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so my boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time together...he was a virgin i was not...and we both love eachother and so we both decided we didnt want to have "kinky", "horney" sex...we wanted loving, passionate sex..so when we were having sex i expected it to be amazing...but i was kinda dissapointed cus i thought he would look at me , or telll me he loved me while we were doing it...but he dditn..he did not look at my face the whole time...and he didnt say he loved me once....was he just using me for sex..? (link)
Remember he's a virgin. So he probaly didnt get the idea of "passionate" sex... Maybe you should clear things up with him, tell him what you expected "passionate sex" with him was all about.
Luv Holly/Toffee
xoxo


female 16

Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.

How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You. (link)
ur only 16, boobs only stop growing at 18 so your okay. by the time ur 17 you'll be sure 2 have a larger cup size by then. until then, try using padded bras or liquid filled ones.
PS- if you use liquid filled bras, they work well in the pool too. So it wont make you look liked you've "shrank" lol!
GOOD LUCK! luv Toffee/Holly xoxo


ok i had asked a question this morning buti have to say something else that i need advice on that happened tonight...

ok well i just gto home from a party and this guy tommy asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he called me a tesse and alot of other guys called me a tease b/c i wouldn't let them do ne nasty stuff to me the tommy took me into a room and put duck tape on my mouth and then un zipped his pants and mine...and then he took the rest of my cloths off and made me stand on the bed naked he was just lookin @ me...then he fingered me and raped me and he told me that if i told ne one that he would do it agian and kill me...there was no way for me to go b/c hes a football wresaler and really strong...by the way im 16 and he was 18...i don't want to tell neone because hes on of my moms ex boyfriends son and she treats him like a son and i would never think that he would do nething like that...HELP what should i do? (link)
TELL SOME1!!! It doesnt matter weather he thretens you, dont be afraid. He's a jerk, and he has 2 get punished by what he did!! It's not fair, and i know you should tell someone about this, trust me.

Good Luck,
Toffee


im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice? (link)
If he really likes you for real, then he would understand your choice. It's not a great idea 2 have sex at your age. Plus, there are side effects to sex. Desease? Pregnacy? Anything could happen! Stay as a virgin till you get married, that's the best i could say...

Always, Toffee


Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird? (link)
Well, sorry 2 break it 2 ya, but its not a good idea to like the same sex. People will spread rumours about stuff about you, and they will think your useless. So, your not weird, and its great you thought about it before you did anything drarastic. But it's a really bad idea to like that typical sex.

Hope i helped you, always-
Toffee


what is dry sex?!!?!?! (link)
Easy, dry sex means that u have sex, (Touching and feeling) but the pair still has clothes on em :)
Hope i answered ur question always, Toffee


Ok, i am a 17/f, and VERY innocent, lol, i've never had sex, but i masturbate, and why is there white and clear discharge "inside" of us? Thanks, I rate Very High! (link)
Its completely normal actually, it comes out when your body is taking pleasure in such "activitys" lol but dont worry what u have is cum. Perfectly normal!


well i wanted to know if anyone has some advice on the best way to pleasure a guy, my bf and i have had sex and i give him blowjobs and handjobs but i want to know what guys like best? anyone have any ideas on what i can do to pleasure him the most? (link)
Try and make it as fun as it can be!! play games and buy sex dice, really fun!! And what really lightens up the fun, think about where you 2 should do it. Hehehe trust me, it helps! or maybe do it in the bath if it helps out too!:D


wat happens when you have an orgasm if your a girl i know this sounds dumb but plz help (link)
BANG!! you blow up if you get my picture


For a guy's parts, whats big and whats small? Do girls really care about size? Whats the advantages of being big rather than small and vice virsa? (link)
well it really depends on the girl actually. you see, some girls may like big penises because they might think its se..xy. but the truth is it doesnt really matter, but what matters is that you know how to use it. (wink wink)
luv-Toffeebabe




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