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OMG!! i am 15 and i have no idea what sex is!! can u give me details???
SALLY!
Ok. This is probably a conversation I would have in a private chat room because your question is so0o broad, but I know I can help you. Just IM me.
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I'm totally in love with boyfriend. We've been togher for over 9 months. hes made me cry when i'm happy. i've made him cry when hes happy. Hes says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. i feel the same way. he also says hes lucky to have me , he stays up at night cause he can't get me out of his head , that i'm the only girl he really cares for and stuff like that. It seems to good to be true. Do u think hes telling me the truth? He doesn't pressure me into doing anything sexual that i don't want 2 and when we do have sex he says he want it to be speical . I feel the same way. But hes been doing horrible things. Hes cut himself before. The reason he did is because his dad wouldn't let him call and other times because he couldn't get me out of his head. He also admited to takeing phills. He has promised to stop for me. what should I do? Its scares me i don't want to lose him. Why do u think hes doing this? How can I help him. Please give me some advice. And please don't think hes a freak because honestly no one would ever think of him to ever do anything like that hes a good guy. Please help and thank you
Hi hun,
Ok I have a number of friends who cut or have cut. Some people are more serious than others, not saying that all cutting isnt dangerous, but the sooner you find out the better. If your boyfriend was this open and honest about it then obviously he wants you to help him. Apperantly you guys love eachother very much and are willing to do anything to be with eachother. My advice to you is to start a journal. I know it sounds really cheesy and gay, but it works. I've done it with about 5 of my friends and it helps so much. He can put anything in it. Poems, pictures, writing anything. Try to keep him as preoccupied as possible and most of all talk to him about it. Cry with him if you have to. The thing about this is, if you aren't read y to support him 100% you cant support him at all.
I really hope I helped and good luck.
IM me if you wanna talk some more. I have some amazing stories. CaNdiShOpGurll (AIM)
well ashly i have a large penis and yah im really horny all of the time i mean all of the time and thus the problem of poping a boner in a public place i mean its a problem for alot of guys with small dicks too but i mean come on
Ok um..... I've never actually had a boner, but uh I can see where your coming from. At your age guys are very self concious about their size. But my only advice I can give you is to wear bigger pants, tuck it in and wait until you get home. Im sure your girlfriend will be very happy with your um... stamina.
Well, My 5 year olf brother and I walked into the room my 16 year old sister and I share, and we saw her and her boyfriend having sex...
They didnt even know we were there for like two minutes... I was frozen, my feet rooted to the floor, but then finally my brother pulled me away... the problem is... My brother asked me, just as we walked out, "what were they doing there?"
I seriously dont know how to answer him... I mumbled something, but all week he's been persisting, and I need to give him an answer before he asks my parents and gets my sister into trouble... Please help!!!
I dont mean to be mean but that is very funny because i have had to do the exact same thing except mine was with my GREAT aunt and uncle. Your best bet is to actually tell him they were having sex, and when he asks you what that means be very very vague. Im sure you've heard the "where do babies come from?" speech a thousand times over, but this time it may actually save your sisters butt.
PS- I think its really cool you are trying to protect your sister like that.
I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!
There is no difference. I am very sorry for your friend that was raped, but that is not an excuse. Adoption is a wonderful thing and I think that your freinds should consider that if they are looking towards abortion.