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Alright ive had sex before but its been 9 months ive been fingered like 4 tymes since then tho.. im scared to do it agen did my cherry grow bak? am i going to bleed again like the 1st tyme? is it going to hurt as bad? please help beacuse i really want to do it again im just nervous beacuse its been so long please answer if you can ASAP!! (link)
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lol No babe, your cherry will never "grow back"... unfortunately, that ticket has no refunds and no exchanges.... lol It is possible that you could bleed again on your 2nd time but probably unlikely. The more you have sex the more and more it will not hurt any more. The first time always sucks.
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everytime i have an orgasm i dont cum... am i quitting too soon or doin something wrong?? all my friends say they cum...o ya... i AM A GIRL! (link)
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Obviously ur not even having a orgasm, cause if you were you would most definately cum.
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im nearly 17 and been with my gf for about 9 months and have talked about sex and my worry
is that my penis is very small and im not sure what she'll think about it im a bit worried.
She's had sex once before and i haven't will that matter? Does size matter to girls? (link)
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No, it does not matter that she has had sex before and yes size does matter. But, Why are you afriad that you not big enough for her? becuase she has had sex before? if so, you can put that to rest becuase that means nothing. Just relax, let nature take its course and have fun {protected fun of course}
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i have thia problem and hopefully you can answer it.........ok i have been trying and trying to get this girl in bed but every timethat i do she allways turns me down but thisone time that we both got drunk and we fucked but hen the next day she left me so i called her to see what was up with her leaving me and she said that the sex was wack and that i had a SMALL DICK so please what should i do???????? (link)
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In answering you question....That girl has a problem...maybe..just maybe...you could hookup with me....and i'll tell ya if the sex is "wack" or not.
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im 17 and me and my girlfriend have tried to have
sex but when i go to put my penis in i lose
my erection its happened a couple of times
and im not sure what to do is there something wrong? (link)
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**WHAT HAPPENS?** Loss of erection can be caused by physical problems and should be checked out by a GP. For instance, diabetes or hypertension can lead to erection loss. Although, anxiety, tiredness, stress, guilt and relationship problems can all contribute to erection problems.
**CAN I STOP IT?** Relaxing more and making love when you are less tired can be extremely helpful if your erection loss is chiefly psychological in nature. Once a man loses his erection, the next time he wants to have sex he may worry that it will happen again..which actually causes him to lose it again. This vicious cycle is called
"performance anxiety" IF YOU CAN BREAK THIS CYCLE, ERECTIONS OFTEN RETURN NATURALLY.
**In addition, are you wearing a condom when trying to have sex? If so, the condom may be to tight which can defintaly lead to losing a erection. Trojan carry's bigger condoms.
You can find more information at: http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/mens/rel_sex_erect.shtml
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theres this girl that im going out with and she very nice, but another guy likes her and wants her to go out with him. but she likes me and is going out with me. now he threatens to beat me up and kill me all over this. I need ANSWERS for this. please help... (link)
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OK so, what's wrong with this dude for flipping out over a girl that aint even his? Have they gone out before? When he asks your girl out, doesn't she just say NO NO NO? these are questions I need answers to, to be able to figure out what this dude's problem is... You defintely need to talk to the principal, or guidance counselor because this is not normal behavior and someone could get hurt. Also, even if you were to break up with your girlfriend just so this dude would leave you alone, what about your girlfriend? what kind of danger could she be in with this crazy person? This is the millenium not 1840, you don't walk around threating to kill someone and not get in trouble for it. tell Someone.
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How big is the average penis size and do black guys have bigger ones (link)
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I don't know if I can give you the right answer to that question (I'm a girl...lol) but I'll try.. I think maybe the average size is like 6 or 7 inches... I don't know about black guys, and why does it matter what size other boys are packin'?
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I need help. I wanna BE WITH guys, but they all think I'm retarded cuz of what happened last week. I think the capt. of the football team saw me jacking off with my pink sparkley dildo. Now none of the guys wanna be with me. What should I do?
Signed,
Retarded and disgusting (link)
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ok so, when a girl "pleasure's her self it is not called "jacking off" thats what guy's call it when they pleasure there self. secondly, it is not disgusting or retarted to do that...beleive it or not, more people do that than ya' think but.... don't do it PUBLIC-especially not at SCHOOL and, lastly, why do you wanna be WITH guys? it should be with ONE special guy not just all guys in general.
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please could u tell me what prison sentence someone will get for sexual abuse on a child of 10 years old (link)
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Honey the fact that your asking this question bothers me.... infact it bothers me alot.... Has someone sexually abused you? or someone you know? you should report that immediately and dont you worry that person will get a long prison sentence and then when they got out they have to register as a National sex offender so that this will never happen again.
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im 15 and im a bit worried about my brother
one day i went to the bathroom and i caught him
masturbating he was just in his underpants
he got really embaressed and ran out and now
he tries to avoid me all the time and im not sure
if i should say something without him getting embaressed another thing he's 11 and is it
common for 11 year olds to masturbate? (link)
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It's a very common thing for boys and girls to "experiment" at that age. Your body's starting to grow and change more and along with that comes hormones and feeling's you've never had before. My advice is to forget it ever happened. It will spare alot of embarassment for your brother. -Hope this helped-
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im 13 and my penis is like 2 to 3 inches is that about right for my age
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Every boy's "package" can come in all different shapes and sizes. You are still at the age where your penis still has enough time to grow longer. As you get older if you feel insecure about the size you can always change that with "special equipment" commonly called a Penis Pump or some med's.
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Well first of all...everyone of my friends are having sex now and im only in the 8th grade...i'll b in high school in a couple months and everybody will be trying to get me to have sex??...should i just try it ..like everybody else..or just tell them that im waiting for a special guy?...but the point is ..is that if im goin out with a guy i might think he is the right guy and go for it but i know we wont last long..will sumone pleez talk to me? (link)
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You should never have sex with someone just because that's what all your friends are doing. That's something that you can't take back. Wait till you love someone and are with someone that loves you back. It will mean so much more.
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My bf loves me so much and he says he wont make me have sex with him, but he says it all the time. Is it just me or should I feel like I'm a bad girlfriend for not haveing sex with him... I mean Hes saying I dont have to but in his mind i know hes saying 'i want sex, i mean we've been together for 3 month,.. havent you kept me waiting'. I guess my question is, what should i do,.. should i do what my heart says and not have sex with him because i'll be breaking my religous promise, or have sex with him so I can keep him? I know I'm making it sound like hes a bad guy bad hes not hes a sweet heart.... (link)
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NO! NO! NO! A true boyrfriend would never keep bringing up the sex thing. Never in your life should you do anything that your pressured into doing the best advice that I can give you and hope you will use in life is: IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL WAIT UNTIL YOUR READY.
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how do i broach the subject to tell my mom i'm redy to have sex? (link)
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It would help if I knew how old you were. But, Are you sure your ready to have sex? Sex is a wonderful thing only if shared between 2 people that really love and care for each other. I assume your in a relationship? If you think that you are ready then just come out and tell your mom, she may find it hard to deal with at first, but eventually will get over it. If you feel like you cant tell her, there are services at local health department's that put you on birth control free of charge.. Without your parent's even knowing. Please do get some form of birth control. because even if you think you are ready to have sex, certainly you are not ready for the responsability's of having a child.
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