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I'm 21/F and have had several sexual partners. Right now, I'm in a serious relationship, so my boyfriend and I have sex quite often. The problem is, it just never feels THAT great. There's definitely no orgasm because everyone I know says when you have one, there's no mistake about it. This has got me to realize I don't think I've ever had an orgasm and it scares me. Sex has been pleasurable, just not mind blowing. We do try a few positions, but I'm not sure what to do next. Even when I try by myself, I don't get off. I just want to be able to have an orgasm! What can I (or he) do? (link)
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Honestly, you are not alone. Not every woman can have an orgasm. I think you are putting too much belief in the mind blowing sex. You said you tried many positions. But maybe what you need is to go back to the most basic ones. Do not feel scared if you don't have an orgasm. Sometimes we go through periods where we just can't get any pleasure at all. Do you exercise regularly? Because exercise can help too. It relaxes your body, calms your mind and just makes you better. You might want to try that. Don't worry. Just enjoy the sex. Orgasm or no orgasm, you're with a guy who loves you and that is the most important feeling of all.
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My boyfriend has herpes. He told me before we ever did anything and I accepted him for who he is and this disease he has had to deal with. He hasn't had any sores or anything since we been together but we only been together for like 3 months and he says he usually gets sores like 1 time a year or maybe 2 if it's really bad. We always took precaution to make sure he wasn't going to infect me. I looked over his penis and we made sure we were both freshly cleaned and he always ALWAYS used a condom. So 4 days ago I was feeling weird on my vagina and BOOM theres a freaking sore. I freaked out and went to the clinic and they tested me and it came back positive for herpes. I know I got to deal with it and stuff but...How did that happen? (link)
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Condoms can't cover everything. Take 1 clove of raw garlic and chop it to little pieces and take it as if you were taking a tablet. It might feel uncomfortable in your stomach but it will help you a lot. If you do this, 3 or 4 times a day it will makes the sores go away and keep it from coming back. You might have bad breath while you're taking it but tell your boyfriend to just shut up when he compains about it and take it himself too.
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I have got 40 paracetamol and a half bottle of vodka in front of me. I am going to take them , please dont talk me out of it (link)
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Sometimes it feels like the world is crowding you and every one is against you. But this is only brought by bad events in our lives. Events change. So do we. If you kill yourself, you will not be doing justice to you. Do not deny yourself the chance of a good life. I know you can do it. You're posting here is proof to me that you are looking for a chance to survive. Humans are built to survive. We have skills that enable us to get up-alive- each and every morning of our lives. Use your skills. Do everything you can to survive.
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So I've been to the gyno about four times the past couple months and she asked the first time if i was sexually active .. i said no. then after that she would just say you're not sexually active right? I said right.
Well i had sex for the first time about a month ago and I'm going back to the gyno on monday. If she asks if I'm sexually active I say yes right? Even if I've only had sex once? (link)
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Does it bother you that your Gyno knows that you are sexually active? It does not have to if your answer is yes. First they have seen every person there is who has had sex, married or not. Second, if you are worried she might tell someone, you don't have to. There is a law that prevents her form doing that. As for your original question, you are considered secual active even if you had sex only once.
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