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Q: hi how far should i put in my tampon cause some days it'll hardly go in then other days it'll go in really far
Well on like all tampon boxs it'll say to put it in to the line on the plastic part cause theres like a line that tells you how far to put it in. When its up to that line push it in.


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Ashley

Q: what are the symtoms to a yeist infection?
It will be really ichy!! Like youll have white stuff come out of you. All youll wanna do all day is ich it. Theres pills you can get for it or cream. You can get them at drug stores or just normal stores.

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Ashley

Q: My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him?
Well just tell him your not ready. If he loves you like you love him he'll under stand and wait till your ready!! I'm sure he'll wait and if he cant wait then theres someone eles out there way better for you. Just sit him down and explain to him how you feel about it and everything thats all.


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Ashley

Q: **This is Motly to guys, but if gurls can help then thats good too**

When im making out with my boyfriend, he slips his hand under my underwear and starts touching me down there, my question is do guys like girl's pussies to be shaved or what when they are touching them?
**I'll Rate you good**
**Thanks in advance**

Well if he loves you and cares about you he wont care if its shaved or if its not. Now i Nair(cream) and i feel that they like it better if you are. My friend didnt shave once and he fucked her and then told all the boys that she didnt shave and it was nasty!! And if you are planing on shaving...it wont hurt but after youll probley get a rash and it will ich like all the time. Thats what happens thats why i Nair. Its a cream your put it on leave it on for 5-10min then rince off. Yep thats it the only thing about it is it stink really bad!!! But hey doesnt hurt or nothing. You can get it at like any store it its like $6. Hope i helped

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Ashley

Q: is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate?
Yep

Q: is it bad to masterbate?
~Nopes~

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Ashley

Q: is there a cure for pubic lice?
OH my god i feel so bad for you!!Call the doctor and see. I never had it before so i really woudlnt no though

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Ashley

Q: I've been masturbating and I've been using a water bottle and my finger.. does anyone have any other items I could use to masturbate? Will rate 5's =]
WOW your kinki using a water bottle lol...sexi... well if your willing to use things like that let me name a few

-viberating tooth brush
-a foot thingy
-a guys finger
-a guys dick!!(ohs god thats good lol)
-carrot
-your girls
-they got thease ice pack things for water bottles there hard
-dildo

gotta think about some more and when i do ill update this!!

Love,
Ashley

Q: ok im 13/f and ive never done anything bad but last night me and my boyfriend did a lot of stuff..it felt really gooa at the time but today i dont feel good..is something wrong with me?
Aws theres nothing wrong with you at all. It was your first time. Alot of people felt the same on there first time. I kinda felt guilt. Not that i did anything just for the fact right before i did i was telling my mom how my dad needs to let go alittle and that ill always be his little girl and how she needs to trust me more. I tell my mom everything though. Youll feel fine though after awhile. Hope you feel better!!


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Ashley

Q: Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do?

Ok well if you like your friend like that but still want a boy your BI. And there is nothing wrong with that at all!! Dont be ashamed of it. Most BI people would love to have a friend to do things like that with. I dont no what other people think but i think its ok to be 14. Everything will be ok. It might even just be a fase sence your only 14. Hope i helped you out alittle!!


Love,
Ashley

Q: my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.

HELP
Hun i no its hard but you gotta tell your boyfriend. He really needs to no. Alot of rapers say that. I've never been raped but a family member of mine has. She was raped from the age 9-15 almost. She was afraid to tell anyone cause he said he would do it again and again and might kill her. When she told it stopped. He might just be saying that so you dont tell and if you tell then he'll get in trouble and wont be able to do it again. Atleast tell your mom or something hun he could do this to others!! Over 1000 girls get raped a day and barely any of them tell a soul. Just talk to someone about it before he does it again!!


*-* Ashley *-*

Q: what's pop a cherry mean?
Girls have a tight peice of skin inside them. When a girl and guy have sex the dick streches(pops) the skin makes it looser. It hurts when a girls cherry is poped by the way!!!

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Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: last night i had sex for the third time. he didnt use a condom and im not sure if he came in me. i was due for my period anyways and now i have it. my friend said that i could be pregnant. and im really scared. i cant talk to my mom about that kinda of stuff either. how can i tell or what should i do? please help me.
Well your lucky this time your not pregnant. Not being saft about sex is not good. Never not use a condom when having sex unless if your trying to have a kid. You might not be pregnant but you could get some kind of STD. I'm sure your safe but for now on if you dont have a condom with you two dont have sex. You'll just have to wait.

*-*Always be safe about that stuff*-*

Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: What r some of the signs of a yeast infection? thanks
Well there will be white stuff. Lots of iching. It burns like crazy!! You can get pills for this or a cream. Hope i helped!


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Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: I need pointers.... Umm
How to finger a girl...
How to give oral sex to a girls...
Where is a good spot to make my woman cum.... hard?
She can't cum from sucking on her boobs can you??
Thanks
Well i answered the fingering question before so i just copied and pasted it here for you. Hope thats ok!!?

