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this is a 100% honest question and i need a lot of advice:
i get really horny sometimes thinking about this guy i like. we talk online most of the time and he tells me he gets hard whenever thinking about me. and to tell you the truth i become wet when we have cyber sex. he wants to eat me out, and i want to give him a blow job. once again, this is coming from the heart and i need advice. -- my question is,

1- when we're in person, what should i do to get him turned on?
2- how should i say to him sexually and how should i say it? like in a sexy low raspy voice? 3- when and how often should i moan?

thanks so much. (advice from guys are welcome too) (link)
1) Do what you do online. Be close to him. Look like you want him. Flirt around. Are you two together like an item or is this just a physical thing? A lot of subtle physical contact is good. Gauge his reaction to know what works and what doesn't.
If you're in a private setting, you can try 'dirty talk'. Tell him what you wanna do to him, in explicit detail.
2) Say what you say online. Be natural. If you're not sure how to say it, movies do help. Those with Megan Fox type girls being flirtatious. Look sexy.
3) This is completely natural and different for everyone. If he does a good job eating you out, you'll be able to 'feel' like you wanna moan. Or you could be a quiet sort, that's normal too.


i m a virgin and i got fingered 2 times and ate out 2 times can the doctor tell ? and if my mom is not in the room when they look do they tell her if they see it? (link)
If it was consensual then no. Unless the fingering broke your hymen (the bit of skin that is broken during first-time sex but can also be broken by fingering, using tampons and sports etc). Doctor can't tell if you have been eaten out or not.
If you are old enough (which I assume you are), the doctor will ask you about it first or will at least ask if s/he can tell your mother. Usually this would only come up if there's something about it that will raise concern, if not there is no point in telling anyone.


ummm...see the problem is that i'm a virgin and I want to keep it that way for now so how is a way of pleasuring my self with a vibrator dildo or a boy? plz answer i'll make it up to everyone who answers thnx!!! (link)
There's masturbation which is what you have vibrators/dildos/fingers/imagination/pressure-changeable showerheads for.
If you want a boy but to keep your virginity, keep his special organ away from yours. He can finger you (unless you're worried about the hymen itself or anything going inside you there), pleasure you orally. Or you and a guy can load up on foreplay.
I hope this helps. Masturbation is best if you wanna stay a virgin, cos you know what you want and you can make it happen.


how do girls have sex together? (link)
There's fingering. There's the scissors position (just hold up the two "peace sign" fingers and put them together, meeting middle point to middle point. You'll know what I mean). There's rubbing each other's you-know. Aaaand the obvious making out and chest loving. It's really up to the girls and what they like. Basically doing to each other what they do to themselves or would like to be done.




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