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My name is Holly, and I live in Minnesota. I am 19 years old but everyone says I look young for my age lol. I laugh a lot but if people are hurt, confused, scared, etc. I will always help them out. I work for sex education which means I go to schools and help girls learn about...well, you know. I am in tennis, softabll, and I'm going to start cross country in August. Also I love to bellydance (you could call it my part-time job lol!) And last but not least, I give great advice! So ask me.
E-mail: sarahlongtine@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Minnesota
Occupation: Sex Education
Age: 19
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Member Since: March 19, 2005
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My boyfriend just came over and I gave him head and he cumed and a little later I lost my virginity to him but he didn't use a condom. I'm scared I could be pregnate. Is there any chance I could be? (link)
There is a chance that you could be pregnet. Some signs that you are are:

*You'll getting sick

*You may be eating a lot more

*You'll start getting bigger especially around the stomach and breat area

*Or you skip your period

Hope I helped

:.:Holly:.:


ok im 13 and a virgin im male and what is the age most people have sex if their not sluts or whores? and is it late for me not to have sex or early whats the deel i mean i really wanna have sex i meen realy bad and i mastrbate like 3 times a day.. (link)
There's no perfect age where you could have sex. Just make sure that you feel safe and comfortable having sex. I think that you should wait a couple of years still, but if your ready then go and do it!

Hope I helped!

:.:Holly:.:


well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do (link)
Tell this guy that you don't feel comfortable dong things like that. If it happens again, tell him that you have to go and just walk away.

Hope I helped!

P.S: Don't lie to your parents becasue that won't help things either!

:.:Holly:.:


ok a few days ago my boyfriend was messing around down there, and he asked what these weird, almost square-like things are inside the hole. i never noticed before, but do you know what i'm talking about? kinda like ridges, but yea. i was just wondering if that's normal; i don't really know why it wouldn't be, but just incase. thanx! (link)
The reason it has those ridges is because all viginas are muscles. Don't worry, it's normal!

Hope I helped!

:.:Holly:.:


Ok so you know that little arrow u click next to your browser that shows you all the sites you been to recently? ok so i clicked that today, looking for a site a typed in (im lazy), and then i find this site called nextboys.com. i have never heard, nor typed, nor visited that website so i was curious why it was on our computer. i clicked it, and you wouldnt believe what it was. it was a site for gay massaging!! UGH!! im really mad, because the only people who live in my house is my 7 year old sister, and my mom and dad!! my question is: is it most likley my parents did this, or is there another way to get a site in that list. and if my parents did it, what should i say to them???? (link)
maybe your little sister was on and accidently clicked on something. She is seven! So it's proabably nothing.

If you want to ask your parents about this, simply ask them "Have you been on my account on the computer?" and if they say yes, ask them if they had been to any inapropiate websites. And take it from there.


I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond. (link)
This usually happens to males. It is just a stage of growing up. Don't worry, it is as normal as possible.


Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
When he told you that you had to wait. You should have been honest and told him. But on the other hand, if you love him, respect him and his decisions.


My bestfriend is 21. She is pregnant and does not want to keep the child because she cannot support it. She wants to have an abbortion. I have mixed feelings about it, but it's her life. I don't know how I can help her..because I'm still in highschool and don't have a job where I can lend her some money. But she's lent my cousin a LOT of money because he needed help, but he can't pay herback, for other reasons. I don't know how I can help her. And she can't tell her Mom because her Mom will kick her out of the house, and then she won't have any place to live & a child.

I'm scared for her.

Any Advice??...

- If you have opinions on abortions, I don't really want to get into the subject. So thank you anyways.


Thank you
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Okay, lets get straight to the point. YOUR FRIEND NEEDS HELP. Do not let her kill her baby. She should have had safer sex and this wouldn't have happened. So take her to a hospital or something, so she can get help. Babies don't deserve to die like that!




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