Hi, im jessica and im 16 years old i currently attend Trenton Catholic ACademy in Hamilton NJ i have plenty of friends and i love them all to death, especially my boyfriend his name is Quaashie..he's a day older than me isnt that crazy...i've been through alot in my life, i've done somethings i regret like cutting myself and letting people take advantage of me. I've learned that i have a reason to be here and im in search for it, i believe i do have a person and God is going to show me one way.
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Location: Trenton NJ
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Age: 16
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I lost my virginity to one of my guy friends on jan.7th. We were fine and talked a couple times a week up till yesterday. He sent me a text message yesterday and was telling me how he liked one of our friends and wanted my input on what he should do. I obviously told him that i wouldnt tell him what i thought because i care alot about him and dont want to see them together.
He told me that i knew that i was just a one time thing and i need to get over it. i got really upset and started flipping out on him. He said i was just a booty call and i should of kept my legs closed and quit throwing myself on him.
(he is the one that Asked me out that night, hes the one that wanted to have sex with me)
Im really upset and i cant handle this anymore. Its the second time in three months that he has used me.
Im begging you guys to help me out here.
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one thing that you need to learn, is that every man is different and they always want something from you. its important that you save it till you meet the right guy because that will be the person who will stick by your side and never will he use you for anything. you dont need to worry about him any more if he wants to treat you the way he did and use you twice dont bother with him because thats not a true friend. its not your fault that you liked him, its the fact that he had something with you and decided to push you away after that, he just doesnt know that he's gonna miss out on someone as good as you. so i say since he treated you like that you treat him like that, give him the cold shoulder and see how he likes it. i hope you can put the past in the past and move on towards the future.
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