Well you could get like started by rubbing her belly sofly. Whisper in her ear you love her. Slowly un do her paints stay calm. Look her in the eyes. If she says stop then stop if she dont then keep going. Pull her paints down to her lower thigh. Tell her not to be scared and youll try to be slow and not to hurt her. Tell her if she wants you to stop just say it and you will. Let her no its ok to moan you wont mind. Kinda rub her inside of her leg first then pull her thong or whatever on down. Slowly rub her. Watch her face try to see what shes feeling. Push alittle harder after awhile. This slowly put her fingers in her. Now kinda like move them around wingle them. If you can try to put two fingers in her. Make her moan dont be scared to push in there. Now your fingers are gonna get alittle messy but the messier the better. Maybe like turn her on if shes like kinki by letting her see you lick your fingers off. Dont worry it wont hurt you. When your all done just just tell her you love her again and help her pull her paints up, Now your all done and you just fingered a girl. Let me no if i helped. And for anymore questions just ask!!!

Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley



Oh and that person who said girls dont cum is wrong we so do cum!!

Q: I like this guy and we've made out a couple times. Now im thinking of going further and jack him off and finger me..im just so selfconscious about my hair..i can try to trim it but theres just a lot of hair..and forget shaving..i get these red bumps no matter if i use lotion and stuff...so what should i do? trim? just not do anything? he would probably be turned off if i didnt do something about my hair right. : / be honest all you guys if you answer
thanks
Get Nair!its great. Thats what i use it takes it all off. Theres no red bumps(oh i hated them) You put it on for 5-10min then wash off. Bam all the hairs gone. LOL its like magic. And yeah lots of boys to me are turned off when it comes to hairy peaches. But if he loves/cares about you he wont care.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are

A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven

Thanks for your answers ladies >.>

Well to me if the girl loves you she shouldnt care. But if your willing to do that cause i no it would hurt to shave it all off so i would pick D *-*Hope i helped*-*


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: I kind of itch, and ache in my vaginal area. I dont know what it is. I dont think its an STD because Ive been checked and I havent slept with anyone else, and neither has he. Theres no odor or anything else coming from it, it just itches a lot. Can anyone tell me what this might be?

Thanks a lot

It could be a yeast infection. They make you itch.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: so theirs this boy and my best friend likes him nd hes trying to fuckk me and i dunno what to do. . help

thanx
If your a true friend and im sure you are youll straight up tell him NO. Also let your friend no about this even if it might hurt her but if she finds out from someone eles its gonna hurt her more!!

love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: alright so my boyfriend and i started having sex; we've been together awhile and i completely trust him. We're 17.. still too young for children. I know, we should be using protection but we aren't and i was wondering if there is anyway for me to get birth control without having to tell me mother? She's overprotective and thinks that sex before college is a huge "no no." Do you think i should try talking to her about it? Should i tell her that yes, i have been having sex? It would be the more responsible thing but i know she would never let me and my boyfriend be alone or go anywhere together anymore. Help, Please..
Id talk to your mom about it. Your 17 almost 18 so your ready to make your own choice. Just tell that you love him you no. You wouldnt have sex with someone that you didnt love and to trust you. And im not sure about getting pills with out telling your mom cause im not planing on getting the pill. Hope i helped


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Sweetie Pie Ashley

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Hey!! How you all doing today? Well im ok i guess people. My names Ashley im 15. I go to the dumbest school ever Shenango!! I love to hang with my friends, partying, listening to music, riding my horses, talking on the phone, watching lifetime. Ohs i have black hair brown eyes 5'1 and a 1/2 cant forget that 1/5 115lbs(im fat i no) dont tell danielle i said that she'll kick my ass!!lol oh yeah im BI!!! I'm a freindly person and i love to meet new people and try new things. I'm a smart girl too but i have no commion sence!!Well i dont no what eles to say but ask my some great qestions plz im here to help when it comes to anything. Every one says im a great peron to talk to about problems. Well i love all of you Poop butts!!
*:.rate me !
.:*[a]ddiction: Boys
*:.[b]irthday: March 1
.:*[c]olor: light babi blue
*:.[d]ream: To have a great life someday(Nikki live with me)
.:*[e]yes: lots colors
*:.[f]riends: too many to name!
.:*[g]rade average: B+ ? lol
*:.[h]air color: Black with some red
.:*[i]nterests: Partying % hanging with friend
*:.[j]ob: barn cleaner
.:*[k]razy: KRAZY AINT EVEN THE WORD FOR ME!!
*:.[l]ocation: in a sucky place called New Castle
.:*[m]usic: Punk, Rap, Metal, Rock
*:.[n]ame: Skeeter
.:*[o]bsession: SEX
*:.[p]lace: Computer room
.:*[q]uotes: love quotes
*:.[r]ace: um..Indian
.:*[s]pecial talents: I can lick my boob
*:.[t]ell something about you: I love my girlsss
.:*[u]nbelievably embarressing moment: too many to name!!
*:.[v]ery best thing about me: My sexi body(Lisa you no you want this)
.:*[w]orst thing about me: I cry over everything
*:.[x]tremly daring stunts: I can hide boys
.:*[y]ummy food: Fruit
*:.[z]odiac sign: if only i new how to spell it LOL
.:*[1]love
*:.[2]Friends
.:*[3]Party
*:.[4]Drinking
.:*[5]Sex
*:.[6]Sexi boys
.:*[7]God(what god??)
*:.[8]peroids
.:*[9]Hair



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