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okay heres my story..what should i do?
i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!
hey! just be honest with her and tell her your hurt about the whole thing because you havent seen her in a long time and you wanted it to be just you guys. but i think you should go anyways even if she brings the other girls maybe you will make some new friends! and ask her if you two can do something together alone really soon, and you dont have to spend money just have a sleepover or something so you guys can catch up and just talk! thats always fun! but when u go bowling dont got there with a negative attitude like you're not going to have any fun, be positive and you will have a good time! and who cares if his ex is there its his EX they r done! and if he still cares about her you shouldnt be making out with him! just follow your heart! :-) hope i helped!
ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!
she has a right to be mad at you! and the only reason she is is because she cares about you and she doesn't want anything bad to happen to you, you're not going to lose her! just say the only reason you did it was because you had all this really bad stuff going on and you didnt have anyone to talk to. ask her if you can talk to her about it, it will make you both feel better and hopefully prevent you from doing that again! make some kind of promise between you both that when you have the urge to hurt yourself you will call the other one to make you feel better instead of going through with it! hope i helped if u need ne thing just let me kno!
My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.
Signed,
Very Scared!
you definately have to let someone know! this is a really serious thing! just confront her and tell her the truth and tell her parents, a counselor or someone!! she might be mad at you at first but in the long run after she gets help she'll be very grateful to you. looking at her diary was wrong, but people make mistakes and its a good thing that u did so u can help her- maybe this was meant to happen so u can save her life! if ur truly her friend you'd help her cause something really bad could happen to her, and shes truly ur friend this wont hurt ur friendship it will probably even make it stronger! even if this down ruin ur friendship (which i really dont think it will), dont u think its better she get healthy so she can live a long happy life?? YOU HAVE TO TALK TO HER!