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hey guys
I am amanda
if u need advice you could ask me a question or you could send me an email. I am up to any questions.

Love ya.
Amanda
E-mail: a_cherrymann@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: January 9, 2007
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Last Update: March 24, 2008
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is 7th or 8th grade too young to have sex?
also, is it possible to have like dry sex with your clothes on? (link)
I think that if you need to ask if this age is too young then you arent ready. It is a really big event in your life and you dont want to have regrets...i personally think that it is too young but the only way to really tell is if you are mentally ready...if you need to ask people on a website...my guess is that you arent... Dry humping is pretty much what you can do. Hope that i helped. Im not trying to be a bitch but i think that you are too young and not ready.

Lots of Love
Amanda


so i want to spice up things between my boyfriend and i
are there any positions to make out
or things to do to him to make him enjoy it more
i have given a bj so not involving that
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i dont really get the positions to make out thing but if i think i know what you are talking about i will answer. A way to do it is lay down on the bed or the floor with either you or him on top. positions? i got nothing i hope i helped im pretty sure i didnt tho. sorry

lots of love
Amanda


I am from Pakistan

Dear Sir,

First I Masturbate quite often, but when I had a UTI (unknown reason, don’t have sexual reason), I left it. I took antibiotics which doctor suggested me. Now I don’t have infection but whenever I got erection or masturbate I feel burning in my penis. If I left masturbation and try to avoid erection then I feel quite comfortable for a long unless I got again an erection. I don’t know why I feel burning in my penis.

How I can solve this problem permanently and have proper erection without any burning later or at the time of erection.

Please help me out.

Thanks

Regards

Faisal Altaf
I am from Pakistan (link)
umm i really dont know i am sorry...the only thing i can think of is to consult your doctor. sorry i cant be much help.

lots of love
Amanda


I dont know why...but im always "excited" i guess you could call it. No matter where or what im doing, i get random erections and its driving me nuts...anything i can do to stop these embarassing "Attacks" (link)
honestly idk the answer but my boyfriend just said that you should go to the nearest bathroom and masturbate lol i dont know if that is really what you should do or not...
sorry i cant be that much help..

lots of love amanda


When girls give BJ, I heard they swallowed the cum. is it true? (link)
heck yes it is true girlie...

most guys like it the best and they say it is sexy but if you arent comfortable with it just spit....its all good the same way you know.

hope i helped.
Amanda


ok sooo my bf and i were talking and i told him that i like to sleep in his sweatshirt instead of pajamas. and he knows i dont wear a bra when i sleep (too uncomfortable!!) so he was like without a bra and i was like yaa and he said thats cute and hot. soo i was wondering how sexy/hot do guys think it is if their girlfriend wears their hoodie without other clothes besides panties when they sleep? thanx :] (link)
alright girl...heres my answer... sorry ahead of time of some of the language...but i just asked my bf and his exact words were:

very sexy its likes wen ever we wear that hoodie again is damn muh gf was naked in this shit

lol hope i helped a little

lots of love amanda


mostly do girl go on top or bottom?
wat do guys like best? (link)
it really depends on the guy.... some like to be in control and others like it when you move on top of them.hope i helped.
los of love amanda


hi
so i shaved down there, all of it
is it supposed to grow back in like 2 days?
and i have all these bumps that look like pimples or something from shaving, is that normal? how do i not get them? (link)
hey hun...
yes it is normal for the bumps... have you had razor burn on your legs? if not that is what it is... use products like nair to get all the hair off while not geting bumps

hope i helped!

lots of love
Amanda


ok theres this guy that i work with and to make a really long story not so long he has a gurlfriend and hes really famous for playing mind games and than breaking hearts hes a want to be player and he knows that hes playing mind games with me and that i being really stupid telling him things that i shouldnt like how much i like him and that i really cant trust myself around him he knows that im vurnable and he uses it against me im a virgin i havent done anything untill i meet him but i gave him head and he fingered me and afterwards i feel really sluty becuase he talks to his gurlfriend right afterwards and than he talks to me about all the other gurls he fucked and left, he flirts and flirts than sometimes nothing until he wants something so should i just drop him or become friends with beneifits you know just get the good with the bad because im 17 and still a virgin and he was my first oral but he wants to take my virginty but i know because of what kinda guy he is so should i stick it out and see what happens and hopefully he turns my way but than i think that hes cheating on his gurl that he suppossidly loves with me and every time i try to say no he sweet talks me and runs down my defenses, or should i just tell him that im better than that and just stay as friends and nothing more and try to work with him and not let him force and talk me down to it please help me lost and afraid (link)
i dont think that you should be doing anything with this guy unless you really like him. The first guy that i had sex with when i was 14 i was in love with! so dont do anything that u will regret that is all that i have to say. i hope that helped.=)Amanda


