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I have had alot of life experiences and all my friends come to me for advice when i was bout 14 i stumbled across this website and it helped me out with alot of tough and not so though questions it was nice to know there was always someone with an outside view on things. So hit me up if you need something i'll be happy to help if i can in anyway!
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so my boyfriend wants to finger me
but im not sure
because one, i can only fit one finger in my vagina
is this normal?
two, i shave all my pubic hair off but it grows back
does it bother a guy if theres stubble?
please help (link)
First of all never do anything you are not completely ready for. Things like this may seem right when they are not yet you need to have a talk with him and only decide to do what YOU are ready for. when you finger yourself it will not be the same as when he does it because when you get sexual aroused with your boyfriend it will become much easier for more to fit. Pubic hair will always grow back its perfectaly normal and guys have it too so the understand most guys arent worried about that anyway

hope this helps!


i lost my virginity last night, but it hurt and it was reallllly hard for him to fit. he's pretty huge.. so i guess it's understandable.. but is this normal? im afraid that im just too small now. do you think this is perfectly normal? did other people go through the same thing? thanks (link)
its completely normal especially since it was your first time! You may even bleed the 1st or 2nd time due to vaginal stretching this is nothing to be afraid of and nothing is wrong with you. It will get much easier and much more enjoyable over time but please always be safe. also if you get over nervous or uncomfortable it can make then entry a difficult one just make sure you relax and take a deep breath and never do anything you are not ready for!

hope this helps!


I get close to an orgasm and my legs start to shake and it is so overwleming and I have to stop cuz I start to go crazy and seem like I just can't get enough...what should I do...any ideas?

Thanks(: (link)
try stretching your legs regularly legs can cramp or get shaky do to the muscle spasms you body can indure during you peak or climax

and then just relax and let the rest just happen

and remember just breathe!
hope this helps


if you have sex with your underwear on, is it still counted as sex? or does it really just count on what you think is sex or not? (link)
Yes it is still sex.

If the penis went inside the vagina then it is sex anything else is considered foreplay..

if you are worried about this or it was not consentual i suggest you seek a older trusted adult and tell them what happened.

i hope this helps.

remember no matter what just breathe everything will be okay!




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