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ok well i shave down there and i was wondering if it is normal and how do guys like it to be


1) hairy 2) a lil hair or 3) shaved

All guys are different. Some guys like it hairy, but others like a little hair or no hair at all. However, why worry about what he thinks? Go with what you're comfortable with.

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what is dry sex?
what is getting a boner?
whats a blow job?

Dry sex usually refers to sexual actions on top of clothes - going through the motions without being naked.

A "boner" is when a guy's penis gets slightly bigger as he gets aroused, more formally called an "erection."

A "Blow job" or "oral sex" is to lick and suck a man's penis to orgasm.

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I want my boyfriend to get tested for STDs before I have sex with him, so where could he go to get this done? Whats the procedure? How long does it take? How much does it cost? And how long does it take to get the results back? Thank you.

Most STD tests are blood tests, however - be sure to ask for a full range test, because otherwise some might be missed. Tests for herpes, genital warts, chlamydia, & gonorrhea are not blood tests - they're either done by taking cultures from the effected area, or a urine test.

Prices of STD tests vary by the area you live in, but each test usually runs between $10 - $40 each. My last HIV test was $15, for example.

Getting the results back can take around two weeks.

As for where to go for the test, consult with either your personal doctor, or your local Planned Parenthood. For other locations, call the National STD Hotline at 1-800-227-8922.

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how long would u say u should wait to have sex!!!

Whenever you're comfortable with and knowledgable about the possible consequences ( including: pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases ) and how to help prevent them, when you trust your partner, and when you know you're not doing it to:

A.) Be popular.
B.) Attempt to keep your boyfriend or girlfriend from wanting to break up.
C.) Because your boyfriend or girlfriend says you have to.

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why do people in there teens who arent even married yet want to have sex, like when your older and you want to get married it wont come in handy to tell him/her that your not a virgin so my questions are

1) why do people in there teens have sex
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn
3) (no affence) but if your engaged or w/e wouldn't that just disguss the guy/girl that your not a virgin

so i dont get it

1.) Peer pressure, actual desire to, believing they're in love, or the misguided hope that it will make their boyfriend/girlfriend stay with them forever.

2.) I'm a girl, and I like looking at porn too. It's sexy, it's fun, and it's not meant to have any really deep meaning.

3.) The vast majority of teenagers nowadays are not virgins, and it doesn't change who they are. My boyfriend's been with five people before me, and I still love him just as much as I would if he was a virgin before me. If he asked me to marry him tomorrow, I'd say yes - because he's absolutely wonderful, and his previous sex life doesn't matter to me in the big scheme of things.

There's some people that believe in saving themselves for marriage, but it's not held widely any longer & it's up to YOU to make that choice for yourself, nobody can make it for you.

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what are the signs of being pregnate i need this advice well give me all the signs you can think of and can you be pregnate if you are a virgin.
and can you still have your period.
please help

If you're a virgin, the possibility is VERY slim that you could be pregnant. If your boyfriend's ejaculate got near your vagina, or if you were having "dry sex" through your underwear, it is possible. However, it's NOT LIKELY.

Also, a VERY SMALL percentage of women still get regular periods while pregnant - but once again, it's NOT LIKELY.

Symptoms of pregnancy include weight gain, vomiting, odd cravings, heightened emotions, & for the later months - having to use the restroom more often.

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