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Hey, I'm Emily. I'm a nineteen year-old college student. I decided to make one of these things because my planned college major will be counceling of some sort.I'm not easily embarassed, so ask anything you want. No question is too personal, too strange, or on a subject that I wouldn't talk about.

I did have to choose three "favorite categories", but please don't think that my abilities are limited to them. I know some about eating disorders/body image, religion problems (I often have those myself), drug issues or questions (experience is the best teacher. . .)and, of course, I can help out with any sort of relationship with anyone.
I dabble in a little bit of everything.
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me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for about 9 months and we started having sex around our 3 months of being together..we have had sex probably 3 times everyweek since then..WE HAVE GREAT SEX..but i want to switch it up a bit..meaning i want to lead..i want to suprise him in a way..does anyone have anytips for me..i rate 5'z =]

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This may sound kinda strange, but try a sexy costume. Find out if he has anything for schoolgirls, nurses, or french maids.


do guys like it when girls shave you know where or do they like it trimmed better (link)
No, don't just "go" with anything. Ask your guy what he likes. Most of the guys I've dated prefer completely shaved, but my recent boyfriend surprised me when he told me he preferred just the opposite.


my boyfriend really wants to have sex...i think i love him and i really want to too. i am just so nervous...she i wait?or should i just go for it?protection? andy advice...?¿ (link)
Unfortunately, none of us are gonna be able to tell you whether or not you're ready to have sex. Some people will say, "No, you had to ask, so you aren't" and some will say "You love him, so go for it" but ultimately, it will be you that will have to decide whether or not you're ready. Ask yourself before you ask anyone else.


How likely is it for you to get pregnant if you ONLY use a condom meaning you are safe but you aren't as safe as you could be because there is no birth control involved? (link)
Used PROPERLY, condoms are pretty effective; a little over 99%.


okay this is a gross question but okay here it goes. when a guy fingers/eats out a girl do they cum??? where does it come from on the vagina? & also if a guy rubs a girls vagina do they cum? and where, how do you know its not pee? (link)
I'm going to try to get through this as painlessly and as tasteful as I can. It seems you have a few questions.
When a girl is sexually stimulated, her vagina moistens. This is a product of revolution; her brain assumues sex will follow foreplay, so it prepares her for and easy entrance by a penis. Although it is possible for a girl to "cum", or ejaculate, this is a rare occurance. When it does happen, a little bump inside you called a G-spot is stimulated.
The "stuff" that comes out of the vagina to moisten it is not released in the same area as urine, the uvula.
You can tell it isn't pee because it looks, feels, and smells completely different.

I hope this helped.


ok so.. im 15/F, and the other night my boyfriend hinted (very openly) that we should have sex. and well im ok with it, but im a virgin and hes not. and well i dont know what to do, and i mean what if there are other people around (yeah most likely we'd be at a party with his friend, and his friends girlfriend who have sex like everywhere). and yeah well i dont exactly know what im asking, so im sorry for that but anything.. i mean anything would help. (link)
Sex can be a wonderful thing if it's CONSENTUAL. Don't have sex with him if you're hesitant; if you're not hesitant and you understand that possible consiquences of being sexually active, go for it.


ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
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Sweetheart, your period has absolutely NOTHING to do with masterbation. Nothing.
And you don't need to be scared. Everyone starts at different times. I was 11, my best friend was 15. It really just depends on your body. You're perfectly healthy though.


i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks. (link)
I was 18.

And don't listen to anyone's moral crap.
You'll know when YOU are ready.


my period is late by a week but i am on birth control am i pregnant? (link)
It's a possibility, but not a likely one.
Birth control can sometimes irregulate your cycle, so I wouldn't panic just yet.
I hope you used protection. If you did, I really wouldn't worry at all. Condoms and birth control together are over 99% effective.
Either way, go to the store and pick up a test. Get the Equate brand; it actually works better than the expensive ones.
Good luck.




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