Hello I'm Sara. I'm 16 years old. I love giving advice and I am very good at it. I have helped a lot of people out with their love, sex, drug, ruined lives and turned them around. I hope I can do the same for you if you give me a chance and just ask ME a question. I respond quick so you will get your answer as soon as you write it to me. I do have my own little problems too so we can share together if that makes you more comfortable.
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what is the missionary position in sex? (link)
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missionary is when the girl is laying on her back and her legs are spread-but just enough for the guy to fit between her legs. The guy is on top of her with hes arms by her rib cage on the bed and is just thrusting while she lays there. To make it a little better you can enhance the position and wrap your legs around the guys hips...That makes it feel a hundred times better. I hope I helped ya.
xox, Sara ((write me back if you have any more questions))
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months, and we havent done anything sexual yet. all we do is make out ALL the time. lately he has been asking me to give him oral sex, which i am willing to do. the problem is, i have never given head before and my boyfriend has never gotten it before neither. i know how to give it, im just worried that i may do something wrong and my boyfriend wont enjoy it. if anybody can give me any advice id appreciate it. thanks. i rate high =) (link)
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Hey all I know (from experience) is DO NOT grind your teeth..try to keep your mouth open as wide as you can, but unless your sucking put your lips together as much as you can but still have your teeth far far away...I almost made my boyfriend cry-lol...it was also my first time. Use your hand too-but make sure its wet from your saliva before hand because it will hurt so bad that he wont want it again...and just go in a up and down motion...HE'LL LOVE IT!
xox, Sara
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Okay, so last night i noticed this HUGE like...pimple...on my uh...vagina..im so worried because i dunno what it is and it had to have JUST came up....it lookes like a big pinkish-red pimple and it is pretty big. I was thinking it was maybe a wart but im not too sure because this thing is perfectly round and warts arent. It hurts like hell when you touch it and then a few seconds afterwards it itches. I'm not sexually active so i think it cant be an std...if anyone knows what this thing is and/or how to cure it please help!! (link)
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Okay. EVERYONE basically gave you the same answers. Which I know you weren't looking for. I had this same thing though and I got extremely scared because..I am sexual active (with ONLY my boyfriend..10months) well I went to my gyno lady and I asked her because it hurt and when I would touch it, it would itch like crazy. She told me it was a boil. A FUCKING BOIL?!?! On my vaginal. I was so grossed out, but she told me that I can pop it later (like a pimple) and it will have a little scar, if it gets to big. If it does not pop then yes it is a spider bit. Yes spiders can get down there because did you know you eat 7 spiders in your sleep by the time your 20? So ya spiders can get down there very easily. I hope I helped a little more.
xox, Sara!
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Im 14 and i havent had sex or anything but i have these dark bumps and little black dots on the insides of my thighs but not on my vagina and i have had this since i can remember. what could it be? and also i went to the gynocologyst and she did say anything! So could that mean it is not a big deal or none sex related or should i ask her? Please help! (link)
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If you went to a gyno then why didnt you ask her? She will not tell you any advice if you do not ask her because that means you are not curious about what it is. A gyno is one main person you can trust and should not be scared to ask any question..She does see inside you..HAHA. Well Im serious. Ask her because all I can think of is that they are black heads. Black heads can get really huge and discusting and they are down on innner thighs so try and squeeze one. I'm serious so dont laugh. Tell me what happens.
xox, Sara
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okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 weeks, not long I know but anyways we have been talking about haveing a 3 sum with me, him and one of his guy friends, and I am thinking about it, but the thing about it is, I dont know how 3 sum's work and everything because i've never had one, but I am considering it. But what my question is....I want to know a little bit about a 3 sum and I was wondering if anyone could tell me about what all happens and everything. If someone can help me out I will rate High, thanks!! (link)
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Okay first of all your BOYfriend should NOT want to have a 3 sum with you and ANOTHER GUY. That is not a threesum. A normal (not gay) threesum is 2 girls and a guy. Unless your boyfriend talks shit behind your back and says how easy you are to hes friends and to prove hes point he is doing this. But to answer your question.....YOU will either be sucking one of their dicks while one is in you from behind (anal or vaginal entry) or one is in your vaginal while the other is in your ass. They will basically put it any where..I WOULD not consider this if i were you...You will be considered a slut and I am not trying to be mean but I'm serious. That is what you will be called if word gets around to all hes friends. which it will. HOpe I helped.
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what would you do if you are only 14 and a girl wants to grab you there but you aint had puberty and it aint that big and youve been going out for almost 2 years what should i do just let her and get humiliated or just tell her to wait
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Okay So...YOu have been dating this girl for what 2 years? You were 12? Normally guys don't start puberty at 14..My boyfriend is 17 and he got puberty at 15..It's differnt on a lot of people. If you guys have been together for a while I don't think she would mind. Just tell her how it is. She shouldnt mind. How old is she? If she is the same age as you then i doubt she has hit puberty and if she has then tell her your a late bloomer..Tell me what you think and I hope I helped. Keep me informed on what happens please. good luck.
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okay so i was wandering how accurate a home pregnany test is if it is taken like 8 days before your period? also my boyfriend and i were kind of messing around a few weeks ago we started to have sex without a condom it was like for 2 mins then we finished with a condom are there like any chances im pregnant i took a test which was negative but like i asked i have like 8 days till my period
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Alright not every home test is accurate. There are some flaws in them. Did you get the test that can happen before your period or did you get one that is for a late period. There are many different kinds of pregnancy test. Yes if you guys started having sex with no condom you can get pregnant by Pre-Cum. Its when your most likely to get pregnant because the pre-cum is were are the live sperm is fastest to go into your system. but that happens right before he is about to cum. Never REALLY early.
hope I helped...Tell me your results if you take a late pregnancy test if your period dont start in the eight days that it is suppose to
Good luck!
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well...here is the thing. i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for a while now. when we have sex it feels very good to be honest but one thing i dont like about my boyfriend is when i give him head...he seems to enjoy it SO much he "tinkles" a little in my mouth and it is the most unatractive thing in the world....how do i stop it? (link)
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Tinkles? Like he pisses or cums in your mouth a little bit? If its cum then thats normal and no you cant stop it. He can't feel it either is Pre-Cum. It happens kind of right when they guy is about to fully cum. Pre-Cum is the cum that most of the sperm (baby makers) are in. But sorry you cant stop that. It happens to me ALL the time. I just spit it out after he cums. Its a natural thing. Hope I helpd.
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does size rly matter and if it does how big does one need to be
ive heard both that it dont and that it does and its bothericious (link)
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Have you ever heard that saying "Its not the size that matters its the motion in the ocean"? Well it's true. Even if the guy is really small he can still give the girl all the pleasure she needs by how he moves. Unless the girl is a whore and really loose then i guess the guy that is small is outta luck. Just kidding. No its really how you use it now how it looks...Hope a made ya laugh and helped ya out a little bit.
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