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I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.

I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..

I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.


Gender: Male
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 27, 2008
Answers: 79
Last Update: September 15, 2009
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13/f
soon to be 14.
for my age, my boobs are HUGE. well, compared to my body. B36 and theyre still growing. but, this one with really bothers me about my breasts. theyre pointy. not like madonna's cone bra. noo. not like that.
but like. idno.
and im very pale and m veins in them are very visible.
please do not lecture me saying "everyones body is different"
i know that. but how can i change this? (link)
Plastic surgery or lose alot of weight so that your boobs shrink and maybe fill out


Do you enjoy the taste of vagina or no? (link)
It depends on the girl honestly. The vagina taste and smell are dependent on the diet of the girl+ how often she washes.

So there isn't a definite way of saying if you like the taste of vagina's.

But so far i like it.

Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~


what things around the house could i use to substitute for a real vagina opr a blow/hand job
thanks in advance (link)
http://www.jackinworld.com/expert/05simul.html

Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m


Me and my girlfriend have been going out for six months. I love her so much. I never loved someone this much in my life before. I'm 16 and shes 15 gonna be 16 in September. We don't go to the same school. I go to a Catholic school, and she goes to a public school. About two months ago we went out to eat, Saw a movie, and went back to her house. Her parents were out at a neighbors party so i decided to stay with her until they got home, So she wouldnt be scared. So we were laying in her bed, Watching a movie and listeing to music, i was holding her in my arms and its was quiet, and I told her I love her. And she turned around and we started making out, Then one thing led to another i started taking her clothes off and she started taking mine off, Then Well I think you know what happend next, We ended up having sex. (We were both Virgins) I did use a condom and everything, so we did have protection. So now that its 2 Months later, I kinda think she might be pregnant. She hasnt mentiond anything, but I noticed Her stomachs been getting bigger and bigger, nothing like huge or anything just like a little bump. I keep telling her theres nothing she can't tell me. And she always says the same thing "I know, I love you, and I could never keep anything from you." I trust her, but her friend even kind of slipped and said did you tell him yet, and she just gave her a look. And lately shes been sick alot, She throws up everyday for like a month. IF she is pregnant i want her to tell me. Should I mention something to her. Im scared, I dont want anything to happen to her. I want to be with her and help her through anything. Also Any ideas on how to help her through this if she is... Thank you man. (link)
Me and my gf are both virgins, and that is the excate thing i worry about when i even think about having sex with her. So i can understand the worry.

From what you told me. Yea shes pregnant.
Some signs are
Wight gain
Werid cravings (like pickles and ice cream)
Sickness.
No more period. (if you have noticed she doesn't anymore)
Cramping.
Irregular bleeding from the vagina.
Excessive tiredness.
Swollen or tender breats.

Those are a few.
What you should do seeing that the friends screwed up and pretty much told you.

Sit your girlfirend down and tell her you think shes pregnant, tell her that if she is you need to know so that you can help her with her decesion.
(i do not know your views on abortion )

Tell her how importent it is for her to tell you and maybe have her take a pregnancy test.

Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
P.S. tell me how it went


I want to finger my girlfriend but I dont know what to do. Like Idk what feels good. Do you have a girlfriend what do you do? (link)
Practice is the only advice i can give. Some girls like diffrent techniques. Ask her how she likes it (if she has done it before or she masturbates) If not just ask her if she likes what your doing if not change it up


okay this may sound stupid... but when you finger a girl what is that like large ball shaped part you feel when you first go in? i can always feel it with the side of my finger. haha thanks. (link)
From what your describing that my son would be a clit.
Give it some attention too

~InsaneChildz~
15/m


I can't really find anything online about this. But is it possible for the penis to keep getting bigger around age 17? I've had sex a lot with him and for the past six months, it feels like he's going in a lot deeper and it hurts to get it in [even if we have foreplay/lube] I get sore after sex and I walk a little funky now.. I thought it was because of bloating [due to periods] but it's been months and I'm no longer bloated. So is it just me? (link)
Well it could be that he just wasn't going in fully to begin with, and he just recently tried going all the way in. But if thats not the case then yes it is possible for him to naturally get bigger. The general rule is it can keep growing till approx. 18.

My advice is ask him about it and if hes just getting bigger tell him he needs to not go in as far because it is hurting you.

~InsaneChildz~
15/m


well i've done everything but sex and when my boyfriend does anything to me i reach a point where i cant handle it anymore and i tell him to stop, i dont orgasm but then like a few hours later i will. sometimes when he fingers me i randomly do but it doesnt even feel good or anything, i think i have a medical problem but i dont know what to do!! help please (link)
Why can't you "handle" it? would be helpful.
But from what i have to go on here i goes.
You might not be orgasming because he either isn't good/hitting the right spots.
It is normal for a girl not to orgasm all the time, some girls it takes a long time to achieve an orgasm, or the you need a special spot stimulated or you get nothing.
Just try to explore all the different things with him, and even by yourself.
Try masturbating and see what you like.

Hope it helps
~InsaneChildz~
15/m


i am 14 years old, and about two months ago i lost my verginity to my 17 year old boyfriend. we werent even going out for 2 months yet, and we didnt even know eachother for 3 months. but we were both vergins and i know he really wanted to lose his verginity. and it was prom night, so it was kind of expected. i wanted to have sex with him, but i never wanted to become who my friends are who lost their verginities at 12 and 13. there is something seriously wrong with my town where girls thing its okay to have sex in junior high, and i know its not wrong. i dont feel like i was pressured into sex but i feel like i wanted to wait and now theres no turning back. and me and my boyfriend are incredibly close and i know we'll be together for the rest of my high school and i honestly want to grow with him into a family when we get older but i just dont know if i feel right about this.. like when im a parent, and my kids ask me when i first had it, im going to have to say 14 and im going to have to live forever knowing that i was a little slut. and im so worried that im going to like emotionally break down because i worry too much about this.. i dont know what to do, should iu stop having sex with him? even though theres no turning back, and i do enjoy it.? i just dont know. and i absolutly cannot talk to my mom about it. she believes in sex after marriage and expects me to stick with it. and she would deffinitely dig a hole and burry me in it if she found out.. please help (link)
If you feel like you will be with your boyfriend for a long time and you enjoy it then do it. If you are afraid of people giving you trouble about it calling you a slut just keep it personal. Tell your boyfriend that you would prefer if he didn't tell anyone about your sex life.

And do not feel bad about having sex with your boyfriend your not a slut for having sex with him. You are just expressing your love for him and willingness to give yourself to him.

And lastly about the "what will i tell my kids?!"
Simply tell them the truth. You were in love and you expressed it with your boyfriend.
They wont give it a second thought =]

Hope i helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m


my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year, and we just started having sex at the begining of the year.
he doesnt really last that long, and its understandable because i was his first.

normally we have a quickie first and then wait a while and the 2nd time he always lasts longer...but sometimes it's difficult for him to get hard and stay that way....how long should we be waiting...and any other tips? (link)
Some guys just do not have the capability to go two rounds.
But if that isn't the case with your boyfriend then it is just because your his first. Just give him time and he will last longer. The more you have sex the longer each time will go.
Practice makes perfect.
And lastly "other tips" would be to google how to last longer during sex the first link gives great tips




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