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One of my best friends just can't seem to get a date. Because of this, he is extremely depressed...and it's been getting worse and worse. He gets frequently depressed, sometimes even if the tiniest thing happens, and as a result, he punches walls, he verbally lashes out at my boyfriend, goes into his room and listens to depressing music...and sometimes he has even talked about suicide...he even says his family has a history of this kind of thing...
My boyfriend and I have talked to him over and over and over again, but nothing seems to help...most of the time when we're talking to him, he just ignores what we're saying and gives us cynical comments. Even if what we say cheers him up, it just happens all over again within a day or two...We're running out of things to say to him.
When the talk of seeking help comes up, he just plain refuses to see a therapist...
I am in desperate need of help...Anything, please...
Thank you.
That Gothic Chick (link)
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I have a guy friend that is exactly the same way.
What happened for him is, is that he actually made new friends and completely forgot about being single. Chances are, your friend just needs a change of pace. Try to take him somewhere he hasn't been in a while, or never has been. See if you can get him to meet new people or even get a new hobby. Being single is just the most reasonable excuse for the hole in him. Try filling it with something else.
But, really, I wouldn't suggest setting the guy up.
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I was diagnosed with Endometriosis over 4 years ago. I've had 2 surgeries to treat it, been on Lupron for a year and I am STILL having tons of problems.
The most problematic issue right now is that when i have sex or masterbate, and if I have an orgasm I immediatly afterwards am boiled over in pain. It's a very intense pain and usually lasts about 5 minutes or more. Recently, I have noticed that I bleed right afterwards as well. It's not a lot of blood, but still it's pretty scary.
I've seen countless gynos and no one has any suggestions on how to help, or any idea of what could be wrong. I'm just so frustrated.
I'm lucky to be with a very loving boyfriend who understands and helps how he can. But i'm tired of not being able to enjoy sex for fear of the pain. I just have no idea what to do. (link)
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In regards to the last answer, if you're NOT done with your family yet, I've heard having a child can actually clear up a lot of the problems of Endometriosis.
Other than that, I haven't got anything useful to tell you, but I hope that someone can help you soon.
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this might sound really stupid but i really dont have any idea lol... how do the penis actually enter the vagina... yes i am a virgin lol. while having sex how does it actually get in there? will i be able to do it or him (link)
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Is the guy a virgin? If not, you'll know it when it gets in there.
I suggest you don't try to do it for him, especially if you're not sure where to put it.
You'll figure it out pretty quick, since there's really only one hole you can put it in (as pertaining to your female-bits). Just go slow and be easy.
Also, if you can, I suggest finding some sort of picture description of sexual intercourse and also read up on some ways to practice safe-sex. Make sure he wears a glove and makes sure you put it on and take it off the way you're supposed to.
Good luck, and have fun.
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I will not say what I believe in for abortion because that may influence your answer..but someone brought this to my attention...
do you consider this an exception for abortion..if an 11 year old girl got pregnant(raped) and her hips couldn't support the baby. Do you believe that when a girl has her period she is ready to give child birth even though her age may not be? Any insight would be greatly appreciated! Thank you. (link)
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If the girl reported it to the police in time, they'd have given her a pill to elminate the chance of a fetus.
If she couldn't report it, I'd be for aborting the fetus, yes. In the case of rape especially, or in the case that the child has significant risk from both parents of dying from something terrible in it's early years.
I think that a girl at 11 is certianly not all right to give birth.
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