It is the girl's decision on whether or not she wants to. The guy can ask, but the girl does not have to.

Ask him what new things he would like to try, what fantasies of his that he wants you to make come true. You can go to Spencer's and get him a sex coupon book. They are full of different things to do and by giving it to him, he has the power to choose which one he wants to use and when. Engage in more foreplay before getting right into it. Stimulate his spots. You can massage eachother with a massage oil that can be used as a lubricant as well. Tell him what new things you want him to do to you. Try whispering dirty in ear the things you want. There are always new things to try. Have fun ;) If you want anymore tips inbox me. Hope I helped.

Don't ever feel ashamed about what/who you like or let others make you feel that way. It is definitely ok. There is no such thing as normal or the normal way to feel. Be proud of what you like and who you are.

Tell him the things you wish that you were doing together: what you wish he was doing to you and how you would want him to do it, the things you wish you were doing to him... Tell him how attractive he is and how much you care about him. Say what's on your mind, he will like it.

Don't be afraid to discuss your desires or to spice things up. Im sure he will like it, he is your boyfriend and he does take you to secluded areas... Whisper softly and sexy in his ear where it is that you want him to touch you or put his hands there.

You have only had sex three times. You say it doesnt feel right and that it hurts. Maybe it doesnt feel rite because your not ready. if you're not, then tell your partner and if they really care about you then they will respect that and wait. The pain is probably that your partner has not broken your hymen yet. Once it does break, the sex will feel better. If you are stopping him from full penetration because of pain, then he wont be able to break it and you will not be able to get past the point of being in pain. It only hurts for a couple of minutes and then its all pleasure from there. If your hymen has been broken already then try doing the other things you enjoy right before intercourse; you probably are not wet enough. It will make you more turned on. Back to making it feel right, you got to be in the mood. Don't just have sex because your partner wants to. You both have to want it to enjoy it. Maybe you want him to caress or kiss you more. If so tell your partner you want to feel more loved and cared for and tell him what he could do to make you feel that way. There are many reasons why you may not be enjoying it. Make sure to always use protection. I hope I helped. Good luck and if you need anything else im here.

Caress his face, run your fingers through his hair, bite his lips a little, move to kissing him and nibbling on his neck and earlobes, squeeze his butt while making out wit him, hold his hips, squeeze his back, softly whisper in his ear the things that you wish you could be doing with him, how much you care about him or how much you'll miss him... There are endless possibilities. Have fun and be creative. Don't be afraid to try new things :)

Dry Humping

If you are a virgin, that would be the biggest regret of your life. I am not saying wait until marriage because i didnt, and 3 years later I am still with my man, but do as I did and wait until its with someone you love, someone who loves you back and with whom you both see a future together. Your innocence is precious and should not be given to just anyone. If you are not a virgin, I still don't think it is a good idea. You don't care about him at all. Having sex with him will only deepen his feelings for you and will make him more emotionally attached to you for getting so intimate. Not only will you be hurting him, but you would be playing with his emotions and that is wrong.

If he is your best friend/ then im sure honesty has always been a part of your friendship. The first thing I suggest you do is talk to him about it. Tell him you don't want your friendship ruined over this, but you need to tell him how you feel. Tell him you feel like he is only into hooking up and ask if he like you in another way. Make he understands that you like him more than a friend, more than just for hooking up. If you want to go into detail about why you like him you should. Tell him how much he means to you, why and how you appreciate him always being there for you, the bond you two have shared...etc. Because of how close you are, talking to him seems best.

Having your man know what you like and him givin it to you does not make you easy, unless it has been like this with past guys (if your current boyfriend is not your first lover). There is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about either. Him turning you on doesn't make you anything but happy. It is a good thing and it definitely means he's good at what he does. Enjoy the pleasure ;-)

Spencer's

My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow

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