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I'm 17, getting somewhat close to 18, and i know ill be sexually active by the end of this year. For those who are my age or close - do your parents expect you to not do anything? I know if you're like 15, and your parents find out you're sexually active..and they have the right to ground you or tell you not to see him, etc. Do you think once we turn 18, it's more of our decision/freedom that are parents just ACCEPT? Or are there parents out there who try to control that and dont approve their 18 year old doing that (even though they are considered an adult)? Any opinions on this topic would be appreciated. Im just getting an idea of how parents react to this once you turn 18.

well, technically, if you're 18...that means your an adult, you can make your own decisions. but it really just depends on the parents. like when you were 15/16 were they really controlling? and didn't want you going out alot. if so then they might have a problem with it. but if they were more layed back, then it shouldn't be too much of a problem. good luck!

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Well my friend is still wondering if she is pregnet?? Well after she eats she doesnt feel good and shes only got 1 headacke and 1 backacke!! but she feels pregnet!! how does she tell! WITHOUT A PREGNASTY TEST!!!

P.S. hasnt had sex!

simple answer is that she is NOT pregnant...if u've never had sex then you cannot get pregnant

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I have been dating a girl for awhile, about 1/4 of a year and I want to do. I am scared to ask her because she might think all I want is sex. I am still a virgin but I am anxious to experiance this milestone with her. I'm not sure if I love her, but I do know I want to express my love for her with having sex with her. If I do ask her and she thinks all I want is sex, what do I do? How do I make her sure that I like her for her and not just sex. Also, I need tips on trying to seduce her, the things I do aren't enough.

Thank You, Happy-Go-Lucky Guy

you shouldn't be afraid to ask her about it. if she loves you and vice versa, she'll understand that you aren't just gonna try and use her for sex. i know you want to experience what it's like but she might not be ready for anything like that yet, and let her know that you understand that. seducing her prolly won't do anything if she's not ready for it yet, first just try talkin to her about it to see how she feels about it. if you 2 do have sex, make sure you take responsibility for it, like using condoms or birth control. good luck!

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well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!!

wow, this guy is a total jerk, he should know that you're not ready to have sex yet, and if he doesn't understand that the first time then he deff. doesn't deserve you. but if you are afraid to say no b/c of the rumors, don't be, other ppl don't matter in this situation, and i assure you that if the rumors do start, it will pass in no time, just keep telling yourself and others that they aren't true, and you'll feel better in the end...hope i helped!

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