and dont keep telling yourself this is going to hurt this is going to hurt cause then it will hurt....you just need to relax and it will feel alot better!


im nearly 17 and i have a small penis and im worried what my gf will think and when its time to have sex will size matter?
any suggestions on how to make it bigger? (link)
well if ur girlfriend really loves you she wont care how big it is, not everyone likes a big penis but when it comes to have sex she will find it alot easier if its her first time cause it wont hurt as much. so that is something to be happy for. there is really no way you can make it bigger unless you have surgery. sorry! but dont fret im sure she wont care.....but how small is it is it like beyond small or is it just average????


Me and my bf are 17 and the first time we had sex
he could'nt get it up and he was really embarassed
we've tried 3 times since and his penis can't stay hard for a long period and im not sure what to do he's a insecure about it all his penis is
about average i told him that it's fine he's my first and im not sure what to do any suggestions
on what we can do? (link)
Well you could go to a sex store and buy him a cock ring, or better yet an electric cock ring.... im not sure how much they cost ive never bought one. But i think hes just really nervous and maybe hes just not ready to do it yet thats the only advice that i can give you for right now....maybe hes insecure about himself and thats why hes having so much trouble.


Recently my boyfriend and i went to have sex and when he put his penis in he hurt quite a bit he could'nt get in to far we tried again and the same
thing happened his penis is about 6 inches long
could i be too tight for his penis or is it something else? were both 17 (link)
this is your first time so yeah it is going to hurt because hes breaking skin as he goes in there, it will probably hurt the second time as well but the third time it will start to feel better i promise! The first time you have sex always hurts mostly for everyone my first time was hell but now I love sex and it feels un-beleivable!!! good luck!


Is using a condom totally necessary if you are giving a guy head? If you don't swallow the semen and rinse out your mouth afterward what are the risks? (link)
No its not necessary I have never given a guy head with a condom on the taste of latex is alot worse then the taste of his penis trust me! Just make sure you know the guy pretty well so you know he wont give you and STD's. hope i helped!


ok, i have a BIG problem. i am the one with the pink sparkley dildo involving the cap. of the football team. so that whole thing is passed and know me and the cap. are going out. we have been dating for a couple weeks now and he wants me to quit using my dildo cause it interferes with our GREAT sex life. but i don't want to stop cause it's so enjoyful. what should i do about it. pleaz help asap!!

thanx

pleaz help (link)
I think that you should tell your boyfriend, that you are still going to use the dildo becuase you enjoy it, and maybe to spice it up a bit he could use the dildo on you! guys really et turned on by that. suggest it to him and see what he thinks


NB: don't read this if you are young/innocent/easily offended.

My boyfriend is 17, I'm 16. We spend large amounts of time indulging in 'heavy petting'. But when I give him a hand job (such a horrible way of putting it) he doesn't come unless he gives a hand as well. And when we were trying to sleep together he couldn't maintain an erection. My fault, his fault,nobodies fault?

What should I/we do? (link)
get a him a cock ring




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