I'm 16/f. I'm a virgin. I'm not plannin to have sex til I'm married. I'm just curious how do you get STD/AID?. I know for you to be able to get those diseases if you're havin sex wit a person that's already have it. But WUT IF I don't have it and my bf doesn't have it.. we have sex.. wut would the risk of me and him gettin STD/AID?? can you get STD/AID from havin sex w/o a condom?? or you can only get it if you have sex wit the person wit STD/AID.
PLEASEE HELPPP MEE!!!. (link)
you can only get stds if your partner has it. but you can get it when you have regular sex and oral sex.i hope that i helped.


i might be prgenate and if iam im not to sure of how to tell my parents .. wat should i do (link)
first of all you need to find out if you really are pregnant or not. because you dont want to tell ur parents and then it end up not being true. If your parents are the strict type i would tell them when you are getting in trouble for something else. like say: mom dad whatever u r thinking right now it is worse. ok and then tell them that you are pregnant. If they are not the strict type then you should just approach them and tell them that you need to talk to them about something very important. tell them. i am sure that they will help you out with it no matter what the situation is. i hope i helped.=)Amanda.p.s.good luck


i've been on the pill for almost a year.. and i got my period when im not supposed to. what does this mean? could it mean im pregnant?? (link)
you cannot get ur period when you are pregnant. Thats all. So dont worry about it.=)Amanda


14/f
theres this guy that ive known for like ever [9 years to be exact] and we've always had feelings for eachother and we've always been close but he doesnt exactly live very close to where i do. but when we see eachother its like we were nvr apart. so im going to spend a week with him and his family because we very close and im kinda hoping that maybe him and i will do stuff [sexually]. and im not sure if its wrong for me to be hoping or wanting it to happen. i mean in some ways im nervous about doing anything but then the other part of me is like yes do it. I'm not sure what i should do?

is it wrong for me to want to do stuff with him?

[hes 16 & im 14] (link)
there is nothing wrong with it hun. If you feel strongly about it then go for it. That is all that i have to say.loves.=)Amanda


Ok...I'm 15/F and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to tell my mom that I want to go on birth control just in case something happens between me and my boyfriend. Or should I go on it when I am positive that something is going to happen? And do you think it's ok for a 15 year old girl to lose her virginity or do you think I am too young? Thank you. (link)
hey hun. I lost my virginity when i was 14. there is nothing wrong with doing it young. birth control helps but it also helps with acne and regulating periods. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda


i think i might be pregnant. what are the signs of being pregnant and how can u get a pregnancy test whithout an adult with u? (link)
um....there are many signs of pregnancy. fever nasaea(sorry cant spell) morning sickness, tender breasts, um missed period. A way to get a test is just to go to the store like walmart or target and get a pee in a cup or one of those like first response. But if you feel like you need to go to a clinic then you have to go with an adult. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda


is it possible to get pregnant if u get raped? (link)
yes it is. especially since you dont plan it and the guy prolly doesnt have a condomn on so yeah u could very well be pregnant. Id get checked. i hope that helped.=)Amanda


what is a wet dream? do girls and guys get them? (link)
guys get wet dreams girls dont. A wet dream is where there is ejaculation from the penis. thats all. I hope that helped.
=)Amanda


what is a snail trail
it seems reli strange askin but i think ii have an idea but i thought it meant one thing and my friends are makin it out to be something else n dnt wanna ask them cos they'll laugh lol (link)
a snail trail is a white discharge that comes out of a girl. during or right before her period. I think that is what they were saying. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda


I'm not sure if this is a sex question or not, but I'm asking anyways. >_<

When I think about certain things (fantasies I guess), white stuff ends up in my panites. Sometimes, it jsut happenes for no reason. There's is usually some in there every day for whatever reason. It's been happening for years and I'm starting to wonder if it's normal for not. Is in the same thing as "cum"? Sorry, I'm not very educated in the sex category.

By the way, I'm 15/F (link)
this is a thing called discharge. it happens sometimes right before your first period and it happens while a girl is on her period too. It has nothing to do with fantasies. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda


if you have the left side of your lip pierced will it affect the way you give head? like, is it gonna get caught somewhere or something? haha i know that sounds horrible so im debating whether to get it pierced or not.

Advice from people with the piercing already would be greatly appreciated (link)
it wont get in the way. I know from experiance. but i didnt take care of it and my piercing closed. but it doesnt get in the way. and all the guys that i have slobed know to say that it actually felt better than when i had givent hem head before. just dont do it for a couple months after getting it pierced. it sucks and it hurts when it gets caught on anything. just make sure that it has healed.




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