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Okay so this guy who lives next door to me asked me to give him head. Should he wear a condom idk, i'm really new at this

well he doesnt have to wear a condom, its really up to you. some people have flavor'd condoms just incase they do give head ... and other stuff... i would make him only cause there is alot of diseases out there and you dont know how many other girls did that to him. or just dont do it at all thats what i would do, exspeacilly if you arent going out with him..=/

hope i helped...
&&heart's;;kayla

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I'm f/16, and I was just wondering...The first time I've heard it hurts a lot. Depending on the person of course. For example I've never even wore a tampon, so will it hurt alot for me when I lose my virginity? How much will it hurt, and how much will the pain last for? Will you even feel at least a bit of pleasure anytime in the first time?

the greatest advise im going to give to you is dont loose you virginity... i lost mine this year and im 14... that was the biggest mistake of my life! and if you do loose you virginity to him make sure he actually wants to be with you. id wait though. virginity is so precious to have. mabe you think its not cool to be a virgin but most boys like that...

love kayla

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ok im 13 female and i first got my period in october of 2005 and i havent seen it since. no i havent has sex but i do masturbate so does that have any effect on it or what? also i guess i discharge. my main question is, whats the difference from cum and a discharge for a girl? it looks the same and what nots. please give me good answers!!!!!! i rate HIGH!!!

disharge comes in a thicker substance. and i dont think you get discharge after you masterbate or have sex. i think it comes when it wants and goes when it wants.

hope i helped.
love kayla

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ok i was just wondering... what does it mean if you get split ends *down there*? what causes it?

-if you have split ends they are on the end of mostly all strands of your hair.

They happen when the protective cuticle has been stripped away from the ends of hair fibers. Split ends are more likely to develop in dry or brittle hair, and typical causes of damage include excessive dying or vigorous brushing.

Once the hair cuticle is removed, it is impossible to replace. Typically the hair splits into two or three strands, and can be as long or two to three centimeters in length. The best treatment is to cut off the split end of the damaged fiber.

But you don’t necessarily have to go to the salon every week to keep your split ends in check. In the sixties and seventies, woman used to burn off their split ends themselves! Ouch! I’m sure you’ll agree that that’s a little excessive. There are easier ways to get rid of your dead ends before they split further... DIY (do-it-yourself) hair trims. Don’t be afraid, everyone does it!

To remove split ends:


Take small sections of hair and carefully twist them in a gentle downward motion.
Any split ends will automatically stick out.

Carefully snip into the twist with sharp scissors. Don’t cut right through; just cut into the thickness to remove the damaged cuticles and give a natural layered effect.

Be careful to cut roughly the same amount from each twist.


hope this helped.

LOVE

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Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true?

well im 14 and the first boy ive had sex with was 17! so sounds like ive been in the same posisition!! first its not about that you want to have sex! dont make the mistake of loosing you virginity with a loser! or some one that if you become pregnant wont be by your side! 14 is young but thats when i lost my virginity! but i did it with the boy that im still with and weve been going out with him for 5 months and i know he really loves me! and if you do have sex make sure he pulls out b4 he cums and use protection! my advise dont use trogan ulta thin! they break real easyily! hope i helped! and if he pulls out and you use protection its a high doubt you will get pregnant!! dont make a stupid mistake!


hope i helped!

--->>x0x kayla

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i had sex for the first time the other day
we used a condom and it didnt break
he didnt bust when we did it either..
he just had a little bit of cum and pre- cum in the condom...
so my question is..
is there still any possible way i could be pregnant?
what are some signs that you could be pregnant?

Well if the condom didnt break then there is a highly doubt you are pregnant! just always use protection! my advise is not to use trogan ulta thin! with spermacide! because ultra thin ones break real easily! i dont even know why they make them!

hope i helped! take a pregnancy test though!but i dont think you are pregnant!

---->>x0xkayla

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could you get pregnant if the you had sex without
any protection whenever a girl is on her perid?!

Yes unfortually! The only way you will know for sure if you are pregnant is to go get a pregnancy test! not only can you get pregnant you can stds and other things! not saying that the person has them but you never know! they have pregnancy tests that you can take 5 days after you had sex! you can get them at walgreens walmart! basically any drugstore!

hope i helped!

---->> x0x kayla

p.S and if you become not pregnant next time think before you do it! its just a lesson that needs to be learned and i learned it!

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