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I'm 18 and a chick, my best friend is 17 and male. I'm not in love with him or anything, nor do I have a crush on him. But there's a sort of awkward thing going on.

There are some days that he just REALLY turns me on. He doesn't even have to try. I mean, not even exaggerating, he can smile at me and I'll be horny for like 10 minutes. And I'm pretty much screwed if he dances. I'm NOT interested in him romantically at all, it's just, some days... hot damn. And seriously, it's just maybe 9 days out of the month (I see him almost every day) And its not just a little tingling, I get a girl version of blue balls, basically.

What do I do to:
(a)control my crazy hormones
(b)convince him to bring our relationship to the "friends with benefits" stage, or
(c)something else.

yea you should see if y`all can be friends with benefits.

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My boyfriend and I are both virgins. we are in love and ready to have sex. We tried to have sex last night but the problem was he just couldn't get his penis inside of me. I guess I was just too tight. is there anything i can do to make it easier for him to put it in? and is this abnormal? what position is best for sex the first time and would be easiest for him to get it inside of me?

basically oyu should let him finger you alot to loosen you up && then try you on top.

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well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do?

mmmk; heres what i think you should do... find a booty buddy or somthng && keep it under wraps. DONT TELL ANYBODY because you never know who maybe leaking your business. make it someone you trust or eventually will trust.. i def dont thnk theres alot wrong with liking to have sex, just try to find a real good one && keep him. Alot of people may also call yuo a hoe slut etc but some of them are just jealous because no one wants to fuck them. lol =]


♥ gerilynn

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I know this isn't the right catagory but its the only one I could think of.
So anyway im a 14/f,
I masturbate every now and then, and I've looked at porn once or twice. Well my question is that if I get turned on by girls who doing sexual things with eachother does that make me a lesbian or bi or something? I have crushes on guys and I have a boyfriend and I've never had feelings for a girl, but I get turned on by girls doing stuff like that. Is this normal? Thank you so much for the help!

yeaa, maybe you are bi. you should experiment with a girl && i really dont thnk your boyfriend would mind lol.


♥ gerilynn

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