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Hey everybody, the name is....none of your business, but I can advise well enough..or so I'm told. I've been around the block a few times and then some, so ask away and I'll do my best to answer. The word in the picture above is "Veritas" which is latin for truth, and I'm her to give it, so get at me. It never hurts to help.



'Remember the past, Plan for the future, but Live for today. Because yesterday is Gone and tomorrow may never Come.'
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Location: Virginia
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
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Member Since: January 22, 2007
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Last Update: January 24, 2007
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I lost my virginity to one of my guy friends on jan.7th. We were fine and talked a couple times a week up till yesterday. He sent me a text message yesterday and was telling me how he liked one of our friends and wanted my input on what he should do. I obviously told him that i wouldnt tell him what i thought because i care alot about him and dont want to see them together.

He told me that i knew that i was just a one time thing and i need to get over it. i got really upset and started flipping out on him. He said i was just a booty call and i should of kept my legs closed and quit throwing myself on him.

(he is the one that Asked me out that night, hes the one that wanted to have sex with me)

Im really upset and i cant handle this anymore. Its the second time in three months that he has used me.

Im begging you guys to help me out here.
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Honestly, you should NOT be friends with someone like that. It's very sad that you lost your virginity to a womanizing manwhore, but hopefully you learned your lesson. Sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone else, so I highly recommend that you have an intimate relationship with whoever you choose to do it with, namely someone you are in love with. Every girl deserves to be treated like a princess by her man, not like a piece of trash. Basically that guy's an asshole and doesn't deserve your attention so don't give it to him. And honestly 90 percent of guys out there are assholes, so be careful about who you get close to. Hope this helps. Good luck!


17/M and wandering "What is the average length of the penis?" I've read many different things on the internet but I'm still not sure. So if I could get a few opinions then that would be awesome. Thank you very much for your time. (link)
Haha the girl that answered before me said 5-7...that's two whole inches and a huge range as far as penis size goes and therefore cannot be an average by any stretch of the imagination. The truth is putting an average size on something like that is a little hard (no pun intended). But as far as things go it's probably safe to say 5.5 to 6.5 inches is average, but if you're under this it's not a huge deal. I mean sure there are little girls who don't know what they're talking about that say size is everything, but older more experienced women I've talked to claim "It's not the meat, it's the motion."


ok so people are alyways talking about first base second base third base and home i know what home is but what are the other three? (link)
Well different people say different things but first base is generally making out. Second is fingering her / beating him. Third is blowing him / eating her. And I'm not sure if you know what all the terminology i used means, but if you don't you're not old enough to hit any base, so don't worry about it :)


me and my gf had sex were both under age the condom fell of so i stopped i didnt ejagulate its three days after and she's complaining of severe stomach pains could she be pregnant?? (link)
Well technically it is possible that she is due to pre-ejaculation, however it's highly unlikely...now you said the condom fell off...does that mean inside her and if so did you get it out....i feel kind of stupid asking that and i hope you did...if you have been sexually active with other girls carelessly then you could have contracted an STD and passed it on to your girlfriend. If the stomach pains continue have her tell her parents to take her to the doctor (she can just tell them she has bad stomach aches) honestly though you don't feel the effects of pregnancy three days in, so she probably has food poisoning or something. I wouldn't worry too much, but be smarter next time.


Im 15. in 9th grade. like ALLL of my friends have had sex.. its so weird im like the only one who hasnt. Im perfectly fine with it, im waiting for a serious long relationship where im in love to do it.. but all my friends keep getting hurt, been very close to gettin pregnant. Guys around here treat girls like shit.. there's sooo lil guys that wont use a girl... but anyways, all my best friends who are jus tlike me like wanted to wait a long time to have sex, are having sex in like one month with there sweet talkin boyfriend, there boyfriends are just sayin thing sthey wanna hear to make them think they're in love. I know its not my business, but i loveee my friends to death, and i look out for them. cause im older than all of them.. what can i do, they're too young and ruining their morals over these fake playin guyss.... (link)
Well it's nice to see that there's one smart freshman still alive...I know exactly what you're talking about. The idiot freshmen coming in think they're the shit because upperclassmen hit on them...this is why there's a herpes epidemic going around the freshmen class at my school...but i digress. There's not a whole lot that you can do being that you're buddies are all grown up and "know everything" but you can talk to them and make them realize you care and tell them of how they could be easily ruining their lives. And furthermore, they don't get hit on because they're anything special, it happens because to older guys, new freshmen girls = easy ass




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