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Q: im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?

Every teenage guy jerks off and most look at porn too. Completely normal, don't be offended.

Q: ok, after everytime i masterbate, i feel really, really guilty...i wounder what my girlfriend would say if she had found out, i feel like it is a complete sin, and after everytime i do that, i feel that God punishes me, but he doesnt seem to punish other people i know do it... what should i think? is it ok, or should i try to stop?? HELP!!

Everyone masterbates, well at least A LOT of people do. Theres nothing wrong with it, and I'm sure God doesn't mind too much. If you think it's wrong, try to stop. But there's really nothing wrong with it.

Q: i'm 15/f. i was at my aunt/uncles house today. me & my cousin were in the basement. her dad came down to look at his cellphone, then went back upstairs. once he left, my cousin said "i think my dad is having an affair." she opened up the text messages on his cell & they were from the same woman. they said "yeah what we're doing is so wrong i hope no one finds out" etc. my aunt & uncle have always had marriage problems, but as of now, me and my cousin are the only ones who knows about his affair. I asked my cousin if she's going to tell her mom and she said "NO WAY I'LL GET IN SO MUCH TROUBLE FOR LOOKING THRU HIS PHONE AND I DON'T WANT TO CAUSE ANY PROBLEMS!" She doesnt seem to care tho, but i'm so freaked out and my question is, what should i do, (should i do anything at all...?)

First off, make sure you're not jumping to conclusions. Really it's more of your cousins business but your's. But if you are postive that he is having an affair, your aunt needs to know. She might get hurt but it's better for her to know that to be keeping it from her. If you don't say something, you'll have this big secret on your conscience. In my opinion you should tell her and save her from a lot of pain now. She has to find out eventually. Or if you think your cousin will get mad and think your trying to break up the family or something try to persuade your cousin to tell her mom.