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This past weekend me and my boyfriend had gotten really close to sex or we did.. depending how you look at it. I don't know if he popped my cherry or not. We got to the point of having sex to where he put it in that it hurt me, and Then he just pulled out. I've been getting a few random spots of blood. (3 days after) Its not red red like a period. Plus i just got over my period like 2 days before this all happaned. So I don't think its that. He had fingered me about 8 months before this and I thought he had popped my cherry that way. I also then got a few spots. My question is .. what do you think this is? Is it possible that he didn't completely pop it the first time, and that he just popped it for real this time or even more so?
I just need to know what happaned. Please (link)
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well it is possible that he did pop your cherry when he fingered you but that was 8 months ago. your hole usually closes up almost to its orignal size after a while from the first time doing something like that so when yall "had sex" it was back to a small size and he strtched it out more and that causes it to bleed and even if you are sexually active, most girls bleed the first 3 or 4 times they do it. it all depends on your size and the guys size.
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Ok so I'm 16/f, and I feel really weird because most of my friends have done something, and I've barely even kissed.
Everyone I meet is always like 'how can you still be a virgin?' and it feels a bit uncomfortable.
The things is that I always hear older people say to keep it, that they regret doing it in the first place, but why? My friends dont seem to regret it. And almost no guy would go out with someone who's not sexually active. At least no guy I've come across thinks differently.
What should I do? (link)
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maybe your just waiting for the right one to "go all the way" with. i know how it is to feel uncomfortable to hear ppl ask how im still a virgin but you honestly should be proud that your not taking any risks of bringing another life into this world this young... if you do have sex and the guy turns out to be a jerk, you def. regret it and maybe your friends dont regret it now, but they will in the long run. just wait, your time will come
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i recently began shaving my bikini area. so im itchy, but there are no red marks. also now ive been discharging extra (i dont think that has anything to do with it, but maybe) and that only makes it more irritated down there.
why am i so itchy? (link)
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well it is a very sensative spot and you have just started shaving so your skin is not used to it. try using a razor and shaving cream for sensative skin.
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Ok so me and my bf have sex like everytime we are together. Its not that I dont like it or anything like that but I would like to ave a great day with him with having to have sex. Is there something wrong with that? And how can I tell him this without making him feel bad? (link)
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let him know that you dont want your relationship to end up being based on sex. you dont want him to think, oh im going see my gf so im getting laid, you should want him to think im going see my gf just to chill and to be w/ her... just let him know.
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i do not understand why everyone is always saying "don't have sex" all i hear from teachers now is "sex will ruin your life, it hurts you, its horrible, don't do it, you'll regret it, yada yada yada" um, you wouldn't be here if it weren't for your parents having sex. teachers shouldn't say this. it is actually a great thing if you do it at the right time. i think they should tell us the disadvantages of having sex when you are young, not just in general NOT HAVING SEX. is there a reason why people tell us this? (link)
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i agree that they should tell that disadvantages of having sex when your young but people may think they are older and ready for it when they really arent, so just dont do it and you wont have anything to worry about.
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