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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
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see, morals are there forever, but the feeling comes and goes. prostitution, drunk sex, rape, etc. are bad, but if you love the other person and are doing it based on your readiness and feelings for eachother, then it isn't that horrible. and about regretting it later, sure maybe you will.. but if you wait until marriage, then how will you know? what if you never get married? there are some things you can't always base on morals, but by your own judgement, what you truly want in your heart.
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16/f. Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for about 7 months, and we were good friends before that, and we have a wonderful relationship. We started fooling around about a month ago, but we're not going to have sex, at least not for a long time because we're not ready. I discussed this with him and (separately) with my mom, because I told her I'd always tell her if I was becoming more intimate in a relationship, and she was fine with it. Well, the other night my boyfriend dropped me off at my house and we were both extremely tired and we fell asleep on my bed, we didn't do anything at all. And my parents came home and flipped out, called his parents, now he's not allowed to see me for a very long time, etc...
And my mom says she doesn't trust me and she thinks we've been having sex. She fully knows my views on this and both my boyfriend and I are very ambitious academically and would not do anything that might jeopardize our education or futures. But there is mutual trust and understanding in this relationship, and I thought there was between my mom and I, and I'm very confused. Does anyone have any advice?
Sorry this is so long. Thanks. (link)
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That's really great that you guys have decided to wait for sex, that's a responsible decision. It's really hard to say no when you are in a strong relationship for that amount of time. Personally, I keep almost everything from my parents with my boyfriend and it seems to be better that way, but in your situation, I really think your mom should lighten up a little bit. If she has talked to you about it and was prepared for it and everything, even if you guys have been having sex, it shouldn't come as that much of a suprise to her. But she should learn to trust you. You didn't give her a reason not to. If the two of you were fully clothed when you were asleep, then why should they assume anything? That is, assuming that you were fully clothed. I suggest just trying to talk to your mom when you two are alone, maybe on a car ride somewhere so she can't just walk away. Explain to her truthfully what happened and make sure she knows exactly where you are coming from, the reasons why you are choosing to wait. Make her understand that if anything does happen between you and your boyfriend, you will always be able to come to her and you really want her to trust you again. Then, I think your parents should talk with your boyfriends parents because not allowing him to see you is a little dramatic. You really seem to have something deep with him, and they shouldn't be able to take it away from you. ♥
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Ok so i havw this freind. and we always say that we are going out... its a joke but sometimes we will touch e/o and stuff. my other freinds do the same. so, today she touched me like kinda near my vagina area and i think i got horny and all excited. does this mean i'm a lezbian? does it mean we are lezbians? please answer.. i'll rate fives! (link)
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well, when i was a little younger, my friends and i used to mess around in front of the guys, sometimes kiss on the cheeck or something dumb just to get them all excited then be like, that's too bad, you don't have enough money to get me to do more. and sometimes you just get that feeling like oh god, someone is touching me there! because that is a really sensitive area for girls. have any guys ever touched you in this way? because maybe it's just that it's never happened to you before that you felt that way, not necessarily because you're lesbians. ifyou actually have had experience with guys and you still feel this way, there are other things to look into. when you're with friends at the mall or something and they see a hot guy, do you notice HIM more, or maybe the girls he is with? don't go telling everyone, "oh i'm a lesbian" unless you know in your heart that's what you want.
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