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is sex a verb or a noun? (link)
both a noun is a subject and a noun is what you do and believe me a lot of ppl DO have sex


Hi everyone!

I feel terrible. Allow me to explain. I'm Todd, and I'm 15. A friend of mine (female) was cutting herself and that she was really depressed. I went to the counselor at my school to make sure that she didn't do anything hurtful (like suicide).

When she came back the next day after I told the counselor, I found out that she was on a new anti-depressant: Zoloft.

On Friday, I found out that the principal called her down and said that she wouldn't be allowed back in school unless she had a note from her psychiatrist. She told me she might be out for a while. :-(

Some of my friends said I shouldn't tell the counselor (on the day before I told the counselor), but my parents and several people said that I should. I was pretty nervous, and I didn't want her to commit suicide or do anything terrible.

I feel terrible, like I made her go away. ;-( She's not sure when she'll be back, but I feel like I committed a crime or killed someone. :-(

I'm also afraid of what my friends might say when I go back to school tomorrow. Most of all, I feel terrible since I won't see her, and I don't know how long I won't see her either. :-(

Any comments, advice, please feel free to say so.

Thanks,
Todd (link)
Todd,
I think that you made the right decision, you were only doing what you think was best for her. She could have really hurt herself and believe me you would have felt worse if you didnt do anything about it and she passed away from it. When you go back to school tell people who talk about you to mind there business hold your head up high and go about your day. Try and get in touch with her or check back with the guidance counsler for updates so you wont feel so bad.


Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!

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Some questions for you- Did you use a condomn? Are you sure you used the pregnancy test correctly? Why did you have sex with a guy you dont no? Did he rape you? Where you drunk or under the influence?

Please respond to these questions.

Also my advice would be to seriously sit down and have a talk with your parents. Tell them whats going on. Like someone else said I DO NOT recommend you getting an abortion (I consider it a form of murder) your old enough to no what sex is and what happens when you do it. If you give the name of the area your in I could help you find a place you can go for help. If you dont feel comfortable with that then you might want to just talk to your parents about that. Please if you give your area DONT give your full adress I dont need to know all that. Hope I helped, if you have any further questions then plz contact me. my yahoo address is Mrs_nautica_advicenator where you can chat with me live.




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