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is it possoble for a guy to get tired of sex?

sometimes when i want to have sex, my boyfriend doesn't. & i don't understand why not?
and even when i try to do certain things to turn him on, he kinda pushes me away. why?

well if you mix it up most of the time not they will always like it

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my boyfriend just recently gave me my first big 'o' you know, an orgasm? it was my first one given to me by a guy. (no, a girl has never given me one, weirdo.) but i didn't really know how to react to it. i know my face was humiliating, because he kept laughing. it was quite embarrassing. now im afraid my boyfriend won't want to give me another one, because of my facial expressions & such. so my question is, like since you are a guy, when you give your girlfriend an orgasm, do you feel accomplished & want to give her more, or like, do you feel weird, because of the way she expresses it?

well it is the best feeling and yes he will like to give you more expression just look at a guy during it LOL (only what i have herd)

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do most guys like having sex with a girl who shaves her whole "area" bald, leaves a little hair in the middle, or has a normal amount of hair and only trims once in a while?

well it will just depend on the guy most do not care but a few do. You can always ask him after talking to him little while afte. the few that do will usually ask or will mention it to you. ask before you plan to let the guy venture to the 0? is usually the best and if it just happens it does. If you are single do as you wish though

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i wasn't sure of a subject so i just put blah. i hope you dont ignore this question.

my boyfriend(b/f) & i have been together for a while & we have sex quite often, but i want it to be better.
i want to do different things. but what? we foreplay, we've 69'd, doggie style, missionary & cowgurl.
but im afraid hes going to get bored. do guys get bored easily? shew, help please?

Well the answer is NO he should be a happy camper with these and if he starts he will tell you and/or just do it just let him know if he would like to try something just let me know. Also their are charts out there expecally on the internet. % CHART)

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I really hope this question will not be deleted.
I got a lot of hair on my balls
I wanna get rid of them and I dont know how.
I cant shave them, I definatelly cant wax them so I just spend a lot of time trimming them every now and then.
Any other solution? How to shave balls they are very sensitive and get cut really easilly.

well there is not really a problem with it being there most (girls) don't care its a guy thing and if you just trim it will be fine except for they will itch

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okay my boyfriend and i have really great sex. but i just happen to be one of those girls who don't orgasm during sex, and he knows this. i've never tried to fake one.
i know the only way for me to orgasm during sex would be for me to start rubbing down there while we are going at it.
if i started to do that, do you think he would think i'm weird, or think that he is bad at it, although he isn't?
i just want to be able to finish with him. you are a guy, so help me? would he think it is weird for me to give myself an orgasm during sex?

well you could do this or even better show him how and what to do and just relax try different ways and from what i have seen it takes time and you have to be really relaxed

Guys can learn things too (I did)
Just ask him to or say if you would like to give me an _____ just rub me here

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sometimes after i have sex with my boyfriend, it ends up being so good that when he's gone & im by myself & i think about it, it makes me horny. does he think about our sex & get horny to it also? do guys get horny to the sex they have with their girlfriend?

Well the answer varies but for the most part YES very much so and it will be on their mind for a long time
Expecally if it is good but the hand is a wonderfun tool to hold you over for both es

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how do you get//give hickey's?
people say you suck, but ive tried and it didnt work.

well it is basically sucking on the neck hip side ect with gentle bites also bite down a little bit then suck
Sometimes it is best to suck the skin against teeth that are almost shut
(these feel good but they are dangerous and some parents and others such as friends will not like the idea basically it is sucking the to the surface of the skin...it will not get in your mouth though don't worry bought that)

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do most guys usually get turned on by girls who don't ware underware?

well if you tell a guy this it has a good chance just depends if he finds out on his own good chance of it
This will also get you noticed you just have to catch by who it does not always the best guys will like it if it gets around
but the answer to your question is yes in most every case

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this is a very akward question but your a guy so i figed you culd help me sumwat. 4 sum reason evry time my gf wants to have sex i cant get hard, i dont think shes doing enuf to even get me hard so how do i tell her nicely that shes just not doing her job? or wat culd i tell her to do?

well it is also part of your job to "get it up" if you have to rub it or have her play with it, another tip use the bathroom first if you need to if not this can mess you up. you might should make sure you can get hard on your own because if not you should see a doc it could have a prob

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can you give me some really good ideas on how to make my boyfriend want me like sexual wise. or like how can i turn him on, make him really horny? can you list a few that your girlfriend does that you can't get enough of?

well you can always have 4play and rub him.
also make sounds in his ear or bj works good. kiss him and put his hands places on you then your hands on him this should work great!

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my boyfriend & i have a great relationship, honestly. we go to different schools & don't really get to see eachother very often. yet everytime we do see eachother, all he wants to do is 'sexual things.' we usually make-out a lot, which is all right, but sometimes i want to spend time with him, just us together, not having sex, or not doing any foreplay. since you are a guy, how do i tell my boyfriend easily that i want us to lay back on the getting laid?

well this works different with each guy you could try asking him if you can just spoon more or if we can watch the move a little more just be kind and also tell him it is just in love for him not because he is bad (then you can compliment him like because you are really good, or something like that to boost his confidencd)

Slowly and surely it will lesson and lesson

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ok now one time i tried 2 jack off but after i was done my penis was all red and and it was itchin really bad the next time i tried with lotion.when i was done it still was red and itchy.people say it feels good when they do it.i try 2 do it and it never feels good and it still red and itchy i dont get what im duin wrong.no mater how long i do it,it never feels good please help me

well it sounds like u are going at it one thing to try i can't believe i am telling you this but here it goes go easer its not invincible second relax not how fast its how good also try to making a u with your hand instead all the way round it mught help

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I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
(I'll add adittional information later if anyone needs me to)

you can always tell him to start on top and switch later or just tell him to keep doing what he is doing also a bit of a confedence booster

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my friend just recommended you and i wanted to ask you a sex question also.
4 some reason everytime me and jake (my bf) have sex i can never, you know, get an orgasm. you are a guy so tell me should i let him know that he's never giving me 1 or should i keep fakin, he n i dont really talk bout this kinda stuf so idk if i shud really say anythin 2 him. or what r sum ways you get girls orgasms, maybe i could hint that around to him. any advice will help. thanx

well if you are not close enough to tell him i would try to let him know easly and not harsh but maybe stop haveing them and start saying something like oh you were so close a little longer even if a little longer is like an hour but.

also try 4play before to get yourself started or go to the bathroom and start yourself to make it happen faster also relax get comfortable and enjot the ride

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im 16 & female & i think my boyfriend is starting to get bored with things that we do. & i want to 'spice' things up! can you tell me some things your girlfriend/or whoever you have sex with does to you, or for you that you really enjoy. i just need an opinion from an actual guy. thanks

well things like 4play works along with different places and different ways u can always ask if you 2 are close enough or just start on the topic if not just try some things like switching places like you on top or him just mix it up and in a different place like floor or other fun location

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hey i always hear men and stuff always talking about hott girls they had sex with and stuff and how they were shaven and everything...well do junior high boys and around that age really care if a girl shaves down there? because i know people my age are having sex now.

some guys talk tuff but if they like you it doesn't matter + most guys are at the experimental stage and it will be ok keep it trimmed they will not care

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