My name is Linda and I'm 16 years old. I consider myself pretty smart and nice (although a little werid) and I'll be glad to answer any questions about anything.
Got a question you don't want posted on my column? Send it to my e-mail at lovelyontheinside@gmail.com
Peace!
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E-mail: lindamccargo@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Occupation: IB High School Student
Age: 16
Member Since: February 17, 2008
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Last Update: April 27, 2008
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i'm 16/f..and don't really wanna hear about how i shouldn't be having sex but idk like what is an orgasm supposed to feel like? I don't know if i've had one or not..am i supposed to cum...like what happens?
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My dear friend,
Most girls do "squirt" out vaginal secretion and you'll feel yourself overcome with pleasure. Trust me, when you have one, you'll know.
-Linda
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How high does the building have to be to guarantee death?
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My dear friend,
Why do you want to kill yourself? I know you feel depressed and vulnerable right now, but there are people that can help you. E-mail me. Myspace me.
My information is on my column. And if you don't want to talk to me, I can give you phone numbers. JUST DON'T DO IT!!!
Please.
People care about you.
Like me.
-Linda
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14/f
since about september i have been having irregular periods
-lasts longer then a week
-only recently cramping
-blood clots
i am anemic & taking iron pills
also birth control
going to gyno next week
i am getting a pelvic exam
my period is still irregular this month it has been 10 days now
has anyone else gone through this? i hate it
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My dear friend,
This sounds to me like polycystic ovarian syndrome, which is treatable, so don't freak. However, when you first start your period, its always irregular for the first year. When you see the gyno, they'll be able to understand all this.
-Linda
BTW, while you're there, I suggest asking about the Gardisil vaccine, if you want to!
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I'm 18. I'm not sexually active but I would like to be and I think it would make relationships a hell of a lot easier. The only problem is that i'm really afraid of the result....meaning....the pain and initial hymen-popping and whatnot. I've done everything sexual other than sex but I have NOT been fingered nor have I fingered myself or used a tampon. I'm uncomfortable with anything being inside. I'm worried that this will make sex completely unattainable.
Is there any way I can "train" my vagina to be a bit looser? Anything! (link)
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My dear friend,
Part of losing your virginity is making your hymen break, and its never easy. Get in a relationship where the guy cares about you and will go slow for you when you first have sex and will stop if it gets to be too much for you. I hope it works out for you.
-Linda
P.S. (remember to use protection!)
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more questions:
1) what does it mean to cum?
2) how big, in length/circumference, is an average penis?
3) what does it mean to ''get wet''?
4) what happens when guys have an erection?/ why?
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My dear friend,
1) When a guy "cums", he orgasms and releases sperm. Girls can "cum" too, but instead of sperm, its vaginal secretion when they reach orgasm.
2) Average penis is 4-7 inches long and maybe 2 - 2 1/2 inches wide, but sizes vary greatly.
3) When a girl, gets wet, she becomes sexually aroused and her vagina secretes (releases fluid)to make it easier for a penis to enter.
4) When guys have an erection, the blood veins in their penis fill to make it hard and long and this happens when they are sexually aroused. They can be aroused by thoughts, sights, or actions.
I hope I could help.
-Linda
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Why is it that some fellow advicenators tell young girls and boys it is okay to have sex or do other sexual acts "if they feel that they are ready" when they know that it is wrong. I believe they are just looking to get good ratings, do you agree? I'd much rather tell them the truth, that they are TOO YOUNG and have NO IDEA of potential consequences BESIDES pregnancy and get a lower rating than tell them it's okay. Am I the only one?
I suppose this can be seen as purely subjective, but is there anyone out there at or about my age (20) who thinks it's ok for 12 year olds to go around having oral sex and/or intercourse?
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My dear friend,
I can see where you are coming from, but I believe everybody has the freedom to make their own choices. I also believe sex at 12-years-old is a bit extreme, but in their lives, my opinion has no standing. So we have to help our younger friends weigh out the pros and cons of sexual acts
and give them the protection they would use and the help and advice they need. Furthermore, I respect your opinion and hope you are doing well in your life.
-Linda
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I feel like im pregnant sometimes. But I am not quite sure because it scares me to even go near a test. I just want to now if you think I am experiencing any of these signs because I am pregnant or losing my mind just thinking about it. I feel bloated or fatter. I had my period the first week of January this year. My period is usually 5 days. I had sex just a week after my period. The condom had popped and of course I didn't know until I actually went to use the bathroom. Which had to be atleast 5-10 minutes after intercourse. I noticed that part of the condom was still inside me. However, I didnt notice any sperm inside of it. Before he decided he was going to cum, he pulled out and did so. What I do know is there is something called pre-cum that does exist. Thats's why im explainig this now. Im not on birth control so my period comes whenever it feels like it. And somehow during the last week of January...or the week before the last...my period mysteriously shows up and lasts for 4 days. Up until that happened..my period lasts for 5-7 days. None lesser than those days. I Have no kind of breast pains. Getting bigger or anything like that. My friends say it looks like I have lost weight. But I do not think so. I think I look fat. Bloating maybe. And it is common to start bloating before your period, And on the regular. I get a feeling in my stomach like Fatigue before I get my period. So every now and then. I know when im about to get on. I have back pains every now and then. Morning sickness is not common at all to me. I do not have the urge to eat alot either(like im eating for two. i will eat a single meal and still get full). I am tired everyday, I personally think its because i go to bed at 11pm or 12 midnight and wake up at 4:45am-5am. So I will sometimes just come in the house and go straight to sleep or I will sleep in class. But not occassionally. Please do not recommend a test to be takin'. I am going to do so tomorrow. I just want to know If I am experiencing any kind of physical way of being pregnant. ANd also I want to put in that I am not having mood swings. No headaches. Only once, and it was out of nowhere. My friends say I am losing weight but I truly think I am getting bigger. My breast are not getting larger nor sore nor tender at that matter. And it has only been a month and I hear that it is most common that it happens in the second month. My period. Well im not on the pill so like i said it will come any time it wants too. I think I had my period. I am just not too sure. And it happened to come twice in one month and this onl happened to me a few times. I will have my period in the next month still but it will change dates like for example..my period will come ealier in the month. Than I end up having my period later on in the same month. And then get it later on next month.(if that helps)
Any advice or suggestions or opinions I will take it all. Please help. Any additional information. I will surely be glad to give. (link)
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My dear friend,
I understand you are scared right now and the best way to feel better about it is to have knowledge about what is going on. First of all, condoms can break when the female partner does not have enough vaginal secretion, which means you may not have been aroused. If this intercourse was not completely consensual, be sure to tell some one and find the proper physical
and emotional therapy. I'm glad you are using a condom, and I hope you know that pulling out is never an effective contraceptive. Sperm can live for up to 4 days outside of the body and can travel from anywhere around the vagina into the uterus. I'm not trying to scare you, I just want to make sure you know.
It does sound to me like you're having some symptoms of pregnancy, and while I can understand you are afraid of taking one, knowledge is your most valuable asset. If you are afraid to face the results alone, find a friend or parent or counselor to sit with you while you wait for the results.
Another thing, vaginal bleeding is not necessarily menstruation. I would suggest you tell some one you trust, contact Planned Parenthood, see a doctor, and take a test as soon as possible.
I understand this is hard on you emotionally, no matter how old you are. I hope it goes well for you.
-Linda
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