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my boyfriend and i thought i was pregnant, because i forgot the last time i had my period. we were just laying together last night and he had his hand on my stomach and then he took his hand off like he took something out though, so i was like what are you doing? and he said your not pregnant anymore so then i said, what do you mean? and he said i prayed to god and told him we werent ready and to please take the baby away because you dont want a baby right now. and then he was saying id have my period soon and that everything will be ok now. and, i got it this morning. yeah its a silly question but the only reason why im questioning it is because i did feel like i had a little person in me and that i loved it, and as crazy as it sounds..i actually felt like i missed it like it actually was gone after he said all that. so my question is, is that even possible god could have done that? (link)
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Well, since you haven't given your religion, i can only go by mine. It really depends on your belief system. For me, i don't believe it could have been done. I'm agnostic, so I believe in a higher power (or powers), but I don't really believe that there is this all knowing god to plays with us like we're made out of clay or something like that (okay, stupid analogy). But anyway, If you believe that it did, then it may have. It really has a lot to do with what you believe because nothing can be proved. I do believe that your feelings were true and if thats the way you feel, go with your insticts and your gut feeling. Its more about you than about anyone else so no one can really answer this question but you. You have to look inside yourself to figure out what you truly believe.
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ok so me and my boyfriend have tried having sex once before but it hurt really bad and a few other things happened and it just didn't work out completely. my question is, are there any way i can make it hurt less?
he fingers me right before and says im wet/relaxed enough but then as soon as he tried to put his penis in he couldnt, even though i felt i was relaxed too. also, the few times he did get in it hurt really really bad, i get that it's supposed to but are there any ways to make it hurt less?
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It's natural for it to hurt the first time. Your body isn't used to the action of it and it has never experienced that before. It is a very common, i know very few people who didn't have it hurt the first time. It really depends on the person, but it will probably hurt a few more times. After a while, you get used to it, but right now, it will probably hurt. I don't really know what might make it hurt less. Maybe going slower or using some type of lubricant. Other than that, if he is very...well endowed, then that is probably one of the reasons why it hurts a lot.
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well me and my boyfriend have been together for three months now and we've had sex a few times. the last time we weren't planning on having sex so we didn't have a condom with us but im on the pill so i didn't think it mattered. but i had missed taking it two days before. we've continued to have sex since then but i've missed two periods. do you think im pregnant?
i daren't take a test, i jsut don't know what to tell my boyfriend if i am. (link)
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you really need to take a test, especially if you aren't normally irregular. As far as if you are, you just have to tell your boyfriend. If he really loves you and cares for you, he'll be there for you. It may seem really scary right now and especially if you're pregnant, but you will have people there for you, and you will feel better once you know and tell people.
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well i've jsut recently found out that im pregant, i took a test after i missed my last period. but me my boyfriend have had sex since then and really still want to have sex but will it harm the baby? we have a very active sex life and i dont know what to do. how can we keep our attraction to each other without sex? (link)
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no, sex will not harm the baby. Its actually good for you to have sex while pregnant. It won't hurt you one bit. Once you start getting noticeably pregnant, then you should probably tone it down considering you don't want to get hurt and you probably won't be as much in the mood for it either. Make sure and talk to your doctor just in case they have a specific opinion about your body and your body chemistry and structure. Also, still make sure to use a condom because you can actually conceive again even though you have one now, so just to be safe. Make sure you're careful on all fronts. Also, if your only attraction to each other is through sex, that isn't a very good relationship. A lasting relationship should be fine without sex as well as with. So make sure you consider that.
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ive been seeing my boyfriend now for about three months and the other night we had sex for the first time. the thing is he made me bleed. im not a virgin and it hasnt been that long since the last time i had sex. what do you think is wrong?
is it normal to randomy bleed? its not a lot but ive been bleeding for two days now, what should i do? (link)
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it could be your period, or maybe something tore. If he is...well, rather...large...then that could be why. If your body is more used to smaller sizes and now he's larger, then sometimes that happens. I say that if it isn't your period, you should go to a doctor to find out, just to make sure. Because even if you're torn, it would be nice to know and make sure that nothing is wrong.
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I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused. (link)
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well, people mature at many different levels. I'm 16 and i haven't had sex yet either. It just hasn't been right yet. I'm perfectly mature, but i know that i'm not ready for sex. Knowing you're not ready and abstaining is much more mature than just going and doing it because someone tells you to. I'm sure that some of the girls probably believe its right, but i'm sure that some others just did it because their boyfriend wanted to, or their friends were and they were feeling the pressure. If you know its not right yet, then don't do it. Make sure that you're certain before you actually do. We can't dictate how others live their lives, but i do hope that for all those out there having sex that at least its protected so that they can keep some part of their youth. I happen to be close to someone with siblings who have children and are barely 18, and a close friend of mine had a baby when she was 17, so there we go. Things happen, so people just need to be careful. I think that you just need to worry about yourself and not think about these other girls because they will do what they want to do and we can't change that.
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