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I am a very good listener and can always see the two sides to every story. I pass no judgement, and I'd love to help.
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well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do? (link)
Okay first of all, do NOT listen to those other people who answered your question. You are not a slut. You are now promiscuous. I'd like to know how it is you lost your virginity, one can only guess you were raped. Sometimes when a girl is raped, one would think the last thing she'd wanna do is have sex. However. Sometimes the victim develops a kind of self image, a detiorated perception of themselves, like they are damaged goods, so they go that much farther to get people to like them. Now you want to have guys like you and be attracted to you and want you. That's your own choice, but seriously.. SERIOUSLY, you WILL get pregnant. You WILL get an STD. IF you keep doing this. You may not care now, but you sure will when it happens. 4 people at your age, is not good. I don't know how old you are but you don't sound that old. Anyway, I hope this helped even a little.




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