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Gender: Male
Location: listowel ontario canada now living in douglas ga
Occupation: stuck in school
Age: 15
MSN: djth316@hotmail.com
Member Since: December 10, 2004
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ok i am 16/m and i am really horny i have never done anything with a girl besides making out and feeling up how do i get a girl to do something with me i mean i have a huge respect for girls and i dont like to pressure them into things this is why i never asked a girl to do something like that i dont have a gf right now and i know some people might say to drink with them but i dont want to take advantage and is 16 to young to have sex? (link)
Hey man i dont think that 16 is to younge as long as you use protection and make sure that they girl donsent feel rushed just take it slow because if you rush the girl they will eather not whant to do it because they will think you are a perv who just whants sex or they will just do it because you whanted to and think of themselvs as a whore but man just go slow and make sure your ready and the girl is to just use this line.
"hey babe (or what ever you call her) i think im ready for sex but i dont whant you to feel pressured i just whanted to let you know that im ready and if you are tell me but if your not then i can wate i just thought that i would let you know that i and ready whenever you are"
oh and dude i have major respect for you because most guys just try to go with a girl for sex and the fact that you have respect for a girl is very cool .
well man hope i helped and good luck
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iz ther a certain wayy to makeout? like how DO you makeout?! someone said to bit they guys lip or like stick their tongue ACTUALLY down their throt? im sooooooooo stuuuck! (link)
just got with it, it will come natural just do what hes doin and go with it.
hope i helped


hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
hey just follow your hart people can tell you what to do but its your dession im a guy and iv done it when i was 15 but hey when its your time its your time just follow your hart and you will never go wrong
well i got to go i hope i help you and just remember that u just half to follow your hart


Me and my boyfriend of a year had sex not too long ago, and we didn't use protection. He said he didn't cum or even pre-cum but I don't think he is a hundred percent sure. Is there a possibility I could be pregnant? What are the signs of being pregnant? I really don't want to be pregnant I am only thirteen! Where are good places to get protection. Oh, and we didn't have sex for long! It only last a minute because we were really worried! (link)
no offence but at the age of 13 you shouldent be having sex but ok if u dont think he is sure then contact a doctar they can check you without your parents knowing and also there is a posibility that you could be pregnant some of the signs are mood swings and buldging stomach and stomach pain
also a good place to go for protection is the pharmacy well hope i helped
bye


if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"

also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?

thanks a lot yall :) (link)
well if i was your friend i wouldent loose respect but i would feel kinda weird cuz if u are gonna have sex with some1 then you schould love him first well thats all i half to say bye


my boyfriend is always pressuring me to have sex. i'm not a virgin, which i told him, but i dont think i am ready to have sex with him. i mean we have been going out for 4 months, but i really dont think i am ready for that kind of commitment. the last and first guy i had sex with was my first love we had known each other since we were 3. me and him are still friends and my boyfriend always gets jealous of me talkin to him. he also cussed me out various times in person and on the phone. i really dont know what to do about this and i KNOW i cant ask my mom cuz she would go and cuss him out. 17/f/ga (link)
how can i say this DUMP THE A#@ HOLE!!!! hes got no wright to pressure you into sex and he has no wright to yell u out when you u are with a friend so go to your mom about it because if he trys to force you to have sex with him thats rape and thats just wrong also if you half to find some1 to help you a freind some family or something becaus guys like that can get abusive and if he dose you schould have some1 thair to help you if he herts you
well thats all i half to say hope i helped
goodluck and be careful




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