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Q: i dont know why but i have no friends. seriously, i dont mean that i have a few friends.. i seriously have none, well except on the internet. i dont know why but like everywhere at school nobody likes me. not even the loser kids or the populars. like nobody . i dont know what im doing wrong.. i mean ive only had one school friend and that was four years ago in third grade, and then she had to move to a different state. it sucks.. i dont know what to do.. i mean you just canth ave internet friends. my parents worry about me alot. ive joined clubs and such in school but they treat me the same.. like they dont really like me, really acknoledge me.. and stuff. ive even joined like friendship clubs in school and out of school, even with people i dont know. but like.. its not really the same like that. i dont even really click with the people but who am i kidding at this point i'll take anyone as a friend. i just read in class and etc so that i wont be too loneley and just stand there.. somedays i feel so bad i want to kill myself. what is wrong with me? ive tried getting a new wardrobe, or just being myself.. nothing seems to work. they. just. dont. like. me. am i hopeless? what can i do? i mean like in gym class your internet friends arent gonna be there so you can partner with them and not be the "extra" person that has to join a group with people who'd rather not have you there. -sigh-
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If you're truthfully being yourself then i dont see any reason for someone to not be your friend. you changing your wardrobe and trying to hard is not going to make people like you anymore. Just be open & honest, have a sense of humor, help someone when they need it. If you see someone crying in school ask them if there alright, if you see someone struggling with some school work ask if they need your help. Show them that you are a caring person. Because if i know anything, its about friendships. I have had friends come and go, and others who wouldnt even give me a second glance to be my friend, and im okay with that. When people see who you really are, they will want to get to know you. Your going to see throughout you're entire life some people wont accept you for who you are, and you cant worry about that you just have to continue with what you are, and everything you want to be.
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Q: Melissa IS MY BESTFRIEND IN THE WHOLE WORLD...AND MY HERO!! =)
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good cause i love my bestfriend =)
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Q: okay im a friendly girl and i like making friends with people ... but how would i become friends with someone that i wanna become friends with but i dont even know her? like yeah they know who i am and i know who they are, but how would you start to really know them? from the things i hear and the pictures i see, and from what other people say, i just picture us getting along and becoming friends. But then i dont know what to do from there so i need help ...
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tell her you like her hair or something, then you started a conversation and keep talking. say hi to her in school after you talked to her, and then ask her for her screen name and you`ll learn more about eachother.
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Q: i did sumthing bad that i really shouldn't have with a guy. and now ppl r gunna start to find out in school and im scared that im gunna lose friends over this...the 2 closest friends of mine r disappointed in me. i dont kno how to handle this i dont know what to do. and i feel sick to my stomach about it too...i dont know why i did it i wasnt even thinking and i regret it now because i feel so horrible...i dont know what to do!
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hayy we all make mistakes. at least you thought about what you did, next time think cleary about the outcomes that are gonna invlove with what you doing, and not whats happing rightthen and there. yes i`m sure people in school will find out, school is all about gossip, but learn to ignore it and keep your head up high, so you made a mistake, you got to learn from it, not let people look down on you. yes i`m sure your closest friends are gonna be upset and dissappointed with you, but dont they have every right to be? i mean think of it as if they did that. If there really that close with you they`ll forgive and forget and help you through it.
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Q: ok i want to have a halloween party so about how much do you think it will all cost and what are some things to do like games and about how long should it last i rate high
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Well depending on how many people you want and how much food and supplies you`ll need will give you an outcome of a cost. First off figure out how many ppl your having wether its 10-15-20 or higher, ideas for food, would be ordering pizza, having a taco table were everyone could make there own, chips and pop and all that. Once you figure out how many people and what your gonna have to eat then for games you could have a haunted house in your basement were each group has to figure out the clues and has to find an object and whoever gets it wins a prize, or you could ever rent some scary movies and have a movie night. After you figure out exactly what you need, add everything up and see how much it will cost. ethier way you do it, i`m sure it will be fun.
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Q: Hi missy! I have a problem see this girl I know doesn't like me and well I guess she wants to fight me... but I don't like fighting and I don't want to fight her. I have no idea what to do she says that she'll still fight me even if I don't want to. And shes also bigger than me... If you could help me out I would really appreciate it!! Thank you!!
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if she doesnt know you, then she has no reason to want to fight you, no matter how much courage it will take you need to have a talk with her wether its online, through an e-mail or in person. Ask her exactly why she doesnt like you (not in a cocky way) let her know you have no problem with her, and that you want to settle things without violence.
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Q: my best friend can be really rude sometimes...she would make fun of my friends just because of how they look...and i think its really wrong and it bothers me. i think all of my friends(girls) are pretty in their own way...and when i would tell her that she would make a face or turn away. even with the guy i go out with she makes a comment or brings me down. and i hate it. im trying to find the right time to talk to her about it but if i do, i dont want her to flip out and get all mad at me. but im really getting sick and tired of her. she is really imature..but i dont wanna lose her as a friend cuz shes really close to me..i wanna know if there's a nice way i can talk to her about it because everytime she acts like this i feel like screaming at her but i always hold it in. i cant let her keep saying stuff like this about my friends. and if she's got a problem with my friends then she should keep it to herself because i know i dont wanna hear it. she even makes fun of her own friends too...there were so many times where i just wanted to yell at her for it because i just couldnt say it in a nice way but i dont like being all screamy and yelling...i just need a nice way to tell her..
