Heya, I'm Ellie =]. Sure I'm your average Teenager! I believe in hard work, I believe in being optimistic and never giving up =]. I get pretty crazy sometimes, and I'm loud and not always Missus Perfect - but I'm outgoing and I generally stick to the rules... Unless I don't like them, In whcih Case, I may just invent my Own :)
When Im older I definitely want to be in the acting career, so watch out :D!
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ok well ive been talking to this guy for a while now and he lives far away so i could never date him or anything but he was visiting his friend who lives near me so i met him. anyway we had phone sex like through txting and i want to stay a virgin and stuff so is that like bad?? like is it against God and i know i really shouldnt but idk could it have to do with craving guy attention? but hes sincere and isnt just talking to me to talk about sexual things but still..and also when a girl does that she can grow emotional attachments which is what im worried i will do..i kno this is a weird question but please help!! ive never even been fingered or anything but tonight i had phone sex! (link)
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:) Bless you, dont fele guilty or worried about what you Did. Phone Sex, Doesnt Actually Include any actual Sex - You are Only Not A Virgin when Actual Sexual Intercourse happens, basically, when Both the Penis, and Vagina is Involved! Phone Sex Can be seen as a relief, Theres nothing bad about it at all - so dont worry. If you want to stay a virgin, thats fine, but as your grow you may want to change that :). Sex isnt a sin or anything - Sex is NOT against god, we were put on this earth to breed, after all XD! The Christian belief is not to have sex until marriage basically. But many Christians choose to have sex beforehand anyway. It doesnt make you any less of a person. This guy lives far away, you're fine. Just dont be pressured into anything your not ready for, as its obvious your not ready for anything like sex if you dont want it yet! Just, sometimes people need to let go, sometimes people need to have fun - you had phone sex - dont worry about it :). Theres nothing dirty about it, its only words, and noises. and as for growing emotional attachments, sometimes that can happen, but emotional attachments could mean a beautiful relationship in the end:) you never know.
Toodles x
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okay well i had my period on December29 til January5.then the next week on friday. I had sex and the condom popped.well how long does it take for the egg to develop again.better yet enters the uterus.could i get pregnant.cause the condom popped.it was still inside me for like a good 5 minutes.cause i walked home.then i used the bathroom.and it came out.i was in shock.first time this has ever happened too.the condom didnt seem like it had any kind of sperm inside of it cause i looked at it.and it was still on the outside inside me(i think).but i just want to know.i mean.it has been a week already.and im not displaying any symptoms.he said he didnt cum inside me either.im just wondering if it was bad for me to have sex a week after my period.am i at risk of pregnancy? (link)
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Don't worry too much, as you can't get a test til your three days late from your period, so you're going to have to wait it out to see =[ sorry. Theres no point worrying for now though =], don't ruin your month worrying. Options can be taken... and you can worry when you know for sure but to be honest I dont think it's very likely especially as he didnt come inside you.
I think this time, you're safe =] - but just to be on the safe side, get a test after next period if it's late!=]
Good Luck
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the first time i almost had sex was two weeks ago. my boyfriend and i decided i was ready, so he tried to put his penis in, but it didn't go. it hurt when he tried to push it in too. so we just gave up on that. i've had my period since i was 11, so i don't know why it didn't go in. he's really tall and skinny, so his penis is quite thin too. helpp?!?! (link)
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Its fact that on first times, everythings a little dodgy. The first time may not be great but after that Its not too shabby :)! What you must remember is that fi yuo worry too much then, it will hurt more and be harder 'to fit in' it's ahrd to eb relaxed in sucha s ituation, but lots fo couples have to try a couple of times! Just know if you're close, it will happen, just trust him and let him navigate a little! First times are bound to hurt for around 30 seconds/a minute.
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