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my friend the other day was saying that her and her boyfriend were having sex in the butt...and the he cummed in her butt. now shes scared she could get pregnant from that. i told her it wasn't true but she keeps worrying and saying that it probably is true.

sooo...heres my question

can you get pregnant if a guy cums when hes inside your butt?
It is not possible to become pregnant from anal sex (inserting the penis into the but). But remember that pregnancy can occur when ejaculate or pre-ejaculate gets in the vagina or on the vulva.

Although pregnancy is not possible from anal sex, keep in mind that it is still very important to use protection during anal sex. Unprotected anal intercourse puts you at high risk for many sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. Proper use of condoms can reduce the risk of contracting dangerous infections.

Q: okay so i had unprotected sex about a week before i was supposed to get my period but it came a week late probably cause i was stressing about it so much.. and i asked people on this site if it was possible to still be pregnant and most of them said no.. but now im not sure cause i feel movement in my vagina.. i dont know but its weird ..and ive never had this before.. does anyone know what this is?
well maybe you are pregnant.

For the baby to be able to come out your vagina has to stretch.

I suggest you take a pregnancy test.

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Q: my boyfriend wants to have sex but i dont know if im ready what should i tell him
tell him you dont want to your not ready. if he ges mad it only says hes with you for the sex.
if he's doesnt want to wait till you feel ready do you really think its worth it being with him.

Q: Someone likes me. My friend told me that he only likes me because he probably thinks im easy. -- What makes a girl easy anyways? And how can he tell?
What makes a girl easy is that the guy wont have to ask much before she gives it up to him. Often guys can tell by a way a girl dresses or acts.

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Q: Alright. Im 15. And I do know that right now is really early to start having sex. or whatever. But i feel really pressured. Everyone had girlfriends or boyfriends. And Im like the odd one out. And I feel like, whenever I do have a boyfriend, and I do refuse to have sex, they might breakup with me. Because right now is so sex realated. Everything is about sex. And more sex. Or "head".. I dont know. So Im thinking what is the worse thing that can happen if I do decide to have sex right now. I will just be up to date. And If i use a condom. Everything will be ok..??
And just so you know. Im not the one just to go find some dude and have sex with him. I will go through the regular process or whatever. and like wait like 3 months to start..but im still really iffy about the situation.??

I dont know. I just feel out.
just because your friends are having sex doesnt mean you should. I had sex at a young age and regret it. The guy isnt with me now and i gave something valuable to him. I suggest you wait till you feel your ready not anyone else. I cant make choices for you but saving yourself for the right guy is what i think you should do. Dont just look for a guy you find attractive and have sex with him 3 months after make sure the relationship is commited and you feel like both of ya can grow from this. If a guy breaks up with you for you not wanting to have sex it only proves thats all he wanted. If you do end up having sex make sure its with a condom so you dont end up either pregnant or with any diseases. Everyones experience with sex is different but the worst that can happen is that you end up pregnant, since condoms arent always 100%.


Q: Okay, a little info on my bff: She's 16 and has major depression. She is on anti-depressants but I don't think they are working.

So, there's this girl that my bff was good friends with. But on Saturday (11/17), the girl died in a car accident. My bff has been really down lately and her family doesn't understand why she's sad (I mean, they know about the death but I don't know...they're not supportive, I guess). I don't know what I can say or do for her because I'm really just clueless as to what to do.

Can anyone give me suggestions? I don't want her hurting herself or thinking about suicide or just depressed overall.

And to put a spin on this: I'm not allowed to see her (so says my mother O.x) but I see her at school and I can e-mail her (although she never checks them) and I can definitely meet her in the morning (6AM ish) at the playground...so that's about all the contact I can have with her.

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try to comfort. Tell her things she wants to hear. Maybe speak to her parents and let them know whats really going on, my friend was going through the same thing and lately she had been better than ever its as if she was never depressed. Just show her your there for her and she can count on you she will appreciate it.

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