Im your typicle teen girl who likes to hang out with some freinds, go to the beach, camp or the mall. Im an animal lover. Ive done the whole dating thing even the braking up thing. I have a younger sister who can drive me a lil nuts time to time, but thats what siblings do. I love helping others ans il help as much as i can!
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I'm 18.. and a virgin..
I've been going out with a guy for a year now...we love eachother alot...
I want to have sex after marriage..
due to religious reasons and also because i think it will be of more value when you have sex for the first time on your first night...
But he wants to have sex before that....
the 1st time i explained my reasons to him he said he understood.. but now he seems to be changing..
a few days ago he bought that conversation up again
and when i explained it to him all over again he was pissed with me
"aren't you willing to have sex with me?" "dont you love me?" "why are you doing this to me?"
etc
why is he in such a hurry? doesnt he value me or respect me???
what can be wrong
I just dont know what to do now..
please help me:(
please dont tell me to dump him... I love him alot and i cant live without him...
is anything wrong with me??? if so please explain ...
Please help me...
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1st of all nothings wrong with you, your just falowing your values. Its just hard for some ppl to understant, like your boyfriend for example. Although im sure he dose respect you, it koos like hes trying to voice what he needs from you... Stay strong and remain true to your values, but have you ever considerd manual or oral stimulation. Its not realy sex but its quite stimulating.
hope this helps.
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Alright so, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and we've started having sex. We usually use condoms, but I was wondering.. how effective is the "pull-out method" i know a lot of people think it should be shunned but, i know a lot of people who have done it a lot and have had nothing happen. What do you guys think? (link)
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I think its a chance i rather not take, i mean its not garented to work...be smart take the pill, its way more efective.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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im worried about the size of my penis, i think its too small, ive never really seen another penis so i dont know whats big and wats small, and like wats the average guys penis size, if it helps mine is 7 inches, is that good or bad? please help (link)
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yep i would say thats bacicly average.
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i am a virgin but u an seriously thinking about having sex soon. on halloween i think might be the time. but my period will be somewhere right in there. so i was wondering if you have sex right before or right after you have your period, is it more likely you will get pregnet or anything? because i dont wanna get pregnet at all! but i think i am ready for sex. and if i am on my period on halloween can i still have sex and all? i know that might be nasty though. (link)
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Im sorry but your not ready for sex, not with questions like thoes.
When it comes to sex it doesnt mater if its before, after or durring your period.
When not beeing on birth control at leasts two months before having intercours there is always the chance that you can get pregnate!
Even with a condom, you can get pregnate! *Condoms are used to prevent STDs in other words Sexualy Transmited Deseases...like Aides, Gonoria, herpeys and others!
Even if he "pulls out in time" you can still get pregnate! Theres such thing as "precum"
If you don't want to be a teen mom. Take this in consideration.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
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If you dont think you will feel comfterble on top for your first time tell him. Once your used to it you could try beeing on top
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So i gave my boyfriend a handjob and i got cum on my fingers but i washed it off and about 40 mins. later i masterbated and i got my period 4 days later and i read that even if you get your period you could still b pregant? do you think i am? (link)
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Dont worry the chances of you getting pregnat from this are slim to nothing.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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ok i have a question. I heard if you dont get ur cherry popped during sex then you cant have kids. Is that true? And another thing. I also heard if you dont get ur cherry popped you are still a virgin. Is that true? (link)
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1st of all cherry is slang for your HYMEN, a thin layer of skin in your vagina, this can be poped or torn by using tampons, getting fingerd, extreem physical activities,and having sex. Yet your hymen dosent always tare during sex if the Hymen is already torn or the penis isn't penetrated far enough into the vagina.
2nd of all the only way to loose your virginity is during penis and vagina penetration.
But as for beeing able to have kids with a full Hymen... i couldnt say...sorry.
Hope this helps!
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everytime i watch the movie thirteen my vagina starts like pounding. its really wierd. whats going on? (link)
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Your hormones are just acting up...in other words your horny... dont wory its normal.
hope this helps!
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