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Hey guys instead of calling me by my real name you can call me BaRbIe ok. Im 13 and i love giving advice yOo got a question ill answer it ok so there yOo go... You can start now by reading some other questions and then that may help yOo with asking yOur questions ook! have fun and remember yOo dont have to sign yOur name ok! Have fun ~ BaRbIe ~ xoxo

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i was a bitch to my best friend, and i said some completely horrible things, and they will not forgive me, altho their friendship means more than anything to me, how do i make this person forgive me?

hey well first of all if you were a bitch to your best friends then you should no they are probally not going to want to talk to you for a while even if you tell them your sorry or you want them to forgive you they probally wont be abe to for a while so just give them some time and thats all i can say... ~barbie~ hope i helped

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Hey, it's Siren here...my best bud and I have known each other for 13 years. We're both seniors in high school. All of a sudden, this year, I feel like we just...split. I can't talk to her about the important things in my life the way I can talk to my other friends. Like, a couple of my friends from band and I - well, I guess - bonded one night and I feel like I can talk to them more than I can talk to her, and I've only known them for 2 years. I can talk to them about things like french kissing with pop rocks (just an example, lol) and if I tried to talk to her about it, she'd just go "oh...um, okay," and change the subject or something. She's always been a little less mature than me, I suppose, even if she is a year older than me. But it's never bothered me until now. I want to be able to talk to her about these kinds of things, but I can't, and it's bothering me. Because of it, we're pretty much splitting. It really sucks because we used to be like sisters. She used to know all my secrets. Now only one person does, and it's not her. I wish it was, though. I mean, I miss being able to talk to her about anything. Help if you can?
-Siren =(

ok well this is pretty easy to answer... See siren a lot of times when a teenager is growing up they tend to have moments or times in there life where they dont feel like expressing themselves maybe what you should do is just say look ... i think you should tell me whats going on like why you never seem to wanna talk to me anymore then see what she says then go on from there ok... make sure you tell her that you still wanna be her friend ok hope i helped... ~barbie~

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Well, I have two best friends, and i feel like the third wheel. Although they say im not, I feel like it and my parents see it too. I dont know if I should split off from them, or hang on? And, theyre always sort of depressing, and i dont like that...but every1 else in my school has best friends...i feel like i have none
help?

ok well it seems to me like you should talk to your friends and say look i really love the fact that your my friend and that i have friends like you but i just dont really like the fact that it seems like im an added addition like u guys never treat me like i part of the gang friendship what everyou would like to call it, basically i feel like im just there like you guys dont really need me or want me to be your friend ok so tell me now and tell me true how do you feel are we all friends or do you not want me to be like one of your best friends... plz tell me ok just say that to them ok hope this helps girly ~barbie~

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my friend, lets call him billy lol
well me and billy were best friends last year. i sorta liked him and it was obvious he sorta liked me also. but i have feelings for him and now we talk all the time but not as much as we use to. i miss it alot. but last year the rumers that went around were to hard for me to handle. but when me and billy talk he always smiles n talks about old times and how much he misses it. well we have nick names for each other but for a joke and mine iz pillsberry and his is dickhead (he asked me to call him that lol). i know stupid names but he calls me pillsberry because im really ticklish and everyone at school tickles me. i really like him and i think he might like me back but when hes around me hes so true but when hes with his friends he just walks away from me. and when hes eatin lunch he would wave at me and i would wave back but his friends would hit him and make fun of us. i really dont know what to do. i like him alot. im so confused about our friendship


please help

thnx

Well sounds to me like you should really talk to him about how much you like him and then ask him if he would ever considering you as his girlfriend b/c see a lot of times these things just need talked out so talk to him and tell him how yOu feel dont wait to long because you dont want it to be to late... let me no how it goes...
~ barbie ~

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I have this friend who used to be my best friend ever. We still talk alot and she is still a good friend but we have been spreading apart. We always talk about how we dont hang out enough but every time I try to hang out with her she is out with other friends or wont call me back or just doesnt pick up. Its making me really frustrated because she is awesome but I am to the point where I just want to stop trying because she never trys to hang out with me Im always trying to hang out with her. Should I just give up? And is she just trying to tell me she dosent care anymore?

ok well see a lot of times people just need time from eachother or time from being friends maybe if this helps... you should sit down with her and just say look i want to be your friend but it seems like u dont wanna really be my friend anymore is this true? Do you really wanna stop being friends or do you really wanna just give up and stop caring... ask her those questions then let me know how it went? hope this helps ~ barbie~

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