The other day I went over to this guys house because I have been in love with him for almost a year. I have dated him two times before but my mom band me from him because he is eighteen. He wanted me to come over to finish a video that we had watched once before. But he had promised me that was all we were going to do. So I told my mom I was going to a friend's house and would be home by six. Well I went there and all I meant to do intentionally was watch the movie. Well I laid back on his bed then he laid back by me and put his arm around me. Then he pretended like he was asleep but I knew better so punched him in the side. Then he rolled over and held my arms down and licked my nose because he knows how much I hate that. Everytime he did it he laughed and kept moving closer to my face to the point my nose was touching his and our lips were practically touching everytime we talked or laughed. Then he just kissed me and we like made out for half an hour. Then he started fingering me for like ten minutes. Then I gave him head until he cummed. After that we had sex. When we were done he went to take a shower and I went down there to fix my hair. He said don't try to get in the shower with me, prostitution is bad. I told him I wouldn't have to try and asked him if he just called me a whore. He said no, if he called me a whore he would have said it to my face. So when I was in the bathroom he took off his clothes and kissed me. He then told me if I wanted to join then I could, then he got in the shower. I stood there not sure what I should do. I sat there and thought about what I should he stuck his head out and told me to come here. So I did actually thinking he was going to pull me in but he kissed me. After about 5 minutes I finally broke and just got into the shower with him. After that I started thinking I was a slut. I mean I had slept with three guys. Him, one of his friends, and this one guy I had dated at my school. I had slept with him about 8 times, his friend once, and that one guy 3 times. So now I don't know if I am or not. So I'm actually kinda confused. SO PLEASE respond to this. I'm really confused!!!
well to called a true slut you have to sleep with guys and overlap like guy#1 then guy#2 back to guy#1 and then to guy#3. doing all of this within a few weeks like 2 or 3 so i would have to say no. this does bring up a few concerns about the age difference between the two of you if you are like 17 or 16 would be pushing it anything lower the 16 and a half or younger then i would have to say to stop it before your mom finds out and the cops get involved.
croat
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my friend and i went out last year
we are really good friends but our friends didnt support our relaionship so we broke up cus it was too hard. we still hangout, and whenever he touches me i get a chill, like a good one, and last weekend he was watching a movie at my house with a couple other guys, and he sat wicked close to me and ran his hand up my leg, and just left it close to my 'area' .. his friends were there so i laughed at him and he just smiled, and i put my feet up on his stomach, and he moved them down a little bit, onto his penis area, so i guess he wanted me to play around a little so i kinda rubbed my feat back in fourth around there under a blanket so people didnt see.. then he took me in the next room (my laundrey room) and picked me up, and started like rubbing his hands undermy shirt and kissing me and stuff, and was like' we should do this more often, just fun you know?' and it is,,, i'm not the type of person to do a 'fwb' and i know a ton of you think its 'bad' or it wont workout,, but we're good friends, and it wouldnt be awkward, and i trust him, so what do you think i should do. like we cant have sex, because we both couldnt do that, but what other things ca help get us going and explain how to do them,, he wants this to be like a fun 2 hours for every weekend, and i do too, we promised to stop when either of us got into a relationship
just advicce on things to do
thanks
well if off the beginning of the "letter" isd like the two of you like each other but aren't together because of your friends. your friends should be happy for you that you found someone that likes you and wants to be with you but if they aren't and are telling/hopeing for you two to brake up then i have to question their friendship and if they what you to be happy or they want themselves to be happy and you to just follow behind them and date someone who they like but you don't. now on to this boy of yours. from the looks of it he hasn't gotten over you or never has and neather have you, which i'm not saying that's bad but it's good and the fact that he wants to do it again (dating you, i'll get to that part later) cause of the way that he started things up. now on to the second part which ties into the dating him again. you need to deside if you want to date hime again no matter what your friends think, or just keep it like a 2 hours sex things every weekend. what i think you should do, and this is from my own personal experiance date him no matter what your friends think as long as he ain't cheatin' on you then your friends are just talkin shit so frak them. the two of you sound like you get along really well and the only reason you broke up the first time is because of what your friends thought.
croat
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i am hanging out w/ my bf 2morrow
he always talks about how he loves sex and everthing leading up to it..
hes tried stuff with me before but i have always turned him down
we are hanging out tomorow and i know i am ready. can you give me a list of sexy things to do and say to get him horny and get him going
like what to do if we are on the couch together
also what are some things he can to do me so i am in the right mood
thanks
--laur
well first off sex ain't no joke, but here are some how to if you are really going to do it. it won't take much to get your huy in the mood but it never hurts to take it slow even when having sex take it from a guy a little tease goes a long way. don't worry too much about it their is no wrong way to do it just get some music going and hopefully your guy can last a few rounds or it'd suck for you i guess if he can't get more then 1 or 2 rounds. just relax and let things go as they go. but i guess i just got to say that don't do it if you don't want to even if you're halfway there it's ok to stop and end it, if your boy doesn't understand then he should be with someone like you.
croat
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