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Well its wrong for people to put others down. But no matter what you say to someone, everyone will put sumone down. its sumthing called opinions, alot of them can sound messed up and hurt others feelings.. but thats what people do their inconsiderate of others, and somehow think there better because there prettier or smarter. everyone is speical in their own way, and thats good that you can see that in friends, and respect people. If your bestfriend has no repsect for your friends or you, then their certainly not gonna respect her back. Just tell her what shes doing is bothering you because those are your friends, and how would she feel if this was all flipped around on her. Tell her to get to know them, before she puts them down, and if she still seems to make the faces and says rude remarks, tell her to keep them to herself, because you dont want to hear it.
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Q: i have a really good friend who is a guy,(im a girl) and i\'ve known him all my life. his aunt and my aunt are best friends and thats how we met. we sw each other alot when our aunts would get together and bring us places with my brother an some other friends. we would go camping,hiking,sleepovers,campfires, and all that other stuff...and everytime we were together we would have so much fun and i loved hanging out with him because we got along so well. we talked about alot of stuff. he is the same age as me, so we pretty much went through the same stuff. but now that we are getting older and we have more friends, i havent been seeing him as much as i used to because either our aunts are busy or i\'m busy or he\'s busy. and it sucks because i miss him and now we only see each other a couple times a year. and now when we get to hang out, its not the same. we dont talk as much anymore online or when we hang out with our aunts or whoever. i feel like i lost him and i feel like we arent as close and it really really bothers me. i dont wanna lose him more than i already have. and i dont think i can do anything about it because when we talk online we dont have things to talk about and we dont know what to say. and yeah i know we\'re growing up and making more friends and we have more activities and things to do, but i just really miss the times we would hang out! and i keep thinking about it and it brings me down. my aunt sees that we\'re not as close anymore either, and she feels bad. sometimes i dont even wanna hang out with him when we get the chance too because now its so boring and stupid. i dont know what to do and i dont know how to handle this !!!
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where to start, throughout your life your gonna meet people who mean everything to you, and their gonna hold a speical place in your heart no one can replace, but instead of thinking how boring and stupid your relationship is now, dont push it anymore, you guys were bestfriends you made endless memories and gave eachother something that no one else could give you both, the love of a true friendship that was hard to handle of letting the fact come through that its over. One thing about growing up has a downfall of growing apart, i wish i could tell you everything was gonna be okay, but you both are different people now, and different lives and now will meet other people who are gonna need your love and strength to the pull the friendships through for others. there is a time and place for everything. not being close anymore doesnt mean stop talking forget what you had, or simply getting over upset about the past, because its gone and now you have to look forward for whats going to be coming at you. You both gave eachother a gift, and that was being able to tell eachother everything and still loving them for who they are. there will be a time in life where taking 2 oppsite paths will approach you. "everything happens for a reason"
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Q: okay so theres this boy & he acts like he totally likes me and i like him alot too...i mean we talk all the time and we smile at eachother at random moments..but when hes around other girls he flirts with them and he barely talks to me...what do i do ?
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Typical Guy .. thats their way of firlting with you.. in other words making you pretty much jealous. He knows how far he can push u and thats exactly why he is doing that, tell him how u feel about that whole situation .. maybe hes blind sighted on the whole idea of liking eachother.
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Q: im good friends with this person. shes really nice and funny and is like a best bud. she knows i like her and i know she doesnt feel the same. but she says im a good friend and a nice guy. but everytime i ask her to go somewhere it seems like she has another ecuse. shes been acting differently ever since she knew that i liked her but she knows that i kno were just friends. i just want it to go back how it was before when were seemed like real good friends. lol i dunno what im asking but maybe u have advice
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okay, in MOST cases no matter what you do after a girl knows u like her she is gonna feel different around you, even if she knows ur just friends. If she doesn't feel the same, give it sum time maybe she will in a littl while.. don't give up hope. Unless you certain all she wants to be with you is friends. Just treat her as much of a friend as possible, and sooner or later it will all feel the same again.
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Q: what do you do if you want a question to ask missygrl but you just ccant think of one and its killing you?
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lol then don't ask til u get one =)
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Q: what if your obsessed with this girl named melissa but you dont want her to kno
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haha obsession is not always a good thing .. but i think u gave this one away =) lol
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Q: do you tell some one you like them even if you know that they might not feel the same way?
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Depending on the situation, if u want them to know then go for it, because you never know maybe if you tell that you like them, then there feelings might change.
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Q: what do you do when some one keeps on throwing things at your table in lunch and hits your friend in the eye?
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Laugh about it and brush it off - it's no big deal throw gum wrappers back not brownies!
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Q: what do you do if it seems like aLL your friends are like dispearing and your friendship is too?
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Let your friends know what you think is going wrong. Try and talk with them about things, bring up old memories and how much these people mean to you. Try and set a time when its good enough for you guys to hang out and spend time together, if ur really for it nothing is impossible, theres a way to make everything work out
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Its okay to want someone you cant have. Its okay to keep friendships when you dont want them,or want something more. Its okay to cry when you're hurt, & its okay to stay mad at someone who hurt you. Believe it or not, its always going to be okay. Thats just how it works. Sometimes, things dont always work out the way you want them to, & a lot of times, it seems like they never will. But its okay, thats how lifes suppose to go. Its all about learning how to deal with the bumpy parts in the road & waiting till they're smooth again. Its all about forgiving & forgetting. Its all about waiting & wishing. Thats just how life is.
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Gender: Female Occupation: school Age: 17 Member Since: March 21, 2005 Answers: 86 Last Update: October 8, 2007 Visitors: 4815
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