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My name is Sam. Im 15 years young and yes i do enjoy giving people advice. No im not afraid to ask for advice for myself because i have and i will. I'm not going to lie to you about something when im answering your questions or giving advice. I'm going to tell you straight up the truth about how i feel. But if i offend anyone or hurt your feelings just tell me and i will appologize. I do have a life other than this and please don't expect me to be on 24/7, cuz i probably wont be.
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I went out last week with this guy I have huge crash for a while.
We made out, and he called the next morning to applogize whatever he did, and doesn't want me to have the "wrong idea".
I don't think I ever want him to be my bf, but what he did/said actually hurts my feeling. I'm not sure I want to talk to him again, but there's this feeling inside of me wanting to go out with him again.......
what should I do?
(I felt he took advantage of me, just because he knew I really like him but obviouly he doesn't like me enough to consider my feeling.............)
guys can be extremely low sometimes and just want to do stuff with you without having to take responsibility for it. so he got to make out with u and have a good time without having to worry about it and he clearly wanted you to know that he didnt want you to think it was anything more than just a makeout by calling you to tell you that.
- for example i know exactly how your feeling bcuz i went out with this guy but wen he broke up i still had feelings with him and he still had feelins for me but he didnt want to go out wit me he just wanted to make out with me and do stuff but not have to worry about my feelings. it completely crushed me because he knew i liked him.
-its okay to still have that feeling inside of you wanting to go out with him again. thats how you feel when you care about someone or have a "crush" on someone. if you dont want to talk to him anymore dont. its good that you dont want your feelings hurt anymore. Tell him what he did was wrong and that he cant just makeout with you. its all of you or none. or just ask him if he cares about you.
-if he doesnt then its best that you just move on, im sorry that a guy would do that to you, because i kno what it feels like to have that done to you.
hope i helped :] oxxx Sam
I've liked this kid for a few months now, and we've become close friends. We talk all the time, and hes in half of my classes. But, because we've become so close, i can't tell if he likes me as a friend, or if he wants to be...more. In class, he talks to my friend and I, but he seems to pay attention to me more than her. When I started dating this kid 5 year older than me, and he got mad at me, and wouldn't talk to me for weeks, even after I had broken up with my boyfriend!
Do you think he likes me, or is he just watching my back?
In my opinion from what you just told me it seems like he has feelings for you. You should talk to him about it. Ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel. Guys tend to get jealous really easily when it comes to a girl they like or maybe kinda like dating other guys. but he could have just been looking out for you and not want you to date someone 5 years older then you. but i think that the chance is that he likes you . but im not him so talk to him about it. or talk to one of his friends if you are friends with them. :] hope i helped. dont hesitate to ask me for anymore advice on my column. oxxx Sam
well i have this best friend lets say his name is umm starr lol anyways i figured out a few months ago that he liked me...a lot and like i told him a few days ago that since we were friends i couldnt hide anything from him and i told him i knew he liked me.. but now everything is all akward but the thing is we`re trying to get ourselves through it and we`re helping eachother get throught it.. we call eachother everyday which is kinda weird b/c the problem is us. but i`m really glad that we`re helping eachother b/c if we werent it would be really akward.. i guess i do like him a little but what am i so confused about?? and what should i do?
You should try talking to him about the possibility of you liking him. Its good that you were honest with him and told him that you knew he liked you and its natural to be awkward around eachother now but if you like him you should tell him and maybe talk about going out/dating but make sure that you guys always stay friends no matter what because im sure you dont want to lose "starr" as a friend :] and im not quite sure what you mean by being confuzed about it. but maybe you're not sure if you have feelings for him or not? best thing to do is talk to him about it but only if you're comfortable telling him :] hope i helped. let me know oxxx Sam