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high school starts soon whats the best way to get a good reputation with people? im really nervous please help me out!!!

Dont ahve a grudge against people, an look like your a nice person..have a smile on your face all the time..help people if they need help, an ocasionally talk to people you dont know..Join activities..like sports or clubs or even plays

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i have a great friend who is turning 16 tomorro. he desserves a great little get together because hes soo nice and caring. him along with me and 5 other girls are really close and i want to do something for his birthday. (not a party, just a get together for 5-10 people)

i was thinking having us eat at a restaurant and of course my friend eats free..what do you think? what could we do after?

thank you

Go to a nice resturant eat dinner, an go bowling, movies or even to the mall to just go to arcades look around hang out or something...or go to the mall eat dinner there an catch a movie if your mall has a theater.

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okay well i met this dude through a friend...and like his parents are split..so now this weekend he is going to his dads and he wants me to call him and like thats no problem ...but i ahve no clue what to talk about...if you could answers this asap....

thanks!

Talk to him just like youd talk to your friends. Tell him what you did today maybe that will bring up some conversations. talk about tv shows or music.

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I am, going out with this guy, and in JUly (that time i was nbot going out with him), so anyway i was calling him names, becuse he lied to my friend (Rachel*), so in Augest the guy asked me out and i said yes so Emily, called Rachel and said that I was going out with that guy and she called me a slut. What should I do should i be her friend or no?


*-named changed

She might be upset because you are dating him.But if she is a true friend she will take back what she said and apologize to you. And if not then she wont, and you relize she wasnt your friend from the begininng if she thinks ur a slut.

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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?

She might have an irregular peroid. It could be because she doesnt have enough iron, or because she got it so young. If she is concerned about it have her go to the doctors and they will give her some pills to make her have a regular peroid every month. I had to do it when i was younger.it helps.

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ok do u think its bad like if u go with ur best guy friend 2 tha movies like kuz hes datin a a grl and she alwayz brings a friend so wuld it be wrong if he invited me and went i mean she knos were bffz and all but i jsut think she might get mad but im not 4 sure like if it wuld look bad or wutnot...??

I dont think its a bad thing, my best friend is a guy and i used to bring him to the movies wid my ex and me. Its ok you guyz are just friends and if she knows that then its good.She would prolly have more trust for you to, to be together alone if she knew you more. So go to the movies with them and have fun.

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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?

Thanks a bunch

It seems like he has a little thing going on for you. I think you should maybe ask for his phone number or sn or just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. When you guyz starting beign friends tell him how you feel and that you want something to be there between you to, he will understand, an he prolly has the same feelings for you.

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